Why Ladies Need to Screen

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Of course ladies need to screen, and when they do, the focus should be on ladies the potential client has actually seen for sessions, not on hear say rumors and agendas.

Can't agree with this 100%. Often where there is smoke there is fire. I've also had gents be perfectly fine with me then absolutely lose their mind with one of my friends. If a person is thorough, all things should be taken into account.. from posting history, interactions with others, etc. Its the quickest path to seeing a potential problem or perhaps just spotting someone you wouldn't get along with, personality wise.

You never know just how far someone will go to get around your screening.

[Sherry of DFW]

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[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Bestman200600

A young hispanic lady working in a hotel in Irving off Loop 12 was robbed after a date. The guy took her purse with her money. When the guy was driving off the lady got on his front hood of his car and was run over when the guy tried to get away. Don't complain about screening.


https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/cr.../287-607808741

Getting robbed must suck but I'm not getting in front of a desperate guys car trying to get away with a few dollars, what type of personal information do you give strangers to get screened? And how will this personal information make them safe be handled?

About the guy sending the same pic with a new number/handle, this guy rode on the small bus going to school and just doesn't understand how to move on

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Can't agree with this 100%. Often where there is smoke there is fire. I've also had gents be perfectly fine with me then absolutely lose their mind with one of my friends. If a person is thorough, all things should be taken into account.. from posting history, interactions with others, etc. Its the quickest path to seeing a potential problem or perhaps just spotting someone you wouldn't get along with, personality wise.

You never know just how far someone will go to get around your screening.

To throw some numbers out here, a guy could be fantastic in sessions with 20 different providers then on that 21st, he is not so good, by disrespectful actions, shorting her donation, ect. or even seen a provider multiple times with no problems, then snap. And that can be anyone anytime no matter how thorough a provider's screening process is and the same can be said vice- versa, that is one of the costs of hobbying.

There are members here who have very condescending and holier than thou comments on here that are probably great people in person, and the opposite can also be said (it is the quiet ones you really have to worry about). So while nothing is 100% full proof, I would rely on the history of how a person is in the presence of others, the real smoke if you will, more so than the man made smoke of differences of opinions on hobby related subjects or agenda related, assumptive and unproven internet board theories. A smart provider/hobbyist recognizes the difference between the two.

However, if you think that it is better screening to take to heart what dudes say about other dudes or what other providers say about a guy whom have not even seen in person over what the providers who have actually been with the guy BCD have to say about him, then yes, we are going to have to agree to disagree.

[Grace Preston]

I never said it was better, I said it was part of screening. A good provider not only seeks to avoid those that would wish her harm, but also those that she can tell that she might not get along with well in session. I'd rather see fewer people and be sure that we'll have a fantastic time, than to see everyone that can pass screening... and perhaps come across someone that has less than a great time due to chemistry and personality. Honestly, its for the gentlemen as much as its for me. I'm a people pleaser by nature and would be disappointed if I could not please someone.

[Wile E Coyote]

As I said, a smart provider can distinguish what is real and see beyond the bullshit, while the others can not or choose not to. The gullible and not so smart providers who are idiotic enough to actually add merit to the lies and assumptive theories that trolls and the ones with agendas are counting on.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

As I said, a smart provider can distinguish what is real and see beyond the bullshit, while the others can not or choose not to. The gullible and not so smart providers who are idiotic enough to actually add merit to the lies and assumptive theories that trolls and the ones with agendas are counting on.

Tell is you agenda for the ones that don't know yet

[Plains45]

For established providers with a stellar rep, I'd be open to stronger screening if that increases her comfort level. For a newer provider or one that few have seen (and reviewed), I'd probably be more hesitant towards undergoing a thorough screening process. If that doesn't work, I'd just move on to someone else. Ladies have to protect themselves and clients have to use good judgment when evaluating who they'd like to see.

[Alyssa Monroe]

Originally Posted by Exotic Yazmin DDD

No dollar amount is worth you safety

PERIOD!

[U2DAPRIME]

There are certain screening measures that I will not submit to especially emails from my work email or anything pertaining to my job for that matter. If I dont like the screening process, I move. If the lady doesn't like the way the john reacts, she should move on. Missing one or two clients will not make or break you, just as not being able to see specific girls doesn't affect me. Life is too short and this hobby/job is inherently dangerous. Be as careful as you can.

[Laura Lynn]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

I never said it was better, I said it was part of screening. A good provider not only seeks to avoid those that would wish her harm, but also those that she can tell that she might not get along with well in session. I'd rather see fewer people and be sure that we'll have a fantastic time, than to see everyone that can pass screening... and perhaps come across someone that has less than a great time due to chemistry and personality. Honestly, its for the gentlemen as much as its for me. I'm a people pleaser by nature and would be disappointed if I could not please someone.

This!!!! Well said Ms Preston.

As it's been said, not all money is good money, but I'm not sure every lady knows this.

Originally Posted by Sherry of DFW

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I see alerts, such as the one posted above and I immediately think, how did she screen? Did she not ask for a few references from "verifiable" ladies? Did she do research on the ladies to make sure they are active in this lifestyle and aren't full of drama?

Desperation leads to bad decisions, on both sides of the coin.

[j_foonman]

One thing I look for in a provider is someone who exercises good judgment. A provider that does NOT screen is suspect to me in that department.

[Bestman200600]

I appreciate my regulars and they appreciate me. If I am going to spend 250 to 300 on a one hour date, I want to know beforehand that the date is going to last longer than 15 minutes or be a cash grab and dash date.