Advice needed from the Ladies!

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by gentleman123

BD, you are usually right on most things but no it's not me. You have the Midas touch with all the ladies and energy and resources for the hobby. Just observation from reading here.

I agree UC offers/shares great wisdom with all in the hobby. Only once the wisdom he shared with me was stern! Lol

Wolfhound the Ladies I asked to chime in with their opinion have not except Nikki. I respect Dee, YD, SM so their input was important to the issue. These ladies are the only constant on this site for a female opinions. I'm disappointed but respect if they don't have an opinion to share.

He will just have to let go! He told me once he spoke to a friend of hers in concern about her safety. She went off and said she felt like a fool and betrayed. Over a PM asking if she was ok!

Go figure!!

This hobby is getting harder and harder to deal with and not much different from RL relationships.

Thank you all for your input!

Thank you for the respect. I would have chimed in sooner but haven't been on heré to see it till now.

[gentleman123]

KCpitch you are correct in your assessment.

On her behalf RL has been difficult for her so he was always hopeful when or if things got better there might be a chance. OBVIOUSLY there is no chance.

YD, Nikki and all the gentlemen that responded thank you for your input. The thread was useful to advise my friend and nothing ugly was said thank you!

I respect Dee and SM for not responding. He has not ever had any contact with the ladies I asked for their opinion. I however over the years have texted Dee, YD (being bold) & SM once in a great while. I know they don't remember every guy but thought the might recognize the handle from the past. Here or 411.

You are all appreciated. I had the same initial thoughts for him to move on but you all reinforced that advice.

[yourdesire]

Yes gentlemen I remember you. It hasn't been that long since we spoke

[gentleman123]

Thank you for remembering YD. you were up early today!

Having lunch with him tomorrow. The thing he told me was he was trying to show her that she was worth the wait.

I'm pretty sure he has come to the conclusion that nothing will come from waiting! time to move on and let go!

[Savannah Moon]

Mail order bride.
Heck yea..Tons of those young ladies need homes!!
It's a win win IMO.
Sorry I was late to the party

[Savannah Moon]

DAMN!!!!
LOL
I thought for sure that was great advice.!!!!He kept calling me out,.
didn't you OP didn't you keep asking me what my advice. Now, nothing..... crickets LOL imagine that!!!

[gentleman123]

Ms. Moon thank you for your input in the matter. It appears you gave it deep thought and a heartfelt opinion. It's really just a laughing matter....

I guess that's what happens when you hold someone in such high respect.

No crickets RL happens as you know right? my father and I buried our best friend today! Years, years of fighting cancer. He was a fighter 12+ years every kind you can have he had.

I met with him yesterday at lunch. He feels like a fool and said it's in the past.

I truly appreciate your advice. Forgive me for trying to include you.

I see why most people don't participate with questions and replies!

Enjoy the popcorn.

[gentleman123]

Thank you all........

Mods can you please close this thread?

Thank you

[Lubeman]

What is this Dear Abbey?

[gentleman123]

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