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AnnaBanana$ · 12-22-2019, 08:35 AM

Ladies is it possible to have a normal dating life and continue to hobby? Does anyone have any experience with this? Also, when being open and honest do you think its possible to have a healthy relationship and still hobby? Gentlemen would you date a provider if you found out in the begaining? Or even after several dates? I'm just looking for some feedback that's all. I can already tell its going to be a boring Sunday, but if anyone wants to hang out and watch some football or get some drinks let me know!

Richardtx · 12-22-2019, 10:45 AM

Been there, done it. Met her on here. I accepted her profession. At the end of it all, she was simply the wrong choice. I still believe it can happen successfully, but both have to have honest intentions. She was a natural born liar and couldn't stop cheating. Cheating as in doing everything she did in the hobby, except she would sneak around and do it for free.

So yes i do believe that as long as both are honest ... Truly truly honest with each other...it can work.

Nicky Wayne · 12-22-2019, 12:13 PM

Trust & respect if the relationship doesn't have those 2 elements it's not likely going to work.

DallasRain · 12-22-2019, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicky Wayne

Trust & respect if the relationship doesn't have those 2 elements it's not likely going to work.

Ditto....go into it with eyes wide open and open communication

HoustonRiley · 12-22-2019, 01:40 PM

Yes i think so many of us have experience this.
Its deff possible.
This is great advice

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ditto....go into it with eyes wide open and open communication

Harley Diablo · 12-22-2019, 04:01 PM

Never going to work. One are both will fade out. Just my two cents after a couple of tries. If she is out of the hobby a couple of years and him also maybe.

GMTA · 12-24-2019, 08:00 AM

I do belive it can work as long as there is open commuacation

SeV · 12-28-2019, 07:19 PM

I have no interest in dating
I use the forums to find my one night stands and make a little extra.
When I find one that pounds the way I like I change the dynamics

But to answer what you asked I have met some of the top reviewed ladies in their day, who dated both civilians and hobbyists and enjoyed their arrangement .
MAC - Master Artist of Communication
Communication is Key

cowboyup1960 · 12-28-2019, 11:31 PM

What? You mean I am NOT dating every one of these sweet lil fillies that treat me so special even though I am twice their age? I B damned!
Sumbitch! Fooled me. ��
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Nicky Wayne · 12-29-2019, 08:13 PM

CB60 if you're charm don't get them your interpretation of the southern cowboy tongue will. The rest of us just use sign language.

Horn^I^Dog · 12-30-2019, 02:56 PM

Sorry to jump in late. Well, actually it doesn't bother me in the least! LOL

Dating and the hobby don't mix. The gent generally has the anticipation of sex on demand. The gal generally has less "desire" after a hard day's work.

Toss in men are extremely territorial. We don't like someone else grazing in our pasture.

I've seen several instances where a gent married his favorite provider. Every one of them crashed and burned.

Sorry folks,
HID (21-HID)

MuffinMan · 12-31-2019, 09:58 AM

The only time I've seen this work was a married couple that were swingers.

34E Whitney Weston · 12-31-2019, 03:46 PM

MM makes a very valid point.

cowboyup1960 · 12-31-2019, 11:53 PM

Do you mean to tell me that I am NOT dating WW?��
I’ll B!
Fooled again!
Dang WOMEN!

AnnaBanana$ · 01-01-2020, 12:17 AM

Thanks for all of the feedback! Y’all are awesome, every single one of you! I’m not dating anyone seriously, so don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere!! Happy New Year! I hope everyone a fun and safe one! Xoxo, Anna