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Old 03-21-2022, 11:21 AM   #16
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I don't personally ask for deposits but what works for me is not what works for everyone else and everyone should respect a reputable lady who asks for one.
I believe there is a thread BBG started here that links to the Twitter accounts of all of Upstate NY's providers; most of them DO ask for deposits and for those who don't want to do deposits, that's fine, they're getting paid anyways so just stick with a provider who does things you are comfortable with



Also, I've seen the screenshots. PLEASE do your research on providers before you book with them!

You should ALWAYS look for the following:
* REVIEWS (even if girls have a no-review policy, there is always *something somewhere* about how her services are)
* ONLINE PRESENCE (a lot of providers use Twitter; for those that don't, you can look back on ListCrawler/EB to see a provider's previous ads and the dates/times they were posted)
* REVERSE IMAGE SEARCH (take the provider's photo and plug it into google! a lot of catfishes are using photos of actual providers and models, and finding them online is pretty easy)
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Old 03-21-2022, 11:34 AM   #17
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Some of yall need to learn how to read the room. 9/10 times it’s easier to just jack off. Save your money for a reliable experience
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Old 03-21-2022, 12:29 PM   #18
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I don't personally ask for deposits but what works for me is not what works for everyone else and everyone should respect a reputable lady who asks for one.
I believe there is a thread BBG started here that links to the Twitter accounts of all of Upstate NY's providers; most of them DO ask for deposits and for those who don't want to do deposits, that's fine, they're getting paid anyways so just stick with a provider who does things you are comfortable with


Also, I've seen the screenshots. PLEASE do your research on providers before you book with them!

You should ALWAYS look for the following:
* REVIEWS (even if girls have a no-review policy, there is always *something somewhere* about how her services are)
* ONLINE PRESENCE (a lot of providers use Twitter; for those that don't, you can look back on ListCrawler/EB to see a provider's previous ads and the dates/times they were posted)
* REVERSE IMAGE SEARCH (take the provider's photo and plug it into google! a lot of catfishes are using photos of actual providers and models, and finding them online is pretty easy)


BUT problem

Some seem done with homework after looking at pic's
then the good instructions you just gave, Some will never read



I seen guys be told how to play the now dead hooker bar game.
Then go out the door with a known grab n dash girl
101 must be hard, know none walking in, Be Mr Next and look if guy or both smiling when coming back in.


on icky, not only read reports. Take Note of all who did them. You can hate a guy and say if he saw her ok worth a shot, all the way I like that guy BUT he saw her so mmmm ok no way in hell will I, (just form "yes" only reports)
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Old 03-21-2022, 12:29 PM   #19
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Unless I am mistaken, you can cancel a Venmo or Cashapp deposit payment if you get ghosted
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Old 03-21-2022, 03:13 PM   #20
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Unless I am mistaken, you can cancel a Venmo or Cashapp deposit payment if you get ghosted
Unfortunately once its sent you cant.the only thing I could do,which I did was report it as a scam.i did the same on tryst..reported deposit but no services provided..but all they will do is change the contact number and create a new profile with different pictures.
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Old 03-21-2022, 03:47 PM   #21
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Never give a deposit.
Never ever.
Yep!
Never have and never intend to.
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Old 03-21-2022, 06:10 PM   #22
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Never give a provider a deposit unless you are absolutely, verifiably positive that you are comfortable having it stolen
Never give a deposit.
Never ever.
fify
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Old 03-21-2022, 06:35 PM   #23
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I do not ask for a deposit. I always make my appointments and most of the time the guys show up; 98% of the time.
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Old 03-22-2022, 08:39 AM   #24
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I do not ask for a deposit. I always make my appointments and most of the time the guys show up; 98% of the time.
Of course they show up - Have you ever seen you naked??

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I just need everyone on here to remind me of what an idiot i am!!tryst.link got me again.I deserve everything i get!! Sending an escort a deposit in anyway is a huge mistake,but almost everyone of them wants a deposit!!

Go on...tell me what a dickhead i am
No need to pile on - you already know. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Wanna go for 3??
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