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Originally Posted by TheOracle
Really good list, but imo this is the most problematic one. The one that is most responsible for a woman even asking such a question and basically thinking that women are incapable of being bad at it.
Way too many men are terrified of being honest w/ women when it involves criticism. So many chicks are walking around in a bubble of ignorance, b/c no one will simply tell them the truth. I don't think I've ever met a chick who didn't think they gave the best head, or had the best vagina. Lol.
I was talking to a female acquaintance of mine not too long ago and she was telling me about one of her friends who was holding on to her virginity so the only thing she would ever do with guys is give them head. Apparently, she's never been able to make one single guy cum from oral, but she truly thinks she is GREAT at giving bj's. She literally said that she knows she's good at it. Lmao! So she's going around giving a bunch of shitty blowjobs (the ONE thing she has to offer sexually), because no guy will just tell her "Hey sweetheart, you kinda suck at this." Lol.
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Sucks at sucking...lol. Oracle, you should help out and let her know. Offer to help improve her skillset.
I have had more problems with #4 & 5. I'll ask her to slow down. She will but 15 seconds later she'll speed right back up or stop sucking all together and start jacking me off.
That, to me, also says they also aren't into it and they are really just trying to make me bust faster to get it over with faster. What they don't get is that if they do what I say, I'll get off much faster than if they don't listen.
Ladies normally don't have an issue telling us how they like to be pleased orally. We often don't listen. Some guys can't comprehend that a lady might not enjoy a finger crammed up her, whether a guy is down there with his tongue too, or not.