Question: How to make providers remember you?

[DunnJackNoff]

I’m a low volume kind of guy. Sometimes a new provider comes around and I want to widen my horizons. It’s common for them to want 2 references. Well, AMP girls certainly won’t qualify and if it was a regular provider but I wasn’t pleased with my visit so I left a bad review-she’s out as a reference. If I had a good experience, having seen 100 men since my visit-I don’t expect her to remember me. And if it was that good, won’t she think “why do you want a reference? Why don’t you just contact me?”
Since they don’t always know our names or even our handle.. how do you make them remember you? I know the guys who think they are super studs will say some wise crack like, “how could she forget the pounding I gave her?” But I’m sure she’s been pounded by someone more memorable.
Sometimes it’s so far between my romps I can’t even expect them to remember me. What do you suggest? Do you always let her know your handle? Even then? She may have forgotten you if it’s been a year or two since she saw you.

[Ripmany]

Seem no problem for me in that regard but I want them to forget me last thing is use my name in front of L.E.. Some every provider remembers me.

[Gfe Juliette]

Because I am a low volume provider, thankfully I remember "ALL" of my gentlemen friends unless it's been years. I know a lot of ladies that practice the same, you just need to find them.

Hugs,
Juliette

[Fizley]

It's fairly easy, just dress up. I usually wear a suit and tie. Nobody ever wear a suit and tie and most times if I ever get the question "how do I remember you?" I can say, "I was the one in the black suit and blue dress shirt."

Works every time.

[jwj6o]

i bring them a drink or take them too dinner, or maybe a bottle, that how i get remembered, bunch of the ladies don,t get fed, but enjoy it when it done, but i don,t paid them too go to dinner or lunch, then back too the room for fun,

[melannie_star]

Your Avatar alone is memorable

[Randall Creed]

Giving them some good wood and tongue bath helps.

[yourdesire]

I usually remember but sometimes need a memory jog it could be just the time together was so memorable. I had someone bring me a boquet of unique flowers 2 years later remember him like yesterday. It wasn't your typical carnations or roses.

[Anonymous01]

0. Be meticulously clean and close shaven. (Yes, down there too.) Pay particular attention to your backside, Wash your entire body and your privates one more time. Use mouthwash.


1. Be genuinely respectful of their time, their screening procedures, and minor scheduling issues.


2. If they prefer to communicate via voice or email prior to a first meet, answer all of their questions. And genuinely ask, "What else would you like to know about me?" and answer honesty, assuming it doesn't compromise discretion.


3. Schedule a multi-hour appointment. Ask her what you can bring in the way of refreshments and snacks. A $20.00 bottle of Pinot Grigio and $15.00 of Lindt chocolates go a long way to demonstrating that you are listening to them and are committed to making them comfortable.


4. Spend some time chatting before the fireworks begin. Listen with intent. Ask for explanation. Don't argue about stupid shit like sports, politics, or religion. Ask her how she is doing and listen carefully to the tone as well as the words. If she's having a rough day, ask her how you can make it better. One lady I saw said that all of her appointments asked her to wear 4 - 5" high heels. (She was 6' without heels, so the effect was breathtaking!) But she said her feet hurt from wearing the heels, so I asked her if she would like a foot massage, and how she liked it. I worked on her feet and calves, and she said, "you're the first one that's offered to do that today." And then she used me in totally unnatural ways for the next two hours. I almost crawled out of the appointment.


5. Make it your priority to give her more pleasure than you receive. Let her know that you need her honest input to make that happen.


6. If you received truly excellent service, tip! I keep a loose $100.00 bill in my shirt pocket and place it just before I leave.


7. Ask her ask you are about to leave, "Honestly, no BS, did you enjoy yourself?" Depending on that answer, ask, "Would you see me again?"


8. Always, always, always be a gentleman.



There are many ladies I would not see again for the full gamut of reasons. But all said that they would be happy to see me again! And here's the kicker - when I've reached out to providers I haven't seen in 4-5 years, they all remember me!

[GypsyHeart]

Bring a gift, especially off a wishlist if they have one.

Tip, be a gentleman. Be clean and punctual. Follow their booking procedures.

See them again! If it has been a while, maybe she has some new tricks to show you. Maybe she has some other changes.

Can't afford a session? See if one you like offers a social date. Take her to lunch or dinner.

Actually do something to be memorable. Keep in touch so the date is in the back of her mind.

[DunnJackNoff]

I think some of you may not understand what I’m asking. I’m not asking what to do so the provider will enjoy the visit and give me a good referral. I am always clean and polite. Obviously if I bring gifts and drop 100 dollar bills and leave her the keys and title to the Mercedes and take a cab home she will remember me and give me a good reference...but that’s not gonna happen.
But I want to know simple ways. Like: “My handle on Eccie is _____”, or “I was the guy with the tattoo of ____ that we talked about” (I personally don’t have any tattoos), or “I’m the guy with 3 nipples” (I cant use that one either) -or whatever. I’m looking for a simple (and free) way to identity myself so she will say “oh yea, I remember you. Sure, I will give you a reference”

[tia travels]

Originally Posted by DunnJackNoff

...I’m not asking what to do so the provider will enjoy the visit and give me a good referral. ...
But I want to know simple ways. ... I’m looking for a simple (and free) way to identity myself so ...

Some of those points made above "were" free and simple. Go back and reread them....posts 4 and 7 are a couple.

Here are some other ways:

Originally Posted by Fizley

It's fairly easy, just dress up. I usually wear a suit and tie.....

1) Like Fizley says: A gent who wears a suit and tie....I tell you, that's good for me to recall because not too many wear a suit and tie, but if you want her to REALLY remember you, come wearing a tuxedo or a scuba suit. Those are things she won't forget.
2). Schedule an hour or more....PAY for an hour or more...but leave after 5-15 minutes into the appt. Those kinds of short appts. who still pay for the hour are absolutely memorable.
3). Do impersonations....someone who can do a bunch of Rich Little type impressions leaves a memorable impression on me.
4). Be a regular....see her often. That's another way to be remembered.

[Gfe Juliette]

Again, I am a very low volume provider. All of my experiences with my "Special friends" causes me to remember them. Most of them just give me their name. I know everyone's name that see me. A large portion of them just call me on the phone and when I hear their voice and look at their phone number, I know who they are. Just like when a friend of yours call.

But, you are in Texas. That area is a different from the area in which I live. It seems to have it own set of rules and a different playing field than here in Nashville.

[Guest083119]

Originally Posted by DunnJackNoff

I think some of you may not understand what I’m asking. I’m not asking what to do so the provider will enjoy the visit and give me a good referral. I am always clean and polite. Obviously if I bring gifts and drop 100 dollar bills and leave her the keys and title to the Mercedes and take a cab home she will remember me and give me a good reference...but that’s not gonna happen.
But I want to know simple ways. Like: “My handle on Eccie is _____”, or “I was the guy with the tattoo of ____ that we talked about” (I personally don’t have any tattoos), or “I’m the guy with 3 nipples” (I cant use that one either) -or whatever. I’m looking for a simple (and free) way to identity myself so she will say “oh yea, I remember you. Sure, I will give you a reference”

Nope...I don’t think anyone misunderstood. The point is the good and generous clients are easily remembered. If you want some random gimmick, then leave a two dollar bill or a specific other trinket and you can forever be known as “The two dollar bill guy.” But I can tell you, if you sit on a lady’s couch and talk a bit about yourself, most ladies will remember you. If you’re seeing someone who sees 5+ guys a day, she probably doesn’t have much time to be your reference anyway.

Reread Anon01’s excellent post. When you go to leave, tip and ask if you can see her again. If she says yes, ask if you can use her for an occasional reference.

[DunnJackNoff]

Thanks for your input- but...

Originally Posted by tia travels

Some of those points made above "were" free and simple. Go back and reread them....posts 4 and 7 are a couple

The third word in my comment was “some” (missed the point). I read all all of them and yes there were a few good suggestions. But my point is if I say “Hey, I was the guy who was punctual and clean and treated you with respect”, I don’t think that will be enough to make her know who I am in most cases.