Question to providers about younger clients

[lonelyldr]

Hello providers in NWA!

I am new to the "hobby" and the forum in general but I figured I'd start posting (gotta start somewhere~). I hope everyone's having a wonderful Sunday and a good labor day weekend!

I just had a question with regards to younger clients in the area. I noticed that a couple of providers (not everyone) have set an age limit to only see gentlemen of older than a certain age (usually 30+ or 35+ or in some cases 40+). Is there a reason why? Also during screening, does age play a role in seeing or responding to a client? I thank you for taking the time to read this thread, and thanks in advance for replies.

[CH Luke]

Originally Posted by lonelyldr

Hello providers in NWA!

I am new to the "hobby" and the forum in general but I figured I'd start posting (gotta start somewhere~). I hope everyone's having a wonderful Sunday and a good labor day weekend!

I just had a question with regards to younger clients in the area. I noticed that a couple of providers (not everyone) have set an age limit to only see gentlemen of older than a certain age (usually 30+ or 35+ or in some cases 40+). Is there a reason why? Also during screening, does age play a role in seeing or responding to a client? I thank you for taking the time to read this thread, and thanks in advance for replies.

Well, I'm obviously not a provider, but I'll throw you some feedback until the ladies chime in. I think they get a lot of unpredictable behavior from the younger set. Once you get to be in the older set, you kind of know what you want, you don't have time for games, and you show up as agreed, which matches up well with providers' interests. Hope that helps...

I think if you show yourself to be responsible and build yourself a good reputation with a series of good references, that won't be a hindrance for long.

How'd I do, ladies??

[Exchequer]

Originally Posted by CH Luke

Well, I'm obviously not a provider, but I'll throw you some feedback until the ladies chime in. I think they get a lot of unpredictable behavior from the younger set. Once you get to be in the older set, you kind of know what you want, you don't have time for games, and you show up as agreed, which matches up well with providers' interests. Hope that helps...

I think if you show yourself to be responsible and build yourself a good reputation with a series of good references, that won't be a hindrance for long.

How'd I do, ladies??

Nor are you from NWA but no one will say you're shy!

I'm well into the "older set" and that wasn't any indication that I knew what I wanted. More experience will get you that. But being courteous and respectful will always go a long way.

Just act the part and "fake it til you make it" and you will go far. Don't screw it up and be a McLovin!

[Ginger Doll]

I find that very young hobbyists lack the reliability and maturity that the older gentleman have... Not always, but usually. Also, most younger guys don’t make enough to afford my rates. They will schedule, but then get cold feet about the cost right before the date. They are the most likely to cancel last minute or no call no show. That’s why I charge a deposit for anyone under 30, unless they have several good, recent references.

[CH Luke]

Originally Posted by Exchequer

Nor are you from NWA but no one will say you're shy!


[/PRIVATE]

Touché, Sir Exchequer!

You are correct: I am neither a from NWA, nor shy!

However, may i then note in response that neither art thou a lady, nor shy thyself!?

Ahem...Boom Shaka Laka.

😂😂😂

[lonelyldr]

Thank you everyone for your responses and insights. I appreciate your responses as well even if you guys aren't providers. Thanks!

But yeah I do belong to the younger set. I'm between 25-30. I don't necessarily feel like I need to have to hide my age so I don't mind it. But what I do mind is that during screening, I sometimes wouldn't even get to the scheduling part and everything kind of falls off once my birth year on my ID or my photo/age gets revealed since I'm younger and I essentially get ghosted. I've almost always complied to most screening processes if not all when needed and have used proper English and proper grammar when crafting text messages to reach out asking for a meeting.
Like instead of "hey wyd, can we meet tn", I would actually introduce myself in the message and state where I found the ad, and then finally inquire about the donation in roses etc. Abit difficult to do a no-show/lastminute cancel when I usually don't even reach there haha. Not complaining, just wanted to understand why this was a common occurance and wanted some insights.

Obviously this didn't apply to every provider in the area that I've messaged or anything, it's just for the most part from my recent experience. I've had some good experiences as well and sometimes it's just a matter of scheduling issue or free time differences unfortunately.

[Exchequer]

Well you shouldn't have to hide your age. I have seen several younger than you and I don't discriminate. And I will say that a few of them butcher the use of the English Language.

Ladies, give this young man a break. If you add a year to his age for every year younger you claim to be, there won't be an issue.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Exchequer

Well you shouldn't have to hide your age. I have seen several younger than you and I don't discriminate. And I will say that a few of them butcher the use of the English Language.

Ladies, give this young man a break. If you add a year to his age for every year younger you claim to be, there won't be an issue.

I’m not sure who the age reference is directed at? I post my accurate age and it’s reflected in my reviews.

Unfortunately, when the vast majority of men under a certain age have shown that type of behavior… It’s necessary to charge a deposit to ensure that your time isn’t wasted.

OP, it’s really just a question of getting established & building a good reputation.

[Parttimehobbyist]

Hey OP,

Seems like you’re doing everything right and everyone here has provided great advice.

I’m in my 30’s and started when I was 20. I just kept my cool, was professional, and did my absolute best to follow through with my appointments. Never ever do a NCNS (no call no show). That shit will hurt your reputation and will haunt you forever in this industry. If you’re going to cancel, make sure to do it ahead of time. You will most likely do this at least once because things pop up in your life and it’s totally out of your control.

Don’t be a creep.

That’s all I have for now and I wish you much success

[DallasRain]

i see all ages from 24 and up
age is only a state of mind....as long as youre respectful and verifiable,its all good for a ride!!

[Exchequer]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I’m not sure who the age reference is directed at? I post my accurate age and it’s reflected in my reviews.

Not to worry cause it wasn't directed at you, only the ones that have had an active presence on ECCIE for the last 12 months.




Everyone fudges the number downward. Even the gas stations. You really think you're paying $1.59. No you are paying $1.59 9/10 which is more or less $1.60.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

i see all ages from 24 and up
age is only a state of mind....as long as youre respectful and verifiable,its all good for a ride!!

There are exceptions! I have many clients in that age range that are fantastic!

The reliability problems that I have experienced are mainly with new inquiries.

[Hot Summer]

If you're over 21 and screen let the fun begin !
Some of my favorite clients are younger and I enjoy them tremendously!!
Xoxox

[CH Luke]

By the way, Lonely...never, ever give out your ID. 90% of these ladies are really cool, and folks you might like to have a relationship outside of the hobby. But 10% are (or will become) bat shit crazy. I've been within watching distance when some of the absolutely most stable, good natured ladies for whom I've had the highest regard...have gone on zingers into outer space over the years. There's a reason for having a handle (even when you don't really have any good reason for needing anonymity - just on principle). It's just the wisdom of the trade, generally practiced by both sides, since long before any of us showed up. I've learned that things usually are the way they are...for a reason. Happy hobbying, young man! Free advice, and worth every penny!

We're here for ya...

[lonelyldr]

Originally Posted by hot summer

If you're over 21 and screen let the fun begin !
Some of my favorite clients are younger and I enjoy them tremendously!!
Xoxox

This does sound inspiring! Thank you for this reply. Cheers!

Originally Posted by CH Luke

By the way, Lonely...never, ever give out your ID. ------------- Free advice, and worth every penny!
We're here for ya...

Hey Luke, thanks for the tip.
Yeah I gave out my ID if it's required at screening because I guess at some point after not even making it past screening after age reveal so; I started to change how I think and tried to be more flexible. But thank you for your advice.
I'm still learning and hope I'll fit in