Stick with one flavor or try them all?

[TheHumblistHobbyist]

Hey Hobbyists out there, I'm extremely new to the hobby to the point I've only had one encounter so far and I just wanted the ask a few questions. My first question is do you guys stick with one "main" escort or do you see several? For those who only see one, how did you choose the one? Was it just the first that you saw?

My next question is for those who see many, how do you go about asking for references? Is it safe to see escorts who are visiting and won't be around long? Whats the best way to ask for an escorts rates/menu without seeming like a creepy or someone who wants to low ball?

I know I've got a lot of questions and I apologize, but I'm half excited/ half scared about this new adventure and want to be as safe as possible.

[Roboz]

I started much like you--lots of questions, excited and a bit anxious. What I found FOR ME after seeing a number of lovely ladies is that now I enjoy the company of a very few highly reputed, fun local ladies with an occasional foray with somebody new to me. However, what works for me may not be what you want. After a few encounters you will know what works for you. Enjoy and stay safe

[Unique_Carpenter]

Similar to Roboz,
A small handful on the recurring dancecard. All are different types of gals. On occasion, a new gal (usually a road warrior).

[Ltstorm]

I am a newbie and have seen a few providers. I am still searching for that atf but a few are high on the list. As far as asking if they are reference friendly most reputable ones are as well as the friendly ones on here seem to be.

[Savannah Moon]

Most providers are, I have noticed reference friendly.
It always good to inquire prior just to be on the same page.
I know both clients & providers needing referrals are a bit put out if a provider isn't responding to request for a reference. So,the best advice I can give you is plan in advance.
I usually ask a client to give me a heads up if using me as a reference so I am aware the provider will be reaching out for the reference. So far that has been a good system for me.
Be safe on your venture, you will know when you have met the provider or providers that you connect well with..trust me on that one
OX
Savannah Moon

[dumars]

For those who only see one, how did you choose the one?


I'm one of those who prefer regulars. I don't choose, they just happen. I guess it's chemistry. I can generally tell when a woman is not comfortable. One in particular made me feel like I raped her! No shit!! Needless to say, there was no second time or tip! She didn't belong in the biz and she didn't last long. My longest, and second to the last, was 3 years. She passed away.



Was it just the first that you saw?

NO! Like I said, chemistry. You can tell! Just don't fall in love with the lady. You can love the event and the time just not the lady.


Biggest thing(s) you have to watch for is being scammed and or have things "missing". Whether pockets, car or home. One of the biggest and best UTRs in KC took me for a ride. Even when you think you're "friends" they'll run you for the scam. You can take all the chances you dare but in the long run, you'll most likely be disappointed. Believe no one, trust less. Better to expect and plan on a thief and be surprised with their honesty than the reverse! For those who take general statements personally, yes, men do it too. Just not as much.


My 2¢.

[GenesisNicole]

I have nothing to add about staying with one lady, or see multiples.

But, once you do see a lady, just ask her if you can use her as a reference.
Most will have no issues, but best to ask first.

I love, and prefer, when a gentleman let's me know that I will be receiving ref requests.

I tour worldwide, and may be in a completely different time zone. But if I know that requests will be coming in, I'm better about checking for those messages.

Be safe out there, and do your research.

*curtsy*

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by dumars

...Biggest thing(s) you have to watch for is being scammed and or have things "missing". Whether pockets, car or home.

That's why I usually prefer an incall and only bring to the incall the items necessary for the encounter.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by TheHumblistHobbyist

Hey Hobbyists do you guys stick with one "main" escort or do you see several?

YES.....!!!!!

[DallasRain]

Variety is the spice of life....lol

[Bart.Pimpson]

I only recently started doing repeat business.

[seekinggradeAbj]

I've seen very few ladies more than once. If I wanted to be tied to an individual, I would get married.

[Unique_Carpenter]

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Originally Posted by malwoody

YES.....!!!!!

Does that include lunch dates with BD?

[dumars]

No security there sir! Biggest thing there is once the bill(s) is on the table the story and service changes. Or, "wait here, I'll be right back" . . . two hours later . . . ? Other rackets too. Reputation is helpful but NO guarantee. Us guys is ALWAYS the bad guy, we're ALWAYS wrong!


And there are considerations for outs too. My last encounter was exactly what I wanted, a drive by plumbing service! Then the lady plumber started wanting "advances" for upcoming weeks. I stopped it after 3 weeks. Now my fucking pipes are all clogged again.


Woa is me!

Originally Posted by Fsn57

That's why I usually prefer an incall and only bring to the incall the items necessary for the encounter.

[jjenkc]

I see it both ways...variety is definitely the spice of life. It’s fun to see a spinner one time and then a curvy girl the next.

I will give a shout out to finding a favorite though. I have one provider that I have seen at least every couple of months going on 3 years. I just enjoy her company and she knows what I like. I will go to her whenever I can’t make up my mind. She is always top notch!

Most girls don’t mind if you ask them about being a reference. It’s a courtesy you should always give to the provider if you plan on using her as a reference. Good luck in the hobby brother!