2 references … rant

[Cendell M]

Originally Posted by Astros1965

Ladies’ prerogative as to whether they are willing to provide refs. Ask the lady up front before booking if she would be willing to provide one or two, and also ask how she would like to be contacted. Most don’t want you to provide their number, particularly if she doesn’t publish it in a public forum. Also, it is wise to not abuse the privilege if she provides refs. Typically I would ask for no more than two before I schedule another visit. Courtesy goes a long way.

A65

This

Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

There are no unwritten rules, every lady is different.

Don't assume a lady will be a reference just because she openly says she will.

Some require them but won't give in return.

Some won't give a reference to a lady they have an issue with.

Always ask beforehand if you can list her as a reference & ask what info you can give even if it's already openly posted.

A young lady recently posted about having a bad encounter because she went against her better judgement & didn't wait for P411 references to reply before meeting a guy so P411 isn't immune.

And this

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Htownbemer

It’s very simple. If you ask for references you should be willing to give references when asked by another provider. What keeps this hobby going.

And what if the date didn't go well?
Negative references are included in these definitions being discussed.

[Pitroom]

Op just have a solid name like I do. Providers don't ask for my references. Everyone knows who @thehobby is. Build a great name, therefore references are not needed.....

[MarcellusWalluz]

Originally Posted by Pitroom

Everyone knows who @thehobby is. Build a great name, therefore references are not needed.....

Red Carpet Service

[Uomo]

Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

Red Carpet Service

Right, like why aren't ladies paying him?

[Cendell M]

Sorry Pitroom but I spit my tea out on that comment lol

You need to do better for your namesake

[Dorian Gray]

Wie eine weise Hure einmal sagte: „Meine Muschi. Meine Regeln.“
: As a wise whore once said, "My pussy. My rules." :

Das könnte hier wohl auch zutreffen
: That could probably apply here as well :

[Demolition]

Originally Posted by Pitroom

Op just have a solid name like I do. Providers don't ask for my references. Everyone knows who @thehobby is. Build a great name, therefore references are not needed.....

Yep, the gals that live under the overpass generally don't require references

[winn dixie]

I hear if you have mod ties you don't need references ?

[Pitroom]

Op I hear anyone affiliated with the 5 families, capos, henchmen and soldiers; ladies require 5 references. Just saying. Good luck Op. My money my rules. Money don't spoil. Well unless you are Pablo Escobar and you bury it for too long

[Jackie S]

A while back, I moved to Lake Charles. I come in to the Galveston area every now and then to do consulting and to oversee certain jobs. I see one provider when I come to the Clear Lake area.
Since I am old, it is simply too much of a hassle attempting to jump through all the hoops in order to set up an encounter with any other Lady, even though I have been around since the old ASPD days.

Besides, the Lady I see does a great job.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

I hear if you have mod ties you don't need references ?

I wish.
ECG still requires references from me.
I've told her to ask:
the bartender, the gal from the ocean beach, the gal I taught to ski, etc.

[winn dixie]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I wish.
ECG still requires references from me.
I've told her to ask:
the bartender, the gal from the ocean beach, the gal I taught to ski, etc.

Don't mention that name around tswd.

A lot of providers don't take references no more. They want personal info. Not happening here

[Cendell M]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

Don't mention that name around tswd.

A lot of providers don't take references no more. They want personal info. Not happening here

You are correct

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

.... A lot of providers don't take references no more. They want personal info....

Very very common, pretty much required, around the NYC metro 3 plus states and also DC.
LA and Chicago going that way as well.