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Midwestdesigner2 · 11-05-2018, 06:52 AM

I am going to the Turks and Caicos for a wedding in December and am looking to take a date (female) for this short 3 day 2 night excursion. Everything will be paid for. PM me if interested and I will give you more details for the mid December trip.

KCQuestor · 11-05-2018, 06:46 PM

Man, that seems risky to do with someone you have never traveled with before. What if you find out after one day that you don't get along at all? You have to hope that you are compatible but also that you are comfortable having her meet your friends. This is for a wedding, so I assume you are close with the people who invited you. I would be terrified that something would go wrong and they would find out I'd hired an escort.

Even if that's not a concern, spending three days in close contact with someone you barely know seems really scary to me. Good luck!

BigDeal · 11-05-2018, 09:58 PM

Agree

seductrix4u · 11-05-2018, 11:14 PM

...of ladies ditching the guys during the trip for large chunks of time, showing up just in time for departure. Not cool but it happens. "A fool and his money should go separate ways." I don't adhere to that, but many providers do.

So you might be sure to set parameters. Will she have alone time to shop, get a spa day, etc.? Even when I am traveling with others, I still have some alone time. So get that ironed out before the trip.

I hope you find the perfect companion. Someone who can conduct themselves accordingly at a public function and also be a great companion for you BCD. I truly recommend doing some individual dates first before you take someone on a trip like this.

Good luck!

Enchanterlingum · 11-05-2018, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by seductrix4u

...of ladies ditching the guys during the trip for large chunks of time, showing up just in time for departure. Not cool but it happens. "A fool and his money should go separate ways." I don't adhere to that, but many providers do.

So you might be sure to set parameters. Will she have alone time to shop, get a spa day, etc.? Even when I am traveling with others, I still have some alone time. So get that ironed out before the trip.

I hope you find the perfect companion. Someone who can conduct themselves accordingly at a public function and also be a great companion for you BCD. I truly recommend doing some individual dates first before you take someone on a trip like this.

Good luck!

Fine advice.

Audrey Astor · 11-06-2018, 04:42 PM

Since the trip is not until December, that gives him a few weeks to spend local time with a lady or ladies that he is considering.

I'm sure he is smart and will consider a lady that is educated and poised. Even if things are not great behind doors, a classy lady would behave properly with his friends.

KCQuestor · 11-06-2018, 07:53 PM

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So you might be sure to set parameters. Will she have alone time to shop, get a spa day, etc.?

Great point!
Nail down as much as you can in advance. I know it's not very romantic, but that needs to include the amount of contact between the two of you. Will she be available for you any time you want to fool around, or just a couple of times per day?

But beyond sex, as seductrix4u suggests, how much free time will she have? If the weekend is very structured, will she be expected at every event? Will you give her spending money? Will she have any kind of a budget for shopping to get ready for the event, such as a nice dress, or will she have to provide her own?

I've taken ladies to a bunch of different places, and too many times I haven't set this kind of thing in advance. I've spent far too many weekends with ladies whose company I enjoyed but who had very different ideas about what I was expected when I bought them a plane ticket to Vegas or Hawaii or elsewhere.

Napoleoninrags · 11-06-2018, 11:17 PM

You mean it doesn't always turnout like Richard Gere and Julia Roberts? Damn. You sure my bubble.

seductrix4u · 11-06-2018, 11:42 PM

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You mean it doesn't always turnout like Richard Gere and Julia Roberts? Damn. You sure my bubble.

I keep waiting for that diamond necklace that's as big as my head that Richard gave Julia.

But you can have that feeling for an hour or two, and sometimes that's good enough for me! How about you? Love in small, intense doses is dynamite!

cmore197474 · 11-07-2018, 10:15 PM

But isn't the hobby cheaper and better in foreign countries? I can see taking a travel companion if you're going to Montana, but not a foreign country.

Guest083119 · 11-07-2018, 10:38 PM

Don't let the naysayers get you down. I've traveled with people I did not know and had a great time on a short trip.

The most important thing is that you are both easy, light travelers. I've seen this go wrong when a guy picks a girl solely on looks...and it's turned out miserably.

That said. You might want to try match.com or misstravel.com (if it's still around)

KCQuestor · 11-07-2018, 10:40 PM

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But isn't the hobby cheaper and better in foreign countries? I can see taking a travel companion if you're going to Montana, but not a foreign country.

But he's going to a wedding, so I imagine it would be awkward to pick up a local girl for the weekend and bring her to the reception. The OP is looking for the classic "escort".

Also, there is not a lot of hooker action in the Turks & Caicos. Mostly Dominicans working out of the local bars. Not a reliable hookup spot.

seductrix4u · 11-07-2018, 10:55 PM

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The most important thing is that you are both easy, light travelers. I've seen this go wrong when I guy picks a girl solely on looks...and it's turned out miserably.

Amen to that! If you're going to spend some length of time with someone, you want them to be a decent, cool human being! "Beauty is skin deep but ugly goes all the way to the bone."

And as far as setting parameters, I did a weekend getaway to Vegas where we had parameters established, but they blurred as we got into a groove and each other's habits.

I hope the OP finds a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets!

Guest083119 · 11-07-2018, 11:12 PM

The problem is that many girls here have a by the hour mentality. And guys want "credit" for the cost of the trip but that doesn't pay the bills. That is where the divide is.

jjenkc · 11-07-2018, 11:23 PM

That's what I was thinking B Three. The trip is great and you may be thinking you are doing her a favor when actually you are taking the lady "off the market" for 2 or 3 days and she may feel compensation for that should be part of any deal, on top of all expenses paid