It has been true in my experience that BDSM can open one up to more complex experiences. One of the instructors at last month's DomCon was Mistress Simone Justice. She's a Dallas / Fort Worth based dominatrix, kink educator, and consultant. To say she knows her stuff doesn't even begin to convey how masterful she is.
Personally, I'm mainly submissive but I find it important and valuable to learn tips from Dommes. She taught a two part Verbal Domination workshop where she shared in-depth psychological techniques to totally posses the mind of your sub during a session. At one point, she made a man she was doing a demonstration on break down and start crying and she did not even touch him or inflict any physical pain. It was really trippy and mesmerizing to witness... almost like a magic trick.
Best of luck on your journey Keri!
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