Time wasters walk of shame

[Rooter]

Originally Posted by Hot Summer

This really isn't a time waster situation.
That's more of just an inconvenience with booking because you want instant response.
I call those dick emergencies & you should definitely make sure your provider offers no notice appointments.
This gent actually contacted me for over 7 months before ncns .
So he wasted all that time then books me to take up my schedule which wasted more of my time .

I wasn't trying to get off topic. I realize this isn't a no show, but I do know it puts off some providers. I don't know if providers I reach out to offer spur of the moment appts. That's what I'm asking when I reach out. That's sort of my dilemma, do I reach out to more than one and how long till I try another. I get messages back sometimes 12 hours later so obviously I can't wait till I hear back to move on always. I guess I'm looking for ways to be courteous to all. Sometimes I don't have advanced notice.

[mizurymule]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

We were discussing NCNS, or wasting their time, not trying to book. If you booked a lady and she doesn't respond that has nothing to do with waiting an hour, thats supposed to be YOUR hour.....

Sorry, I was just replying to Rooter's question about waiting for a reply to his text..

[NordicJag]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

We were discussing NCNS, or wasting their time, not trying to book. If you booked a lady and she doesn't respond that has nothing to do with waiting an hour, thats supposed to be YOUR hour.....

That was a reply concerning time wasting. He was saying that hobbyists cannot expect an immediate reply for the reasons he gave. A hobbyist needs an immediate reply, then he should say so and say that if they don't reply in a certain amount of time, then he understands.

[Hot Summer]

Originally Posted by Rooter

I wasn't trying to get off topic. I realize this isn't a no show, but I do know it puts off some providers. I don't know if providers I reach out to offer spur of the moment appts. That's what I'm asking when I reach out. That's sort of my dilemma, do I reach out to more than one and how long till I try another. I get messages back sometimes 12 hours later so obviously I can't wait till I hear back to move on always. I guess I'm looking for ways to be courteous to all. Sometimes I don't have advanced notice.

I'm sure It can be frustrating trying to book with short notice availability.
However this isn't a time wasting situation because you will just move on to the next.
No one's times being wasted over some text messages was my point.

[Hot Summer]

Some lady's might call you a time waster over a few text but that's not really the case .
If you've reached out many times & never booked = Time waster
If you've book & don't show up or cancel
Your date
= time waster

[Hot Summer]

I have to say this has been the most respectful conversation I've had on this bored in over 3 yrs

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by Hot Summer

I have to say this has been the most respectful conversation I've had on this bored in over 3 yrs

Alot of that has to do with the way you handle yourself Summer. You've been clear about the issue, but respectful, and so hopefully your treated likewise. Often these posts become rants, and both sides veer out of bounds.