I’m getting really tired.....

[Sweet88Kisses]

Ppl in this town like setting up appointments but not keep them. Like I’m done with this lame ass town. Never will I ever come here again.

[Brandeye]

So very sorry. A few years ago, I met with a nice lady that wanted to try Santa Fe. Apparently, I was the only one that kept an appointment. We had a very great time, including lunch.

I have since moved further north and Iam sorry that I am missing out on the few visitors like you that enhance our beautiful state. Best wishes in California.

[Cinderbug]

Sorry to hear that. I chatted with Diamond the other day, and was hoping things would work out for you. CB

[RedorGreenorXmas]

I too am sorry that you have had this experience. Though I have been out of the 'game' for a bit now, I still check in here for entertainment purposes and to throw my two bits in every now and then.

Sadly the combination of crappy client and provider communicators on top of the loss of other venues and new laws has driven the hobby to perilous places.

If I may ask (hopefully to help us all understand better), were most of your cancellations through STG or through more established sites like Eccie? I would like to think that most clients on this site would respect a woman's time enough to not NCNS, but who knows.

And the handful of reputable providers who use better sites like P411/Eccie/etc are barely enough to keep them alive unfortunately. When I was still doing a little bit of hobbying I was always dismayed by the number of people who used just BackPage (and now STG) as it just seemed like a cesspool for all involved...

[tonguebath]

+1 RGX

[Sweet88Kisses]

Even hobbies on here flake and say they want to come see me. But it’s like I hardly have any reviews on here so they think I’m not worth they time. But I’ve had over 100+ reviews on red book back in the day before they shut it down. But it’s ok. I’m leaving soon and never coming back. When I have a vacation next year I will make sure not to put this city on my list.

[RedorGreenorXmas]

Im sorry that you had that experience with hobbyists from Eccie cancelling on you... If they made firm appointments, you should list them in the Women's Lounge section of Eccie to warn other providers that they are flakey (just as the guys do in the men's lounge section for flakey providers).

Red Book shut down just before I got involved but my understanding is they were more of a Cali thing than anywhere else. Most of the clients on here probably don't even know what Red Book is anymore, let alone being able to find archived reviews.

I took a look and saw that you don't have any reviews since 2017, maybe it would be worth it to ask a kind gentleman who schedules through Eccie to write an updated review for you... It certainly would help people to learn that you are a legit and quality provider! And also, the more respectable clients here in Santa Fe and Albuquerque have always tended to schedule well in advance as opposed to short notice, so letting folks know through P411 and here well over a week ahead of time will help to ensure you are scheduling more reliable people! STG is mostly useless for all involved. Best of luck to you.

[Expresso Jim]

Thanks RGX. Lots of good advice for everyone.

Originally Posted by RedorGreenorXmas

Im sorry that you had that experience with hobbyists from Eccie cancelling on you... If they made firm appointments, you should list them in the Women's Lounge section of Eccie to warn other providers that they are flakey (just as the guys do in the men's lounge section for flakey providers).

Red Book shut down just before I got involved but my understanding is they were more of a Cali thing than anywhere else. Most of the clients on here probably don't even know what Red Book is anymore, let alone being able to find archived reviews.

I took a look and saw that you don't have any reviews since 2017, maybe it would be worth it to ask a kind gentleman who schedules through Eccie to write an updated review for you... It certainly would help people to learn that you are a legit and quality provider! And also, the more respectable clients here in Santa Fe and Albuquerque have always tended to schedule well in advance as opposed to short notice, so letting folks know through P411 and here well over a week ahead of time will help to ensure you are scheduling more reliable people! STG is mostly useless for all involved. Best of luck to you.

[Sweet88Kisses]

I’m trying to get my p411 up and running it’s just been so long since I’ve been on it but thank you to everyone’s comments

[desertnomad]

Can anybody invite me to P411, please? Thanks.