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Old 12-07-2018, 12:57 PM   #1
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Question Do you guys read a Companion's Bio page before you contact her?

Hi guys, before you reach out to a provider, do you read her Bio page, or website, to learn more about her and her policies?

For instance, I have a lot of guys violating these terms of my policies, then acting surprised when I call them out:

**NOTE: If you cancel Same Day with me, I impose a $50 Same Day Cancellation Fee if you reschedule a date with me. These things will cause me to end our relationship: 1) wasting my time with emails/texts but not making a date; 2) if you cancel two dates with me; 3) if you cancel a date with me, and see another provider instead; 4) if you NCNS me (I will also put your information in the Ladies' Lounge to help other ladies avoid men like you). If I need to reschedule a date with you, I will offer you a $50 discount off your rate when we reschedule. Thank you for understanding.**

I have what I call a firm "DNS" trigger. I feel that my policies make it very clear as to most reasons as to why I will DNS you. I don't want to spend time with men who are not gentlemen. I simply don't have the time or the inclination. Take your coin to more tolerable women. And thank you for sparing me.

Please take the time to get to know your future companion before you reach out to her to see if you are going to be a good fit for one another. Thank you!
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Old 12-07-2018, 01:57 PM   #2
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Paragraph 1, yes of course
Paragraph 2, weak bs stage acts are easy to call out.
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Old 12-07-2018, 02:09 PM   #3
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Paragraph 1, yes of course
Paragraph 2, are not weak bs stage acts easy to call out.
What, no love for Paragraph 3?

Think about these "hypothetical" examples:

Sick parent, will reschedule. Racks up 3 ERs after your cancelled date.

Broke, will reschedule. Posts ER after your cancelled date.

Stolen money, will reschedule. Then attempts to make a date with your BFF, who's also a companion, after your cancelled date. The epitome of rude.


It's their prerogative to "spend their coin" where they want. Just like it's my prerogative to DNS guys like this.

So, still no love for #3?
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Old 12-07-2018, 02:34 PM   #4
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What, no love for Paragraph 3?
In all your examples it's clear that the guy destroyed the professional relationship.
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Old 12-07-2018, 02:51 PM   #5
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In all your examples it's clear that the guy destroyed the professional relationship.
Hypothetically, they surely did. These were guys that I'd seen multiple times. In a fantasy world.

And I did not receive one hypothetical apology from any of them. I did, hypothetically, get told to "not quibble." I loved that response A LOT.
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Old 12-07-2018, 03:04 PM   #6
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Every time, plus reviews.
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Old 12-07-2018, 03:25 PM   #7
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What, no

Sick parent, will reschedule. Racks up 3 ERs after your cancelled date.

Broke, will reschedule. Posts ER after your cancelled date.

Stolen money, will reschedule. Then attempts to make a date with your BFF, who's also a companion, after your cancelled date. The epitome of rude.

Wow. Cancel with a lie, then out yourself about the lie. It's a good thing the sleazy ones are also typically the stupid ones.
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Old 12-07-2018, 03:32 PM   #8
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Not all the time. A lot of time I see an ad and reach out looking at nothing but the ad. Sometimes I'm not interested putting more time in than that.
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Old 12-07-2018, 05:56 PM   #9
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I read everything about a companion I want to see, bio page, website, reviews. Research is your friend and a good way to try to avoid nasty surprises.
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Old 12-07-2018, 07:10 PM   #10
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I tend to read reviews. We are all creatures of habit, with the occasionally anomonally. So if a girl has a number of yes reviews, you would expect her to behave the same or vice versa. I look at the bio pages briefly. Pictures and policies do change, if not updated regularly. So reviews tend to be more informative and up to date. As for your policies, I see no problem with them. This is your business to run as you please. If they reached out to you and canceled like that, I would do the same.
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Old 12-08-2018, 09:57 PM   #11
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I try to read everything possible so as to get a feel for expectations and avoid any misunderstandings that may lead to potential conflict. Respect is a two-way street. At this point in life, I don't think I need to be told how to behave myself. I do my best to conduct myself in a respectful manner so that my companion would never be in the position to be unhappy to have made my acquaintance. As far as I know, I have been reasonably successful in that regard.
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Old 12-09-2018, 08:52 AM   #12
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My research typically goes like this: Pictures first, if I'm intrigued I then glance through her website/bio page. If I'm still interested I'll check to see if she's on P411. If still interested, I then go looking for reviews, talk in Coed and Mens lounge and other research. If I'm still interested, then I will go through every page of her website before finally booking, preferably via P411.


Regarding your hypothetical scenarios: I don't know why a guy needs to give a lie when cancelling (Providers do it too). Just call and cancel, the reason is immaterial and just sets him up to be caught in a lie.
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Old 12-09-2018, 09:22 AM   #13
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Pics,reviews,donations. And I wish providers would show pics with the whole body if you show your face show your whole body. We're the one paying.
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Old 12-09-2018, 12:56 PM   #14
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Pics,reviews,donations. And I wish providers would show pics with the whole body if you show your face show your whole body. We're the one paying.
Ask for them if it's imperative to you.

And if you don't get them, don't see her.
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