Had some money issues

[Savannah Moon]

Nikki..
I hope you are able to find a few new friends out of this.
You know the drill..just ignore the unnecessary & focus on the kindness.
Prayers young lady.

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

Respect is something I constantly talk about..and look at you.
For years I've been talking about respect and disrespecting women. And look look at you right now. You'd think by now it would have sunk in. There's no reason or Rhyme or Reason that it's not affecting you the way that I feel like it should. There is no reason a man should be on here being disrespectful an opinion spots or anything else for any reason and t h e r e most of you go.

What do you think we're making $300 an hour 8 hours a day? You have no idea what is going on in anybody's life to make a judgment like that but I do know that there is absolutely no f****** reason for disrespect. Ever. Towards women. Or other clients. So why don't we try to get that in check. I mean like for years I've been talking about this

Very good. I've always respected you and your position in this forum. Feel free to speak with ANY provider I've EVER seen and I can assure you that I treat them all with respect. Several ladies, (and I treat them all as ladies), became good friends.

I'm sorry we disagree on this subject. I made an effort to let the lady know that this type of messaging is NOT good for her business. These types of posts are talked about frequently in the mens lounge and other places, and I can assure you that its not a road a lady should go down, asking for help from the entire group. I also attempted to make this as general as possible because she is certainly not the only one who posts like that, its becoming rampant. Unfortunately she took it as an attack on her, which was not the intent. I'd also add that respect is a two way street, and there are certainly "ladies" on here who should remember that as well... I hope your surgery goes well, and that your future endeavors are all that you hope for...

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

Very good. I've always respected you and your position in this forum. Feel free to speak with ANY provider I've EVER seen and I can assure you that I treat them all with respect. Several ladies, (and I treat them all as ladies), became good friends.

I'm sorry we disagree on this subject. I made an effort to let the lady know that this type of messaging is NOT good for her business. These types of posts are talked about frequently in the mens lounge and other places, and I can assure you that its not a road a lady should go down, asking for help from the entire group. I also attempted to make this as general as possible because she is certainly not the only one who posts like that, its becoming rampant. Unfortunately she took it as an attack on her, which was not the intent. I'd also add that respect is a two way street, and there are certainly "ladies" on here who should remember that as well... I hope your surgery goes well, and that your future endeavors are all that you hope for...

We can agree to disagree.
I feel this is the perfect place to ask for help, if needed.
She didn't post a request to be shamed, or lectured or both.
She simply asked for help.
If you can't then don't. But a response in form of shame on you and you have the audacity to ask us men..come o Falcon.
We are in THE WORST inflation scenario and in the brink of a recession AND housing market crash .
Just saying.
I personally think our intentions have been perfect.
But this is just completely unappealing.
You DO NOT know what her circumstances are nor do you have the right to call her out.
IMO that is totally hurtful and out of line.
Tis the season..
Give if you can..shut the pie if you can't. Simple .
And why you guys look down on anyone who aska for help is beyond me. Why? Why would you look down on somebody who needs help. What, what in the holy hell is wrong with asking for help and if you guys look down on women who ask for help then I personally would never want to see you. Ever. That goes for all of you men who sit on pedestals and criticize women who ask for help.. that's just my thought and you can look down on me for that for all I care. Not saying you're a bad guy just saying that's in bad taste upon your character to do so. You might think about that. No offense. Just my thought for the day.

[KCFalcon77]

I know you consider yourself a champion for the ladies side. I hope you realize that high costs and inflation have affected BOTH sides, whether it's huge losses in the market to rising cost of living in general. The two sides in this equation come here to have specific needs met. NEITHER is more important than the other, or there is no reason to even be here. The are certainly gents who come here who because of this economy not to mention the explosion of pricing from many ladies for dates, that they are being priced out or the market. For many men this interaction is vital for their phycology to feel viral and well.
As for this site being a help line, again how does that work for the gents? What would be the response if a regular poster here was really down on his luck and struggling, so he posted here that he really needed some ladies to HELP him with some dates so that he would feel better mentally? Do you suppose that would be well received? Now maybe he could contact some providers with whom he had a relationship and they might be inclined to HELP him with his need. I highly doubt however that him posting here in general would be well received or in the ladies area. Would those ladies be person's of poor character as well. Just another side to consider. Respectfully

[Nikkilove91]

Well for one, no men can post on the ladies area. This has absolutely nothing to do with my post falcon. You do this everything I post anything. Grow up bro

[bigkansas1]

I've followed this post from the beginning, and I must say that I completely understand where Falcon's coming from! This is a "two sided" debate. Not saying one is more right then the other. But Falcon really wasn't being shameful to Nikki...he was simply pointing out that this isn't what this site is set up for. And I totally agree with him that if men were on here asking for "dates" per bono...the ladies on here would go balistic! Can't have it both ways ladies!!!! This economic crisis is hitting EVERYONE, some more then others, but everyone is feeling the pinch. If you are in a bad place, you need to look at all options to find your way...but it is truly YOUR responsibility to do so. NEVER assume that when sticking your hand out for help, that folks are just going to help.

[Nikkilove91]

You still don't understand. We cannot post ads. Like wtf do you not understand about that. So posts like these are the only kind we can post. Thank you!

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

You still don't understand. We cannot post ads. Like wtf do you not understand about that. So posts like these are the only kind we can post. Thank you!

What I do totally understand, is that your in the same boat as ALL the other ladies who post here in that regard, or do you disagree? The majority post things like "here in town, what suggestions for what to do, or where to eat", things like that. We ALL know these are ads. You however typically choose posts like this, or your "911" post and its your usual MO. Call it an ad, call it begging, whatever you want. As I clearly stated there are some ladies all over doing this stuff, and most gents don't appreciate, nor being contacted for "help" after they've seen someone. Believe me, I'm NOT in the minority with these thoughts. I thought it might be helpful to know that this is not good long term marketing for anyone who posts like this. Your not interested in my observations so I'll make no more comment on it. Good luck to you, and yours.....

[Nikkilove91]

Yeah and I have done that and still gotten blasted so thank you

[BNF2]

Seems to me that a truly concerned gentleman would have sent a private message with his “advice” rather than publicly providing “constructive criticism.” I mean, isn’t that the point of his advice: Keep things private, don’t air it here?

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by BNF2

Seems to me that a truly concerned gentleman would have sent a private message with his “advice” rather than publicly providing “constructive criticism.” I mean, isn’t that the point of his advice: Keep things private, don’t air it here?

Great you send the message and let me know the response you get. Your fine with these continued posts or the ones guys keep getting after they've seen someone requesting financial help, great. Enjoy. As I've already said I posted because this is NOT an isolated incident, or one only involving this provider but it becomes more prevalent every day. My apologies for commenting. I'm sure if you contact the OP she'd be happy to take your donation though.

[Dr-epg]

Members, The ECCIE coed forum is open to all discussions conversations as long as they are within the guidelines

Just a reminder these are not allowed
Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site

[bcm1969]

[Lubeman]

Originally Posted by BNF2

Seems to me that a truly concerned gentleman would have sent a private message with his “advice” rather than publicly providing “constructive criticism.” I mean, isn’t that the point of his advice: Keep things private, don’t air it here?

Everyone is a adult here we should be able to take care of are own money. Imop

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by Lubeman

Everyone is a adult here we should be able to take care of are own money. Imop

Lube, lube , lube
LMFAOO
Do you know what else people are in charge of ?? their own post and what they post.
Ridin the wave