Ok this is a pretty bold thread. The hobby sure has changed. Original poster this won’t do her any good reputation wise and certainly not you.
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Originally Posted by cajun
Why do we even BOTHER with ROS...
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Doing my best here not to violate any rules like many are doing here.........
What Cajun probably meant but explained in so few words was. If the activity you speak of didn’t happen or even if it did, why reveal it? If it happened and you truthfully dgaf be bold enough to post the abbreviation of the performed activity in the “activities” part of the review. Not many do that. Why because they are worried about the perception that abbreviation displays for them when other ladies or gents see it. If you do it don’t be half assed about it, go full ass and don’t waiver.
BE BOLD some of the guys that posted under you were. But they are fully aware as they post openly about ROS that it’s a violation of the rules. But I also respect that they don’t have a filter and just tell it like it is or was. Even if I don’t agree with the subject matter at hand.
However in your case which is the case in point, if it didn’t even happen speculation and hypotheticals about it isn’t needed either. So you can’t speak on something on open board you might have hypothetically done like you did, but didn’t complete. It’s hella disingenuous. She didn’t advertise for it either; and none of her many recent reviews Had that activity either. Your action does a disservice to her because now both providers and hobbyist will assume that’s what she offers and is now known for which hurts heidi’s reputation more than sadly her business. If you now use her as a reference to see another lady or have her on your p411 ok’s list there a perception now attached to her and you without words needed that other ladies might assume. We know this type of activity exist in the hobby, but for the most part it’s been well contained and not spoken of out of respect for the ladies and yourself. It’s an unwritten rule and perceived trust you violated with her all based on speculation. Mainly because you didn’t perform it.
You didn’t touch upon it in your open activities list. Whether it was pseudo performed or not. That makes you shady. Why? Because you kept it undercover in the non bcd part of your review for your self to keep your own reputation intact. But violated her discretion, trust, and reputation based on what you speculated that never happened. You were too shady to do it on open board, but went to the ros as safe refuge.
The new hobby right now sucks. Y’all just don’t get it. This is young mellinials type of acts and not grown mature men activity. There was days when y’all would be flamed at the coals for this and ostracized hobby wise. But now so many don’t have a filter and dgaf and it’s becoming the norm.
I tend to push limits at times in comments. But even I don’t touch this territory. This will be my only time speaking on it too. But I also didn’t say anything specific.
Because I stayed within the rules not revealing ros info. Many of you guys did. Fix that in the future. I’m not a mod, and don’t want to be. But many of you guys and especially the original poster are hella wrong in your delivery of that info on open board.
Encounter: Heidi yes please
