Farewell sex with ex girlfriend?

[nickjordy]

hello sir nice Title

[nickjordy]

i am upsad anyone is there

[DesWad]

Originally Posted by new2thescene

I dated a chick off and on for 10+ years. She was upper middle class and wanted someone to pay her bills. I was lower middle class and wanted a female to cover some of her bills. No, we did not lie together.
At the beginning,i would often give her daty but at the end of relationship we only had intercource. I love daty and no idea how it stopped. I think she was seeing some other guy and i think she did not want me to see that she was getting pounded by other guy.
We break up 15 years ago and i go over to her house 2 months back hoping for a booty call. We dated off and on for 10+ and it would take 3 dates to get her naked. I figure her looks have faded enough that she would do it. She know my moves and know it was kinda a booty call.
She's 44 and looks slightly out of shape. I have a firm belief that she has only been with a few guys!
I'm slightly older and saved my pennies so per say, i'm middle class and she is lower middle class since her parents are covering her bills. Shes on ssa and dad bought her a house.

So....... i'm planning on making a final booty call soon and i'm not planning on seeing her again. I want to see her taco naked since i have not seen her taco in years.
Her comment when tried the booty call 2 months back was that she was not a prositite. Our sex life toward the end was piss poor. I offered to take care of her toward the end of 10 year relationship if she put effort in sex life. She said i was crude!
So.... how do i get her naked on this booty call?
-Tell her i'll stop coming over if she takes clothes off?
-Tell her that i'll set her up with a guy with money? -She is kinda weird!
- Stack cash in my hand and make suggestion? - They say non pro's cost more!
Any comments??

The thrill of the chase. Totally get it. You can't have it so it makes you want it. This here is a challenge and one that may take some time. But hey it has been 15 years and she has had plenty of cock inside her. What's the harm in using yours another time and at your age what is the concern? The issue isn't sex the issue is your ability to get her out to dinner or drinks because once you get that, you've got the power to get the pussy. You gotta bring back the charm or whatever tool you got in that rusty old bag that can make her smile. It only takes a smile to allow cock in them.

[Fizley]

I totally get it what the OP is discussing. His ex-girl is like forbidden fruit, from a lost era.

Obviously she made an impression on him, as he is going to great lengths to be in-between her legs again. The build up to Being in-between those legs is likely giving him multiple shots of dopamine, planning, memories of how she Orgasmed, the sounds, and the quivering of her body.

To the OP:. As exciting as this may be for you I would be prepared for disappointment. I had a huge crush on a girl in HS. She probably never knew my scrawny religious ass existed back then.

Fast forward 25 years later, two tours threw Iraq, I filled out, graduated from college, obtained a professional license, and found myself single again. While in-between girls I found the hobby...and who do I find on a hobby website? My old crush! I debated for months to hobby with her. When I finally made the decision I had built this so big in my head when it occurred I was disappointed.

The interesting piece to the story is I intrigued her and she still keeps in contact with me. But I will not pay to hobby again due to the disappointment. If it free, I will be back.

[new2thescene]

This chick has only been with me and this guy she met during our off/on relationship. I kinda knew about him and didn't mind since i was only seeing her on the weekends. This chick is a litle odd so i doubt there has been alot of guys. She did claim that she met some guy at the movies and slept with him, not sure if it was true. I did flip out and the relationship ended after hearing that.
The thing about this chick is that a rarely spent money on her since we stuck around her house. She was wasteful with her money so i kept her from spending mine. Sooner or later, i would have to spend my money on buying a house for us. Kinda was waiting for her to set some money aside for us for the future. So... if i go over there, we are not going to out and spend money. She is a 2 hour date for budget rate!!

But... stil thinking about it. My options
Write note with my phone # and put in mailbox
Knock on door and give her my # in person and we talk a tad
Knock on door / give #and ask her for drink and point to boob after she comes back from kitchen. Ask what it worth for her i go out of way. Of course, she will be in the mood after nipple is sucked and things will move on to daty. Her nipples might not be secitive so no guarentee on daty.
Knock on door and ask her if i can get something to snack on and point to her crotch. We would chat a bit before we would talk about snack talk suggestion.
... My trick with her ( after breakups) has always been to ask for a drink or something to eat and it leading to oral.
Frankly, when i went over there 2 months ago, i might of said some stuff that might of turned her off to me. Or rather, i put in the the wrong context.

[new2thescene]

Forgot to say. Yea, i have no game and i don't hang out with dudes or coworkers . Why would a want to empress you to like me.
I'm on tinder and all the matches i get are are scammers wanting money. I'm on a dating site that i get replies from ugly chicks often. I just joined another site and got a few replies but got ghosted if i said anything cheesy/funny
This chick is just as alone as me. If i'm a loser, so is she and she needs to figure that out.

[pmdelites]

so you only want to "see her taco" and perform cunnilingus on her - just one last time ?!?!?!

to each their own, but it does NOT seem like there's much of a chance of you getting it on w/ her. or that the "date"/"meetup" is going to be all that satisfying, much less deliteful.

if you just wanna kiss, lick, caress, suck a woman's labia, clitoris, and vagina, go find someone else who will let you di that for cash (i.e., a provider) or someone who wants that (i.e., a non-provider).

your ex-girlfriend (or whatever you wanna call her) sounds like a dead-end. move on from her and enjoy yourself instead of chasing a mirage.

[Fizley]

Just take her to dinner! Your overthinking this.

[offshoredrilling]

offer bucks n report please n thank you

[Fizley]

This thread reminds me of a conversation I had with one of my buddies after his first date in highschool.

Guy: We had coffee and talked. Do you think I should of grabbed a boob?

Just go for it. She is either going to be receptive or not.

[new2thescene]

This chick would sleep with me on the 3rd- -5th date.. She puts off the sex to show that she is in control. We dated off/ on for 10+ and i broke up with her most of the time. She is afraid i'll leave again if we start up a relationship. I told her 2 months back( when i went to her house for a booty call) why i left before and was expecting her to loose the clothes.
Frankly, there is some stuff i need to work on in my life and not looking for a relationship. But also, she does not have alot of options for guys knocking on her door.

[offshoredrilling]

then give her references also

[Unique_Carpenter]

Ok, how can it be farewell sex if the two of you keep hitting on each other?

[pittlicker]

High school drama.