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kcjbc58 · 08-16-2020, 11:24 PM

A girl I have been seeing regularly told me she isn't escorting much due to finding a regular M-F 9 to 5 job which she does have. She lists on Tryst and her status is "Active today" almost every day. Does anyone know if that means she is making herself available or does it mean she has actually seen a client(s) that day? If she is actively escorting, I don't know why she would lie?I'm a long time regular and would see her anyway.

FrankieP · 08-16-2020, 11:32 PM

I’m sure it just means she logged into her account. But if you’re looking at her account every day just to see if she is active that’s more than a little stalkerish. Just saying. Unless you have a specific arrangement, it’s none of your goddamn business.

whatstheplay · 08-16-2020, 11:33 PM

I'm not suggesting she's lying, but if she is, it's because she can. Maybe she just wants others to know she's still available, but not necessarily right now, despite the RW job.

kcjbc58 · 08-17-2020, 12:09 AM

It's a little more complicated. Lately, she's been hinting she is short on cash. I've bought her a few things to help out. Then I see the daily ads. Given her advertised hourly rate, if she is escorting just 2 or 3 times per week, she shouldn't be running short with a 9 to 5 job as well. Either I'm getting played or she is working for a pimp. Maybe time to look elsewhere.

Guest031221 · 08-17-2020, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by kcjbc58

It's a little more complicated. Lately, she's been hinting she is short on cash. I've bought her a few things to help out. Then I see the daily ads. Given her advertised hourly rate, if she is escorting just 2 or 3 times per week, she shouldn't be running short with a 9 to 5 job as well. Either I'm getting played or she is working for a pimp. Maybe time to look elsewhere.

Probably both...your getting played, and she is working for a pimp...

bigryan2222 · 08-17-2020, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by kcjbc58

It's a little more complicated. Lately, she's been hinting she is short on cash. I've bought her a few things to help out. Then I see the daily ads. Given her advertised hourly rate, if she is escorting just 2 or 3 times per week, she shouldn't be running short with a 9 to 5 job as well. Either I'm getting played or she is working for a pimp. Maybe time to look elsewhere.

Providers are not always the best with money and you might be surprised how quick some people go through a lot of money. Also full time jobs don't really mean making a fair amount of money. It's crazy how little some full time jobs pay still. Low level health care jobs like a nursing assistant.

I don't know who you are talking about but she may very well be telling the truth on having a job but it pays terrible.

whatstheplay · 08-17-2020, 07:10 AM

K58.....I wouldn't say you're getting played, however we all know it's a game. Assumably, you helped her out because you wanted to out of the goodness of your heart, without expectations, but it sounds like you may have expectations.

As B2222 said, her RW job probably pays very little. I've seen providers get out of the game to get a RW job, but come back to the game because they can't make it on RW pay vs what the hobby was paying.

I don't see anything complicated from what you've disclosed thus far other than you may be complicated thing with possible feelings.

She owes you no answers other than the the truth of your advertised visit. If she floats your boat, simply enjoy your visits with her and don't be concerned about who else she sees or when she sees them.

......and there is my 2 cents.

Saint Expedite · 08-17-2020, 08:56 AM

Active Today simply means that she has logged in to her account that day. She is probably just checking to see if she has any PMs from potential clients.

dumars · 08-17-2020, 02:12 PM

Been there, done that! Keep your “help” low key!! Nothing wrong with a few dollars here and there but if you find yourself being expected to drop major bucks best to back up and maybe drop out!!! You’re probably being played.

My 2 cents.

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Originally Posted by kcjbc58

It's a little more complicated. Lately, she's been hinting she is short on cash. I've bought her a few things to help out. Then I see the daily ads. Given her advertised hourly rate, if she is escorting just 2 or 3 times per week, she shouldn't be running short with a 9 to 5 job as well. Either I'm getting played or she is working for a pimp. Maybe time to look elsewhere.

kcjbc58 · 08-17-2020, 02:30 PM

Thanks, everyone, for the responses. Food for thought.

TailHooked · 08-17-2020, 04:33 PM

She is just logging in but I would say she is still in the game. If she quit, she would take her account down or just get rid of her email and number. Then abandon the account. Only she knows the truth. It sounds if she has been pleading poverty. Nothing wrong with helping, if she returns the favor. From what it sounds like, she isn't. So I would say you are being played. I have been there a few times. They played me so well, I should have used the handle Stradavarius here.��

KCFalcon77 · 08-17-2020, 04:59 PM

Well said Tailhook...

BigDeal · 08-17-2020, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by kcjbc58

It's a little more complicated. Lately, she's been hinting she is short on cash. I've bought her a few things to help out. Then I see the daily ads. Given her advertised hourly rate, if she is escorting just 2 or 3 times per week, she shouldn't be running short with a 9 to 5 job as well. Either I'm getting played or she is working for a pimp. Maybe time to look elsewhere.

Your too emotionally connected...and dont try to do the math on how much she is getting paid.