Rules, as pertaining to newbies, or attitudes,I have developed and use.
No incall’s for newbies!!!
Outcalls - Be explicit in your arrangements! No guess work, no surprises on what’s expected. They don’t like it, go elsewhere. And “explicit” does not mean profane! Plenty of words and phrases can be used in lieu of what you really want to say.
Outcalls - “You come to me alone! No Uber, no Lyft, no passengers”. They don’t like it, go elsewhere!!
Outcalls - “Collect donation when you leave”! This one is the one most likely to be turned down. Stick to your guns. Just don’t short change her. Tip her!!!
Finally, none of this applies to established ladies!!
And you’re right, I don’t score too many newbies but I don’t get scammed either!
Take it for what it’s worth!