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Old 08-16-2021, 11:40 PM   #1
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Default Seeking.com

A while back, probably several years, there was some discussion about finding women on Seeking and someone gave advice on how to spot those and how it worked.

1. What are the signs that someone is open to a pay for play arrangement? What do you look for in their description?

2. How do you message them and what do you say? How blunt/specific are you on the first message?

Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
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Old 08-17-2021, 09:24 AM   #2
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You need premium and read read read the Sugar members section. If you want to delve into the Sugar world. All the advice is in that section - good luck - sa isn’t what it use to be
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Old 08-18-2021, 03:14 AM   #3
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Honestly you can find a lot more women on there, than about anywhere else around here. Plenty of 18-22 college girls to pick from. Plus about every other age. There is constant turnover, so you have new ones to pick from every day. Yes, there is a lot of bs to wade through. The picture and video girls. Ones who want you to send them money for things first. Meet in public first for a sizable amount. Ones that will flake out and stand you up. Others that think no strings attached means you just hang out platonically.

To start there are the girls who post they are looking for friends with benefits and no strings attached. Some will hint that they are looking for a mutually beneficial arrangement. A discrete arrangement. Open minded and seeking some fun. These are your best bet.

Pictures also help you. The ones who are going to play for pay, will have the more provocative images.

There are also girls on there from sites like tryst link, eros, etc. Just using it like the other sites.

Your best bet is to let them text you off site. The site knows why we are here but at times they will take a girl down for being too suggestive. But I have seen profiles that basically say you call, they do it all, you pay and that's all.

You can find a true gem that is low volume and low price. Most will want what true providers want plus they expect you to pay for a room. On average you can get 2-3 hrs of time with them. A lot will let you buy a meal, take them on local outings or even a vacation if that is what you want. You will spend a lot, because they expect to see you weekly. Still you can do a one and done. Then look for the next one.

Good luck.
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Old 08-18-2021, 04:13 PM   #4
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Thank you. Exceptionally helpful!
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Old 08-19-2021, 11:06 AM   #5
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I paid for a month of SA, and only ended up meeting 1 girl that wasn't a prostitute.
Most of the time you are going to get fakes trying to run some deposit scam, or claiming they need "gas money" and want you to venmo them $40 or some shit like that.
Just laugh at them, call them stupid, report them, and move on to the next.
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