Alaine has good advice. I was like you for a while. Curious and would check out the sites but it probably took me a couple years before my first appointment. First few times I was scared of stings, nobody likes to be stung. However, like anything with experience comes wisdom.
Stick to well reviewed providers. I look for providers that have at least 3 or 4 recent reviews (if they are newer to the scene), preferably more. I also will check out some of the people reviewing the provider just to make sure they too have a history.
Stick with sites that have good reputations within the community. These include eccie, TOS, SA (which I admitly don't have a lot of experience with), and a few other sites with big names in the community. Paid membership to some of these sites will provide you all kinds of info.
Read reviews. Duh, this insures that you have a good experience. Also word of advice read the bad reviews. I have found that some providers can have a bunch of 8, 9s, and 10s and then maybe a random 5 or 6 thrown in there. READ those reviews. Sometimes they are BS and sometimes there is some hard truths in there that perhaps others failed or wished not to mention. I have found them valuable. Stay away from sites like back page. Most LE isn't going to focus on clients that are seeking mid to high end escorts. They are going after the low hanging fruit. That keeps them plenty enough busy. They are going after those that hang out in neighborhoods and street corners and lower property values. They are going after pimps. Three letter agencies are going after agencies more than anything imo. They want to combat trafficking and the such. I haven't used agencies in a long time simply because I've never seen one hang around for an exceptional long time and I don't want my name on their hard drives.
Brings me to my next point. Keep your hobby life and real life separate. I use different email and phone numbers. I'm also careful with what real world info I provide. If there is TOO much real world info that is needed for screening then sorry but I will just move on. I have found once you have established references, that is best. I also use an app that uses a different phone number than my normal phone number.
If you are doing incall then try and find out the hotel first. Study the hotels website and determine the typical dress code. Dress accordingly to blend in. All else fails, business casual works for most places. Don't ask directions to the room/suite or for the provider by name. The point is to not draw attention to yourself.
Outcall is a safe bet. I've also become more of a fan of outcall lately. LE won't want to waste resources on trying to sting one guy in an environment they can't control. I like it because I control the environment. I have my own particular atmosphere and types of hotels that I enjoy and this option allows me to have that. I can set up my own music, have my own food and drinks ready and more. I prefer suites because it feels more like home to me also. The only thing to remember is to make sure you be a gentleman and ensure the lady visiting you is comfortable. This is riskier for them because they obviously don't know you. So this makes you the host. Have food, drinks, your hygiene, and good conversation ready. These things will make your session oh so much better.
Most importantly enjoy yourself and the anticipation. The nervousness you feel is a weird blend of excitement and anticipation. I've actually come to enjoy this part. The moment you knock on the door and you can hear the high heels on the other side walking to the door and it opens to unveil a beautiful woman is just some damn awesome.
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