Rant

[Russel204]

Ok so here’s my take on HL
Everything has gone up food gas travel ect. ( except paychecks lol)
Now if ladies are charging premium rates you shouldn’t have to deal with poor communication ghosting ect
Ladies and gents everyone’s time is important!

[Boeingguy]

Originally Posted by Russel204

Ok so here’s my take on HL
Everything has gone up food gas travel ect. ( except paychecks lol)
Now if ladies are charging premium rates you shouldn’t have to deal with poor communication ghosting ect
Ladies and gents everyone’s time is important!

100% agree! Btw. What’s HL? Lol

[rollbama007]

I’ll join in. For the love would you guys stop paying $300 for a massage lol. I see some post 600-800 for an hour (not massage) and I’m thinking are they getting a single phone call? And I’m curious about HL…what’s that?

[Russel204]

HL Hobby life as opposed to RL or Real life

[BigShit]

Originally Posted by Russel204

you shouldn’t have to deal with poor communication ghosting ect

welcome to the hobby, friend
I've gotten to the point where i actually think my kink IS getting fucked around.

if they were dependable, punctual, conscientious.....they wouldnt be women.


j/k I feel the pain and its unfortunate MOST ladies can just 'show up' (or not) and be successful. Ive written reviews on here before where i set something up with reputable girls where I'M hosting only for them to ghost me and the eccie members are defending the broad and telling me to give her another chance (because arranging and outcall and my business schedule can be that cavalier)

Try ordering a pizza after work when you're starving only to call back 4 hrs later WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU?

Except my dicks needs are far more important to my stomachs. There is no "ah, just sleep on it"

[Russel204]

I know what you mean Bigshit.
When I started you expected the ghosting, bad comm, and catfish from the 100 back page ect. girls

[BigShit]

i usually only deal with Tryst, Slixa or p411 girls because of this. They (would seem) to be the most 'professional'.
Its helpful if WE do our part and get right to the business in communication.
1. I am a ____ race ___ old, living in ____
2. I want ____ minutes
3. On _____ date
4. At ________ location
5. Here are my references

at that point it will be CONFIRM and AGREE. No back and forth.
This helps a lot.
That doesn't mean after all that, I still don't get a
> "yes, but check back with me the week of the appt to see if i'm still available"
> "yes, but call me the day of the appt to remind me"
> "hey running a lil (45 min) late" (even though I've known about this date for 2 weeks)
> "yes" (NCNS - then ask for a do-over)

[Russel204]

Same here
I kinda scan STG for shits and giggles
But mainly I use Tryst then back it up with either p411 or reviews, that’s kinda weeded out the NCNS or ghosting
Seems in the last 6 months or so that gone down hill
But it is what it is

[holmes50]

This hobby thing of ours you must take the good with the bad. It’s been bad here for awhile. Been in North Alabama for 6 years, it wasn’t that good in 2016 and now even worse.

These days I spend my money in Houston and Atlanta.

[bhm35173]

Just got back from ten days in Panama City Panama, local bars where there are over 100 women at anytime, from 6 to 9.5 in looks and and $ for a couple of hours of great service. Birmingham has all but died for HL. Costa Rica was the same.

[jacobc]

Originally Posted by bhm35173

Just got back from ten days in Panama City Panama, local bars where there are over 100 women at anytime, from 6 to 9.5 in looks and and $ for a couple of hours of great service. Birmingham has all but died for HL. Costa Rica was the same.

I’m jealous! That sounds like one hell of a trip!

[FLWriter]

Originally Posted by holmes50

...
These days I spend my money in Houston and Atlanta.

True that.

Oh my, the money I've spent in Houston clubs. One might, just for a moment, think I was addicted to naked women.

[jordynkriley]

What I wouldn't give to have all first time clients send a message like Big Shit describes!! It would make things so much easier. I love it when I get a "hi". That's it..nothing else...at that point I already know it's going to be a loooooong process. LOL

[Sgent30]

There are some providers that need to just go ahead and retire or just stop trying to get people to see them. Age catches up

[FLWriter]

Originally Posted by Sgent30

There are some providers that need to just go ahead and retire or just stop trying to get people to see them. Age catches up

Clients, too.

Of course, usually we know when. When the little engine that could can't any longer, it's time to quit.