Would you ever date a provider / client ?

[Guest072323]

What happened to Mountain Goat? Banned?

[lilylivered]

I hear he crossed over to the other side

[Guest072323]

Sex change?
That would be one fugly lady....

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by valkyra

the fact that you put so much self-value based on sexual performance is concerning in itself.

a boyfriend isn't just a boyfriend because he "fucks well". there is more to being in a relationship than fucking each other. just because you have good sexual chemistry with a client does not mean you would be able to date them. if someone has a good session, i expect a boyfriend would be thankful his girlfriend had a good day at work and would support her making her own money.

Whores have no idea whatsoever what normal people believe about relationships between men and women because they've been so warped by what they do to scrape by financially.

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Whores have no idea whatsoever what normal people believe about relationships between men and women because they've been so warped by what they do to scrape by financially.

Some do much better than scrape by, and some have done so for a decade or more. This is not to say they have not been damaged by real life failed relationships, sometimes as the result of their "profession". But they enjoy a lifestyle that they would otherwise not be able to afford. Isn't that the essence of prostituting one's self?

[Next Best Thing]

I'm sure that prostitution has kept them from resorting to housekeeping jobs in shitty hotels, working as cashiers in supermarkets, or wiping the asses of mentally retarded mongoloids.

A tolerable lifestyle is always going to be a subjective experience.

I read what the whores and the male lesbians have belched out on this thread, it's very sad.

[bf0082]

Apparently 12inch was right, girl got fucked so hard and good by a client, she totally lost interest in being in a relationship, who would have thought that was really a thing, hmmm

[todwheelbarrow]

once a whore always whore !

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by bf0082

Apparently 12inch was right, girl got fucked so hard and good by a client, she totally lost interest in being in a relationship, who would have thought that was really a thing, hmmm

he probably had someone dump him and tell him that its "because the sex was better", not that her new partner was better at other base things like communicating and other boring stuff that us as sex workers never knew about or forgot about as soon as we entered the profession.

[Next Best Thing]

The judgement of internet whores is very much to be trusted.

Also the shit they yap out.

Rock solid.

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

The judgement of internet whores is very much to be trusted.

Also the shit they yap out.

Rock solid.

do you ever get tired of hearing yourself talk

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by valkyra

do you ever get tired of hearing yourself talk

Sometimes.

Don't sustain any emotional damage from what goes on here however, unlike certain others.

[12InchClock]

Originally Posted by valkyra

he probably had someone dump him and tell him that its "because the sex was better", not that her new partner was better at other base things like communicating and other boring stuff that us as sex workers never knew about or forgot about as soon as we entered the profession.

Not at all. Contrarily, ive had hookers tell me i fuck better than their boyfriend, and 2 offered to let me fuck for free because they enjoyed the session so much.
As i said before, my last relationship prior to fucking whores was primarily revolved around sex. My now, insignificant other, wanted to marry and have children, and i did not, so we parted ways.
My notion on prostitutes and clients was based on probability.
If you are fucking frequently, hundreds, or thousands of dicks a year, one or more is bound to hit the right spot. And you will enjoy it.
Even at my current occupation, i deal with at least 100 customers per week. Although i hate working here, and most customers are annoying, there are always a few who are pretty interesting, funny, or fun to handle. And i wouldnt mind getting to know them outside of my job. I assume the same applies in most jobs, including the hobby.

[12InchClock]

Originally Posted by bf0082

Apparently 12inch was right, girl got fucked so hard and good by a client, she totally lost interest in being in a relationship, who would have thought that was really a thing, hmmm

Wow are you serious? That sucks. But i knew it could always be a possibility. Someone is bound to fuck the girl extremely well and hit the right spot till she cant resist and has no choice but to submit.

[valkyra]

Originally Posted by 12InchClock

If you are fucking frequently, hundreds, or thousands of dicks a year, one or more is bound to hit the right spot. And you will enjoy it.
Even at my current occupation, i deal with at least 100 customers per week. Although i hate working here, and most customers are annoying, there are always a few who are pretty interesting, funny, or fun to handle. And i wouldnt mind getting to know them outside of my job. I assume the same applies in most jobs, including the hobby.

RIGHT THERE, thats where I have an issue with your statement. WHY do you think we hate our job?
I personally love what I do. I interact with clients maybe 4-5 hours a week, the rest is time consuming BUT I enjoy managing web pages, taking pictures for ads and mingling with other like-minded, kinky people.

I get to spend the days taking my dog to a park and, if I feel up for it, meeting up with a gentleman for a lovely afternoon romp when i'm feeling horny. My bills are more than paid, my animals are well taken care of, my own health is good, I spend time with my family and loved ones and get to take the time to pursue what I want to do. Sex with strangers is exhilarating, and when it builds into a friendship it truly blossoms because you're SO open with each other sexually! You can be completely yourself with a provider or client. THAT is what working the hobby means to me.
The hobby helped me get clean (weird, right?) and helped me get my life on track. Not trying to toot my own horn, but I dare say I have my shit more together and live a better quality life than the people talking shit about providers. I'm going to enjoy this for the few more years I'm in it and then enjoy being able to retire by the time I'm in my mid-30's, if everything goes according to plan.
Which, life doesn't have a plan - I get that. But I'm doing what I can, with what I have, and right now I am secure and content with my place in life. I love being a man's fantasy experience. I love helping people explore new kinks. Do YOU wake up and feel sexy as fuck because hundreds of people desire you? You should try it sometime. It's really great for your morale.
There may be one or two employees you want to know outside of a job, but there is a big work rule - don't fuck your co-worker, remember that rule? Its because it causes dysfunction in the workplace. You have to evenly distribute the love, because it also builds up great client-provider relationships and keeps people coming back.

If I met a client, and lets say the sex was great, and lets say i wanted to know them outside of work - I wouldn't be attracted to them if they were afraid I'd just "move onto the next one" every time I saw a client. I don't need that stress. I'd just make their experience even MORE mind-blowing so that they kept coming back. Then I could have the best of both worlds! Seeing them without having to deal with relationship-related stress.