Hobbyist Provider Romance

[BostonGeorge]

Hey yall. I wanted to share a recent experience I had while on a trip in another state. I found a proivider not on this site but another. When I searched her number I found a bunch of stuff about her that made me realize that we may have a lot of things in common. She was definitely my type. I had this thought after setting up the appointment that chemistry may collide. Everything was routine for the most part of setting it up. Being out of town I was much more cautious and she with me. This was a provider on more of the high end scale as well. When I got to the hotel and to her room. We instantly connected. Got really into each other. To the point after we hooked up we went to lunch and ate. She then came to my hotel that night and we spent the next 5 days together. No more funds of any sort were exchanged besides a couple of dinners. She is flying out to see me soon as well. I am really into her and it appears her to me. It was not what I ever excepted happening but it did. Anyone else have any experience with this sort of thing happening? I am by no means a hardcore hobbyist dabbled for years to fill some lack of time and fun but hooking up and dating a provider was never my intention. Well I would enjoy your input on this. Thanks

[Poppa_Viagra]

Possible, but like making a house cat out of a mountain lion.

[BostonGeorge]

Originally Posted by Poppa_Viagra

Possible, but like making a house cat out of a mountain lion.

There in lies the conflict. Also what if I am the mountain lion? Maybe 2 lions together trying to be house cats or just living in a cabin in the wilderness?

[pmdelites]

just stay congnizant of your backgrounds.

like my ESL students asked today “teacher, what is the difference between possible and probable?”

while it’s possible you two will bond together fir many moons, the probability is not on your side.
as w/ any good relationship, be open about what you want and are willing to give or bend on.
communicate, be understanding and be respectful.

good luck!!!


i know of several providers who are either in a committed relationship or married.
however, i only know of one provider/client relationship that’s worked out pretty well. they’ve been together 6-7yrs so far. she completely quit providing for about 4 yrs. then just consulted w/ a few former clients. luckily, i was one of them. tho i havent seen her in 1 1/2yrs. i should call her up & see how she is.

[playerplano]

BG it's a tricky ( bad pun ! ) deal to date a provider even if she "quits" the business. If she keeps providing is that ok with you ? If she stops the business will you stop hobbying ? For the females there are often reasons why they are working girls and that doesn't change because they met you. Either damaged or easy money brings them back. I thought about dating someone and she said you fuck hookers so not boyfriend material lol.

I wish you luck and if done right I bet it could workout. The odds are not good my friend so be prepared for the rise and fall.

[needingmilking]

I would say just try it.

Maybe you are both meant to be together.

Goid luck.

[thrakattack82]

Carpe Diem, if you enjoy each others' company, why not enjoy it while it lasts? Maybe it will last a long time, maybe it won't.

[BostonGeorge]

I apperciate all the points of views!

[rexdutchman]

Run forest run ,,, never works out ^carpe diem to see just saying

[Guest050619-1]

What could go wrong?

[Teddy Riley]

If you’re paying for her time when she’s with you...then Iran probably just her service. Anyone can enjoy their job so much that it doesn’t feel like work...but it’s probable that they wouldn’t do it for free. Still sounds like a great time and a great connection. Enjoy it while it last but be careful. Good luck.

[rcinokc]

Originally Posted by thrakattack82

Carpe Diem, if you enjoy each others' company, why not enjoy it while it lasts? Maybe it will last a long time, maybe it won't.

This. Ride it until it bucks you.

[berkleigh]

Hmmm...sounds very familiar

Let's compare notes!

[DFWClubgoer]

Hotel in another city is fantasy, RW that’s a whole other story. Just think about it, if things go bad and your screwed! She knows all your RW info. If she goes �� �� are ready for your neighbors, friends, family and job to know about your hobby?

[grean]

OP,

She's suppose to make you feel like there is a spark and connection.

Let's say it's real, for arguments sake. It's possible that it is real. It's possible she is a spy working an asset.

It's also probable that even if it is real, it will go up in flames and you will be the one who gets burned.