Without offense

[Cdl019]

One of the first questions discu$$ed when contacting. Hobbyist's have a cap of course, so how do you not offend if its beyond that? It used to be shown in the reviews. For this reason i have not met anyone new. For fear of being perceived as rude. Any suggestions? Sorry in advance if this has been covered.

[JordnJenkins]

Ask if they have a site/ad/link where their donations are posted. If they don’t have one then simply ask what her donation is. If it is above your cap then I would simply ask if she is firm in her rate or is their room to negotiate.

A closed mouth never gets fed.

[Cdl019]

Thank you maam. Just dont want to say the wrong things and be "that guy".

[Nicky Wayne]

P411

[Lena Duvall]

Attempting to negotiate will likely land you on DNS lists. Or in the provider's only section. Avoid doing so if you want to build a solid reputation as a respectful suitor.

This doesn't mean you are obligated to book someone who charges rates higher than you're comfortable with. But if that's the case, a simply move on.

[Issabella Monroe]

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

Attempting to negotiate will likely land you on DNS lists. Or in the provider's only section. Avoid doing so if you want to build a solid reputation as a respectful suitor.

This doesn't mean you are obligated to book someone who charges rates higher than you're comfortable with. But if that's the case, a simply move on.

This makes me nervous always. I have several sites that do have my Info just to avoid this bit it doesn't matter it gets asked regularly and I still always have that spider senses that makes my hair stand up

[BabyDallass]

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

Attempting to negotiate will likely land you on DNS lists. Or in the provider's only section. Avoid doing so if you want to build a solid reputation as a respectful suitor.

This doesn't mean you are obligated to book someone who charges rates higher than you're comfortable with. But if that's the case, a simply move on.

Yes! This! You don’t go to the store and haggle over the price listed on their website. It is what it is, if you want something cheaper then you can move on to the next item or buy the great value version.

I find it a huge turn off when anyone haggles..:/ I feel like I’m worth what I put out and deliver well to make it worth your time

[slobthanob]

I say just haggle. If that escort puts you on a DNS list of hers, fuck it. Theres plenty of wet pussy out there.

[BabyDallass]

Originally Posted by slobthanob

I say just haggle. If that escort puts you on a DNS list of hers, fuck it. Theres plenty of wet pussy out there.

I say if he won’t pay it tell to fuck off and find his cheaper fuck, there is plenty of men with extra bens to spend. PLENTY!

[slobthanob]

Exactly, that "cheaper fuck" most likely sucks dick even better anyway and isnt so stuck up.

[biomed1]

Please keep your comments and responses civil.

[Hot Summer]

P411 is great for this rates are listed and then you wont offend anyone hun.

[Rocksalt]

This wouldn't be such an issue if more mongers would put the donation in their reviews.

[Parttimehobbyist]

Originally Posted by Rocksalt

This wouldn't be such an issue if more mongers would put the donation in their reviews.

+1

[tuckahoe]

It is a problem now that rates can't be posted. It helps immensely to to include rates in ROS. Of course, if you don't have Premium Access, even that doesn't help.
I think some ladies don't answer if you ask their rates. but then I am never sure if it is because I asked, or if my message just got overlooked, as is sometimes the case.

Everything I have ever tried to sell, potential buyers ALWAYS try to negotiate. Even escorts try to get bargains when they want to buy something or need their car fixed.
I never try to negotiate with ladies here; if she cost too much, I move on.
I understand in some cultures, sellers expect to negotiate, and are offended if you don't bargain with them.

Often, some of the lower cost ladies provide as good or better service than some of the more expensive. It is a matter of trying some ladies you think you will enjoy, and seeing if you click. Not everyone hits it off together.

There are a bunch I have enjoyed very much that I don't get around to dating again. So many good women and only so much capital.