Ettiquette

[sameeroberoi007]

Hi guys

Just wanted to clarify an etiquette related query for SC encounters, to avoid any issues.

I understand we hide the dancer's name here in the public forum to protect them and us. However, is it ok to ask for that and the shift / $$ in a PM from the reporter?

Sometimes descriptions can be incomplete/ misleading. It goes without saying that the details of the review / any other RW info will not be shared with the dancer / others.

Do let me know.

[Ron_Mexico91]

Originally Posted by sameeroberoi007

Hi guys

Just wanted to clarify an etiquette related query for SC encounters, to avoid any issues.

I understand we hide the dancer's name here in the public forum to protect them and us. However, is it ok to ask for that and the shift / $$ in a PM from the reporter?

Sometimes descriptions can be incomplete/ misleading. It goes without saying that the details of the review / any other RW info will not be shared with the dancer / others.

Do let me know.

Curious to read feedback on this, especially in regard to $$. I understand the status quo, but it is mildly frustrating when you're not rolling in dough and need to plan/make comparisons.

[TomCollins]

Sure, it’s ok. It just as “ok” for the reviewer to not share that info.

“Real” info here, not vague potentially made up fantasy bs, is valuable currency.

[Sir Lancehernot]

I think a lot of guys take things like this into consideration when deciding what to share and with whom, whether it's about dancers or escorts:



Do they "know" you?
Have they interacted with you before, either via PM or in threads?
How long have you been a member?
Do you contribute? Do you post reviews or add information to review threads? Or do you just lurk and/or just ask for information?
If you post, do you come across as an idiot or asshole?


The better you can build and work a network, the more information you'll get,.


Just my 1/50th of $1, and worth what you paid for it.

[Chung Tran]

what SL said, regarding PM's..

per a review, I don't know why the "what shift" part was removed. I get how the money talk could be a sore spot.. it is no different than the AMP section, but at least almost all AMP patrons know the price, and don't need to ask.. a strip club fee is all over the map.


I find most strip club reviews to be subpar.. to me, the most pertinent piece of info, is if the activities and fee was negotiated prior to the dances.. I don't think 10% of the reviews deliver that information.

[sameeroberoi007]

Exactly why I asked the query. with AMPs, Studios and providers, the fee, services and the experience is pretty much (please dont go pedantic. Its 'pretty much', not 'always') fixed.

However, with the SC scene, it's all over the place, and very very subjective! I have had awesome experiences, including BBFS (WWIT!!) At clubs for just the dance money(and no, not with ugly or old dancers), and I have also been the subject of highway robbery.

'Some' of the factors deciding the outcome are:
1. Your game
2. Dancer's mood
3. Your looks
4. Your regularity
5. Time of day and day of week
6. Dancer's level of intoxication
7. Club rules
8. Money you spend
9. Alignement if the stars
10. Biorythms

The point is none of these factors are a definitive deciding factor. That's why we have crowdsourced this hobby encyclopedia

Now that we can learn from other's mistakes, we should also ride on other's successes, shouldn't we?

Again, my query was more to do with the ettiquette, so I dont piss other's off, and I guess it's ok to ask, and up to the reviewer to respond ( kinda like the SC scene )

Thanks to all who responded here! Appreciate your efforts at making hobby safe, enjoyable and informed!

[mtabsw]

PM seems to be the route I'd choose. Releasing more info on the forum, even in ROS would tell management what they need to know if they want to punish the dancer (or get more freebies themselves)

You still have the problem of being there when they decide to work.