Part of the loss is explainable - I had inquired of several p411 providers as to their rates for session lengths that were not listed on their profiles. One's response became an effort to draw me into booking a session through messaging (which Gina does not allow, it must be done through "appointment requests"), and even asked me to send a several hundred dollar deposit to her through paypal even though no session had been requested or agreed to. I passed, as I was just engaging in "price discovery", and the provider blocked me, which removed all sent and received messages between me and that provider. And, this is the sad part, I am no longer able to message this provider. Woe is me (not).
There are still missing messages to/from other providers, and I think I am seeing a big delay between the time a message is sent and the time it shows up in the "sent" folder, perhaps this is related to the delays Heidi.Fly mentions above.
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