Sharing

[Fangotosand]

Sometimes a review is written and it leads to some Private Messages in addition to the public comments. I've periodically checked in with some of you myself for some assistance or a questions. As a rule I will engage the well established and contributing members of this community but am mostly reluctant to respond to the lurkers and especially not to suspect participants. Lurkers and voyeurs of the site may become useful contributors over time but should they be entitled to more?



Is it just me??

[abqspencer]

I think I’m similar, I’ll share, but will hold back on those who are newer or non-contributing.

[tonguebath]

+2

[joshf26]

It's been a while since I've been active locally. So I have no problems with anyone withholding info. That's your choice to share and I have no problem respecting your decisions. Just means that I need to offer my 2 cents down the road. I plan to be active again.

[lostinalb]

I have to say, I feel thesame. When you have been a member for 2+ years and no reviewer input, just weird. I am reluctant to share if your not.

[joyote]

there is much to be wary of

[beyondthere]

Good point Fangostosand,
I feel the same way. There is some risk with posting and writing reviews on those of us that share. I am not a fan of those who choose to share nothing or very little riding on the coattails of others risks and efforts.

I have also been seeing a lot of ISO's from out of town guys with little posting history and no reviews asking for info when they are going to be in town here. I am unwilling to put our local girls at risk for these unknowns as well.

I have communicated through pm with many of you who are contributing members and appreciate the info we have shared. You are the valuable folks that make what this board is supposed to be about.

So thanks for all that share regularly and always trust your instincts.

beyondthere

[tonguebath]

+1
Well said BT.

[EOD]

I’ve been around long enough that I rarely write reviews but try and comment to regulars when I think I have something to add. I have seen three different providers over the years, share too much Real world info. Sometimes newbs wear you out with PMs.

[UTRFriend]

I like every comment here. This site is for sharing, if you don’t share, don’t expect info to be shared.

[Diego Smith]

The sharing opportunities changed a bit with FOSTA/SESTA. I had 39 reviews on TER, and was a TER member for several years before I joined ECCIE. When more providers went underground or sought diverse alternate methods of advertising, I shifted all my efforts to sugaring. I haven't seen a provider in two years, except Madison Hill. AMPS, strip clubs and providers are logical segments of playtime to share about, but many of us may not play in those arenas

Sugar sharing is a different animal. I have seen sharing about the SBs who are money oriented and hooking up with any guy that meets their minimum standards. But I have noticed that none of us are sharing about the special ladies that we find. And in many ways it doesn't make sense -- my unicorn hasn't been on SA (that I know of, lol) in 11 months. We should share about danger in the sugar world, time-wasters and flakes, and it's nice to know about the semi-pros so we can make an informed decision about putting time into a visit with them.

Finally, there are reasons not to share -- the lady asks you not to (I have a great story about the legendary Arden Moon from Las Vegas -- she told me point blank that I would have a MUCH better time with her if I promised NOT to write a review); the session is no different than the several previous reviews of the woman (I can name two or three women from my pre-sugaring days where my experience was the exact same as the guys who had just reviewed her); or it's a mediocre experience with a well-reviewed provider.

[Old-T]

A lot depends who is asking, and WHAT they are asking. Everyone was new at one time, and a lot of people lurked for a long time before diving in, so I try to be as helpful as I gain with general info for them--but intimate info I usually reserve for more established questioners.

[RedorGreenorXmas]

Great conversation gents. My experience mirrors Diego's almost exactly (and Madison was the last escort I saw as well). I did make a visit to see Angela at the creepy Menaul/Morningside massage place a couple months ago, but other than that am strictly doing the SD/SB thing these days.


I come on here every now and then just to see if there is anything new happening and comment on something if it feels appropriate - I just don't have much to share unfortunately.


Assumedly the SB thread is still going in the men's lounge but I haven't had a review to write in quite some time so haven't had a chance to chime in there either. I've always appreciated those who ask intelligent/respectful questions and those who answer similarly!

[Fangotosand]

The response is as I expected. Let me add that the group of gents that have replied to this point all represent a varied cross section of those who enjoy the site. This board has some that just like an occasional visit to the local or touring professionals and some that need pay to play for what ever reason it may be. All good. Ultimately we accept a level of exposure to share and engage with our community. I have helped with general knowledge and to help avoid that clear danger that a nube might not be able to initially see. I do save that deep dive detailed request for info to the established, whether they constantly write reviews or not. I recognize and respect the players on this board.

I would be interested to hear from a few of the ladies that we see here. There are a couple that I feel offer some must read info and some others that may not share much here but I know they are well versed and knowledgeable.
I look forward to hearing and learning some valuable intel from some of the lurkers and voyears out there. Information is always valuable and needed.