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the0eldest · 06-06-2021, 03:11 PM

Is it just me, or is the independent scene here seem to be dead?

All the reviews seem to be from girls with services, and I've been having a horrible time getting a response from anyone. STG seems to be all scam postings, or just out and out no ways.

Are the good ads somewhere else or have all the decent girls moved out of the area?

Suggestions comments welcome....

csemper2015 · 06-06-2021, 03:51 PM

The fall of backpage. Agree with you. I started using seeking.com. Had great success but takes a lot longer and more effort. But payout is amazing.

the0eldest · 06-06-2021, 04:00 PM

I travel a fair amount for work. I find different area's use different sites. Find the right url and there usually isn't a problem unless i'm in the middle of no where...

But this whole hobby has been a bear since COVID.

gimme_that · 06-06-2021, 07:58 PM

No it sucks. Just be patient and don’t settle for less than you want. See the proven pros. They have quite a few fuglys on stg. Different girls there same pimps. Avoid the rotations........

Pooyie! · 06-07-2021, 12:59 PM

I'd have to place Nikki Tylor on the top of your list. I've seen her, and the hype is all true. Besides, she's active here on ECCIE, as well as Twitter, Eros, and Tryst. She started a thread here recently as a nice intellectual discussion around how slow it's been.

Next would be Leigh Grey, or Epiphany. I've known her for over 15 years now. She advertises on Eros only to my knowledge, but she's also very active on Instagram.

Naleigh Rain, Jillyclaire, and Gabby LaBelle are all on Tryst and active on Instagram.

Lana B is very active on Twitter, as well as Audrey Amor and Melissa Madyson.

I used to be down on Tryst because there are several ads up from ladies who previously announced they were no longer seeing clients. But in their defense, they put those ads on the last pages, and indicate when each lady was last active on the site. Jacinda and Keri are two examples of ladies active on Tryst and well reviewed on ECCIE.

Hope that helps.

gimme_that · 06-08-2021, 04:30 AM

Some people’s interpretation of creams of the crop surely change when I see some of these ladies in public and face to face. Just saying.

Not a lot of “youthful” fiercely attractive BADD chicks persay coming through New Orleans as there used to be years ago. But that’s just my opinion. And when they fit the bill they are attached to an agency and non independent.

the0eldest · 06-09-2021, 01:09 PM

Yeah even 2 years ago there was a good.... middle ground.

When i wanted to blow 500+ for an hour there were options that felt worth it... when I wanted to spend less, there were options who's homes I wouldn't mind walking into lol

gimme_that · 06-09-2021, 05:14 PM

That touring Brazilian on p411 looks hot right now. But I don’t do agencies usually. I might be missing out. I just don’t like having to ask someone’s permission to see someone else. It’s just weird to me.

myren1900 · 06-09-2021, 05:36 PM

Eros always have about 25 escorts available.There are usually several hot local girls like The Water Company, Nikki Tylor, Blonde Beauty, Devyn, Belle Nola and the Alia girls just to name a few. On top of that there are world class traveling girls, like Carmen S. who is incredibly hot IMHO. We certainly do have a selection of quality providers in NOLA.

Pooyie! · 06-13-2021, 01:10 PM

... to all of the good and active ladies that I inadvertently omitted in my suggestions. I got a very thoughtfully-worded PM from Rhea Blayze and we exchanged a few more PM's. I looked at her reviews and wow ... I've been fantasizing about her all weekend, LOL.

I suppose I can understand why the OP feels the way he does and might not be very interested in my suggestions, especially if he's a younger guy. It just occurred to me that practically all the ladies I follow are over 40 ... because I'm an old fart!

All Providers, young and old, have to put up with a lot of BS from us. I'm about certain that's why most of the young beautiful ones either set their rates very high to serve as a filter, or enlist help from the Agencies to handle all of that BS. I've never used the Agencies, but are thankful that we have more than a few good ones. I'm also thankful for the more mature ladies that have found ways to put up with us.

Nicecreaman · 06-13-2021, 10:20 PM

No I'd say its pretty lacking . Still curious as to why. Most of the lady's on Tryst are for real.

gimme_that · 06-13-2021, 11:36 PM

I have a few that are traveling here for me. But you have to book that weeks out. Very few here you can book or want to within a short time frame of less than a day.

I see a whole bunch on p411. Averaging 600 plus an hour. But most don’t check it. Or they have been there for years and have only given 3 oks total.

Or they have advertised here for years but don’t get reviews as much anymore. There’s usually something attached to that but I won’t comment.

And if you want gfes most time you have lost the battle asking already. Pse is very non existent. And this supposed to be New Orleans full of decadence and debauchery. Palease.

Lackety lack lack.

DATYMAN · 06-14-2021, 10:35 AM

They are just finding other ways to post as mentioned above and the cost is like going to buy some lumber..........haha.

swamptech · 06-14-2021, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by the0eldest

and I've been having a horrible time getting a response from anyone.

newbie since beginning of the year and found the same.
Contacted a good two dozen before May and only hooked up with ONE, to date. A handful have returned inquiries but are spotty on setting anything up

I don't have the experience to understand me wanting to throw money at them and they just aren't open for business

the0eldest · 06-14-2021, 07:21 PM

Yeah. I'm 40, but am a... last moment booking type usually.

My budget pre-COVID was pretty flexible. So I ran a wider range of options, these days with a lot of the uncertainty running about I tend not to let myself wander around the 500+ options.

Eros when I started didn't let you connect from US IPs, and i never bothered with the extra steps to go around that. I'll have to take a peak there if that's changed.

It just seems like I used to find options that... convinced me to spend more than I really wanted to, much more often. And these days, it feels like the cost to menu limitations ratio is much worse...

The total situation ends up with that I am looking to spend less than I was before, and only the... bad options are left. Understandably deposits are asked for more often, and frankly that's a hard pass for me unless they have a hell of a reputation to put my trust into. Given the trickle of reviews around here lately... That's just not happening.

No specific problem with the women that are still working. But generally if I'm going to spend a pretty penny, I'm rarely looking for someone that's been in the hobby longer than I have been...

Usually If I'm paying it's for something I feel like I can't reasonably get on my own. If that's younger, than I feel like taking the ribbing for, or a specific kink, or a specific feature I've been dreaming of lately... Varies but when it comes to someone close to my age, unless there's a helluva hook, that just isn't it.

And yeah, I ran an experiment. I texted even a bunch of the obvious scams. Response rate is pretty low across the board. Idk what the deal is? What app is everyone using these days?