Welcome to ECCIE, become a part of the fastest growing adult community. Take a minute & sign up!

Welcome to ECCIE - Sign up today!

Become a part of one of the fastest growing adult communities online. We have something for you, whether you’re a male member seeking out new friends or a new lady on the scene looking to take advantage of our many opportunities to network, make new friends, or connect with people. Join today & take part in lively discussions, take advantage of all the great features that attract hundreds of new daily members!

Go Premium

Go Back   ECCIE Worldwide > New York > Upstate New York > Coed Discussions - Upstate New York
test
Coed Discussions - Upstate New York Both male and female members can mingle and interact here. Let's keep these discussions on-topic, thought-provoking, and more importantly...entertaining!

Most Favorited Images
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
Most Liked Images
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
  • Thumb
Top Reviewers
cockalatte 650
MoneyManMatt 490
Jon Bon 408
Still Looking 399
samcruz 399
Harley Diablo 377
honest_abe 362
DFW_Ladies_Man 313
Starscream66 289
Chung Tran 288
lupegarland 287
nicemusic 285
You&Me 281
George Spelvin 280
sharkman29 260
Top Posters
DallasRain71028
biomed165069
Yssup Rider61777
gman4453911
LexusLover51038
offshoredrilling49139
WTF48267
pyramider46388
bambino43244
The_Waco_Kid38332
CryptKicker37323
Mokoa36497
Chung Tran36100
Still Looking35944
Mojojo33117

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 09-07-2018, 06:36 PM   #1
chrishurley72
Registered Member
 
Join Date: Jun 17, 2018
Location: Rochester, NY
Posts: 1
Default Noob here need therapeutic advice

(Rochester) I'm completely new to all of this. I am a single, professional male, fit, well groomed, and good looking. I usually have no problem dating, but I hurt my back a few months ago, and my Dr. put me on an antidepressant that helps back pain. Good news, the med seems to help, a lot. Bad news, no libido, no self esteem, afraid of my ability to function in a relationship that becomes sexual. I am considering finding a provider to actually see if I can "perform", and if I'm having difficulty as I suspect, someone who work with me to overcome this terrible side effect.
I'm not sure where to start, if I should try an AMP, or a private provider who is more personable and understands my situation. I'm not verified anywhere, I don't even know how to get started with that. I guess I am looking for a "therapist" of sorts, so I can get some self confidence back and re-enter the dating pool. I am also extremely apprehensive of this whole experience, but I need to do something...
Do any hobbyists or providers have any suggestions or recommendations? THANKS!
chrishurley72 is offline   Quote
Old 09-07-2018, 06:39 PM   #2
jokacz
Valued Poster
 
jokacz's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 26, 2009
Location: Coaching The Track Team
Posts: 9,256
Encounters: 44
Default

Get a different drug.


Alas, our resident pharmacist has retired...allegedly.
jokacz is offline   Quote
Old 09-07-2018, 08:21 PM   #3
offshoredrilling
Valued Poster
 
offshoredrilling's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 12, 2009
Location: near Lake Ontario
Posts: 49,139
Encounters: 36
Default

ahem
run
offshoredrilling is offline   Quote
Old 09-07-2018, 09:41 PM   #4
EccieDon
Gaining Momentum
 
Join Date: Nov 29, 2017
Location: Rochester
Posts: 61
Encounters: 2
Default

You'll be able to get it up and perform, but you won't be able to have an orgasm/ejaculate. That's the case for the vast majority of anti-depressants.

See if you can complete the deed solo in a reasonable amount of time. Unfortunately, chances are you probably won't.

Going to have to keep trying different medications until you find one that doesn't take away your mojo.
EccieDon is offline   Quote
Old 09-07-2018, 10:26 PM   #5
Plastic Man
life coach fer yer penis
 
Plastic Man's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 31, 2010
Location: leading the ass pirate circle jerk crew
Posts: 11,776
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by chrishurley72 View Post
Do any hobbyists or providers have any suggestions or recommendations? THANKS!
why nots consider a private counselin ...session with yer ...plastic man?

...plastic man ...knows hows ta fix ...things
Plastic Man is online now   Quote
Old 09-07-2018, 10:37 PM   #6
annie@christophers
Pending Age Verification
 
annie@christophers's Avatar
 
User ID: 4912
Join Date: Jan 3, 2010
Location: new orleans
Posts: 7,003
My ECCIE Reviews
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by EccieDon View Post
You'll be able to get it up and perform, but you won't be able to have an orgasm/ejaculate. That's the case for the vast majority of anti-depressants.

See if you can complete the deed solo in a reasonable amount of time. Unfortunately, chances are you probably won't.

Going to have to keep trying different medications until you find one that doesn't take away your mojo.

Ya.. and the gals simply ADORE that. J.s
Annie
annie@christophers is offline   Quote
Old 09-07-2018, 10:45 PM   #7
hardlikker12
Lifetime Premium Access
 
Join Date: Apr 20, 2013
Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 933
Encounters: 43
Default

If you have unlimited funds just about any of the ladies here would be willing to help you out.
hardlikker12 is offline   Quote
Old 09-08-2018, 05:53 AM   #8
offshoredrilling
Valued Poster
 
offshoredrilling's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 12, 2009
Location: near Lake Ontario
Posts: 49,139
Encounters: 36
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by EccieDon View Post
You'll be able to get it up and perform, but you won't be able to have an orgasm/ejaculate. That's the case for the vast majority of anti-depressants.

See if you can complete the deed solo in a reasonable amount of time. Unfortunately, chances are you probably won't.

Going to have to keep trying different medications until you find one that doesn't take away your mojo.
Quote:
Originally Posted by annie@christophers View Post
Ya.. and the gals simply ADORE that. J.s
Annie
Quote:
Originally Posted by hardlikker12 View Post
If you have unlimited funds just about any of the ladies here would be willing to help you out.
offshoredrilling is offline   Quote
Old 09-08-2018, 07:44 AM   #9
Mr Dingleberry
Valued Poster
 
Mr Dingleberry's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 24, 2018
Location: The Basement
Posts: 467
Default

You need to go back to the Dr... Why would you keep taking meds that mess you up?

Do something about it. A hooker is not the answer.
Mr Dingleberry is offline   Quote
Old 09-08-2018, 07:57 AM   #10
Guest021121
Valued Poster
 
Join Date: May 22, 2016
Location: Not where you think
Posts: 4,975
Encounters: 63
Default

..
Guest021121 is offline   Quote
Old 09-08-2018, 10:11 AM   #11
bigdickdaddydom
Valued Poster
 
bigdickdaddydom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 31, 2016
Location: 90 rd warrior
Posts: 1,554
Encounters: 30
Default

there really aint other pills to help you in the same family. most everythin will either make you not nut. limp. er unable to keep hard. that's how it goes. had me on all kinds of shit after marines. finally chose to grit teeth n bear it. take ibuprofen. keep up on fitness. stretch. it helps. built a sauna in my house. helps lots. hot tub when you can. swim if you can. when i'm with escort with hot tub i get in with jets on back between rounds. i tip for usin all their towels lol.
touch helps. back rubs do too. tell er your situation. cow girl seems like it will help. it don't! it fucks my back up worse. even with a tiny spinner bouncin on my dick. kills lower back after. fucker is less painful then fuckee.
bigdickdaddydom is offline   Quote
Old 09-08-2018, 12:56 PM   #12
Micton
Account Disabled
 
Join Date: Feb 8, 2010
Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 355
Encounters: 134
Default

Find yourself a fantastic chiropractor and give it a shot. The good ones are real miracle workers. If it doesn't work I would follow BDD's advice.
Micton is offline   Quote
Old 09-08-2018, 03:22 PM   #13
offshoredrilling
Valued Poster
 
offshoredrilling's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 12, 2009
Location: near Lake Ontario
Posts: 49,139
Encounters: 36
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by bigdickdaddydom View Post
there really aint other pills to help you in the same family. most everythin will either make you not nut. limp. er unable to keep hard. that's how it goes. had me on all kinds of shit after marines. finally chose to grit teeth n bear it. take ibuprofen. keep up on fitness. stretch. it helps. built a sauna in my house. helps lots. hot tub when you can. swim if you can. when i'm with escort with hot tub i get in with jets on back between rounds. i tip for usin all their towels lol.
touch helps. back rubs do too. tell er your situation. cow girl seems like it will help. it don't! it fucks my back up worse. even with a tiny spinner bouncin on my dick. kills lower back after. fucker is less painful then fuckee.
Op, go for the not nut
Start going to strip clubs.. But at first just watch. Of the gals that seem good at getting guys for a lap dance. Pick one ya like, go for a dance. Tell her ya can't nut and would like takeout Encounter. If no just go NEXT. When ya find willing one. It would be fun finding out what lasts longer, her or you wallet. Worse that can happen is she's pissed ya just nutted in her.
offshoredrilling is offline   Quote
Old 09-15-2018, 01:30 AM   #14
JONBALLS
BANNED
 
JONBALLS's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 8, 2011
Location: the alerts section saving Karen
Posts: 18,620
Encounters: 20
Default

that's too long to care abou reding



down load porn


is cheap and will get that demon out


for a fe hours anyways
JONBALLS is offline   Quote
Old 09-15-2018, 01:31 AM   #15
JONBALLS
BANNED
 
JONBALLS's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 8, 2011
Location: the alerts section saving Karen
Posts: 18,620
Encounters: 20
Default

always ponder a problem without being backed up


don't just start throwing money at the problem

that never werks
JONBALLS is offline   Quote
Reply



AMPReviews.net
Find Ladies
Hot Women

Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright © 2009 - 2016, ECCIE Worldwide, All Rights Reserved