If a Provider Says shes Low Volume then maybe...

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

This subject is interesting. It is a part of the huge denial people like to live in. A woman masks her shame of being easy and a prostitute by considering herself low volume. "She is not that bad she is not fucking 15 a day, yeah 15 a day is high volume." ALL prostitutes are high volume, no prostitute is selective, she is as selective as her monetary needs are at the time.

How many of you women have fucked men that were repulsive to you, that you would never consider in the RW. How many women started out with no CIM, CBJ maybe, only seeing men close in age, and then over time to make more money, menu opened up now do CIM, anal maybe. And expanding menu does it create more shame to cover up and mask, naturally it does.

Thing is ALL hookers are high volume. If you truly see only 3 or 4 a month and only regulars you are still fucking more men than most civilian ladies, still high volume. If you advertise here you more than likely see more than 3 or 4 a month but if a woman comes here and admits it, bad for business. Bad for business due to the man's denial.

A woman is as busy as her phone rings and as desperate as she is financially. Why does it matter toen, because men want to feel special, manly, important to her whether they admit it or not. If I am only guy she sees and she is selective I must be a stud, lmao! We client are seen as studly only as large as our wallets are not due to our sexual acts. Denial all the way around.

This is the Thing....

Here's a Secret...Listen closely

Most women are Not implying their Low volume only because they see a small amount of clients. Or They Don't have many in Rotation.

Most of us are implying were Low volume bc we see the SAME CLIENTS over and over again. Ahhhh see...

I See the Same clients OVER and OVER and OVER again each week...I might get a Couple new faces But usually its the same ones Over and Over and Over again...


Fewer clients means more energy devoted to each clients. But the SAME clients. That takes on a New Level.
You start to learn Things they Like. Conversation gets More intriguing. Sex gets Hotter.

So In my opinion...if You see the same clients and Not more that 1-3 a day. Your not High Volume

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by Lia88

So yea back with My Topics.
Just thinking out loud...

Most Providers aren't Fulltime. Wish I could bc Life would be A little more Easier as far as Planning my day Goes.

Alot of Us Providers Do have RW jobs, are College Students and have Families. Such as Myself.
I'm not Knocking anyone whose Fulltime. So please please don't take it as that. The ladies that Do I'm envious trust me.

But When a Provider says shes LOW VOLUME. My guess is hmmm. I'll take LOW VOLUME for $500 Alex.

LOW VOLUME means a provider isn't juggling Dicks Allday.
Busy day for me is 3....PLUS the fact I like at least 1-2 hours between appts. I don't mind. I like to be Refreshed. Maybe even watch a movie shit lol

I'm usually only available on MOST days between 9am-3p.
Every now and then I do see someone at night or Late Evening if I didnt have School or work that particular day.


So...

Why are Some Guys so quick to Shame a Girl who do See alot of clients?

and Also at the same time Shame Low volume providers feeling their Not being Honest about being Low volume?

Like isn't this a Escort/Client community?

Almost every Escort on here has a High Body count whether Low volume or Not so what does it matter?

You see a girl you like her. End of Story. Stop counting other Dicks.

For someone that hates others judging.
You judge the most.

If you put more time into your job and less time posting dumb shit you could retire.

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by ValentinaAmaro

I don't think your volume should be shamed. When I was on here as Kassie Bythre- I was seeing more than 10 clients a day and never had a negative review.

The downside on my part was that I couldn't look AMAZING every single time and so I had a client who snapped a sleepy photo of me at 5am and everyone ragged that I looked WORN out.

It didn't hurt my feelings cause really- that was a horrible photo. But always made me think about the dudes that chock up a bad session with a provider to her being "high volume" that is not an excuse to not perform. What it all comes down to is your professionalism. Some ladies can handle seeing 10+ gentleman a day and still looking fabulous all day with no decline in performance.

I just think some men use it to defend their egos when a provider doesn't click with them or they don't receive a stellar session.
I'm not trying to put anyone on blast but there is a certain big boobied college provider in austin who seems to be racking up YES reviews daily. But let her have one bad thing said- and I garuntee the dudes will pin point her volume as the cause.

... but with that said I will gladly pretend to be your little angel in the time you book me for 0 no dicks here daddy!

Exactly.
Right. I seen a Review on someone saying the Provider was "A Little tired so she said she couldnt Do CG, Why did she book me if she was tired".

This is the thing. Were all humans. I think everyone has had Full energy then out of nowhere that energy Snaps in 2. I think it's So unsympathetic and Cruel to get upset bc someones Tired. Like whoever Plans on being tired? Noone Never...
I mean we are bound to get a little Tired at times. Sex if your really into it. Nomatter how many you see can be a bit draining.

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

For someone that hates others judging.
You judge the most.

If you put more time into your job and less time posting dumb shit you could retire.

I Do Very well thank you.
No effort Needed.
Dont go off my Reviews either.
I'm Sitting veryyyy Prettyyyy.
My education will be my retirement.

I Like to Talk. As Long as I'm not a Troll. Issue?

[gentlemantoo]

No women do not cry themselves to sleep at night due to shame of being a provider. Denial, she typically pushes it deep down internally and ignored it. A study I read stated of 193 prostitutes or escorts that work the online boards. 90% of them over a short period of time develop some type of mental disorder such as PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) same thing as soldiers after combat. They get PTSD because it is traumatic for a woman to allow scumbag to molest her. Just as soldiers in combat get used to the constant and continuing trauma so do providers. Research a little and read. Shame is real whether you deal with it or not.

Lia, that's just it. In your opinion! You think you are low volume, denial. Ask 10 not affiliated unbiased civilian women if fucking 3 different men a day a few time a week over and over each week is high volume. The answer is yes. No disrespect, you and every provider are high volume. Your shame does not allow you to admit that or just bad business. And we all know how honest providers are, please, your a sales person willing to say whatever to make the sale. We men are not all stupid nor all in denial.

I take "low volume" or "selective" as just advertising BS, I know Coke will not sell me a smile, just a soda. I know a provider will sell me a piece of ass, not a wonderful feeling of connection and joy. I know she is as high volume as she can be. You even state it, you would see more and no one would ever know. You are as high volume as your phone rings.

As a believer in God, does he approve of your being an escort?

[gentlemantoo]

I find it interesting too that women call themselves low volume but then state their business is doing just fine or fantastic even. Which is it? Low volume or just fine. It is the women's version of the male big dick contest.

"I am low volume but I make great money more than you bitch." Seems to be the credo of providers. Hard to get one to admit to being high volume and hard to get one to admit to hurting for cash. While in all reality both scenarios are reality at times.

[CubanAva]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

As a believer in God, does he approve of your being an escort?

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

No women do not cry themselves to sleep at night due to shame of being a provider. Denial, she typically pushes it deep down internally and ignored it. A study I read stated of 193 prostitutes or escorts that work the online boards. 90% of them over a short period of time develop some type of mental disorder such as PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) same thing as soldiers after combat. They get PTSD because it is traumatic for a woman to allow scumbag to molest her. Just as soldiers in combat get used to the constant and continuing trauma so do providers. Research a little and read. Shame is real whether you deal with it or not.

Lia, that's just it. In your opinion! You think you are low volume, denial. Ask 10 not affiliated unbiased civilian women if fucking 3 different men a day a few time a week over and over each week is high volume. The answer is yes. No disrespect, you and every provider are high volume. Your shame does not allow you to admit that or just bad business. And we all know how honest providers are, please, your a sales person willing to say whatever to make the sale. We men are not all stupid nor all in denial.

I take "low volume" or "selective" as just advertising BS, I know Coke will not sell me a smile, just a soda. I know a provider will sell me a piece of ass, not a wonderful feeling of connection and joy. I know she is as high volume as she can be. You even state it, you would see more and no one would ever know. You are as high volume as your phone rings.

As a believer in God, does he approve of your being an escort?

I will give you that. You articulate your ideas with alot of authority. I read somewhere that was the key in being convincing. If you keep saying the same thing over and over people usually begin to wonder if it may be true. You have Studies but those studies are not your original ideas. You use those studies to give yourself the confidence you need to push the idea further.

If you truly believed in what you state. No studies are needed. Simple as that. You dont need a study to back your thoughts. If they're your thoughts you stand behind your thoughts. And when I mention thoughts. I say that bc you will never know fully until you become a Escort. Until Then. It's just Assumptions and Ideas

I Stand behind My ideas,thoughts and REAL experiences. Just as I'm standing behind the statement original Made.



Let's not turn this Religious. I'm the worst person to talk religion with. And not bc I dont know my Facts.

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

I find it interesting too that women call themselves low volume but then state their business is doing just fine or fantastic even. Which is it? Low volume or just fine. It is the women's version of the male big dick contest.

"I am low volume but I make great money more than you bitch." Seems to be the credo of providers. Hard to get one to admit to being high volume and hard to get one to admit to hurting for cash. While in all reality both scenarios are reality at times.

No it Means my clients arent Cheap dear. And Tip well.

You seem intelligent. Thought you would have put 2 and 2 together

[Lia88]

I'm Done.
Yall have a Nice Day

[gentlemantoo]

Lia, I respect your thoughts and ideas, but thoughts and ideas that do not get backed up by scientific exploration or studies are just theories. Many people that the Earth was flat, without experiments and exploration many would still believe that.

Belief in your thoughts lead to ignorance and no furthering of your knowledge.

My ideas and thoughts on this subject are backed up by studies. I can state with authority because I have read, studied, and written on these subjects. I am not.just posting my personal beliefs although my beliefs happen to match what science is stating. I believe the Earth is a sphere shaped object. I have never been to space and seen for myself. I can only take the knowledge of Earth's shape from pictures and testimony of ... Wait for it...
Hold on... Science and others who studied and have seen first hand. I read!!! Good stuff!

Great thread Lia, like I said I respect your opinions but I also remember they are opinions and not proof.

[gentlemantoo]

You have a nice day too, Lia. I mean that. I like your threads, thank you.

[SneakyCancer]

Well I see many ladies in a single day, just never pull the trigger otherwise I'd be at Wells Fargo taking a loan to buy more bitcoin.

We are all the same, guys want to see many ladies in a day, week, month for the thrill and pleasure. Likewise the lady for the money of course, y'all aren't working for free so it has to be the money. Whether you see 1-6 a day, the profession doesnt change the mindset or the dicks desire to want you any more or less.

Really it's yawl call - your business and I'm chasing.

[Guest111819]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

No women do not cry themselves to sleep at night due to shame of being a provider. Denial, she typically pushes it deep down internally and ignored it. A study I read stated of 193 prostitutes or escorts that work the online boards. 90% of them over a short period of time develop some type of mental disorder such as PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) same thing as soldiers after combat. They get PTSD because it is traumatic for a woman to allow scumbag to molest her. Just as soldiers in combat get used to the constant and continuing trauma so do providers. Research a little and read. Shame is real whether you deal with it or not.

Lia, that's just it. In your opinion! You think you are low volume, denial. Ask 10 not affiliated unbiased civilian women if fucking 3 different men a day a few time a week over and over each week is high volume. The answer is yes. No disrespect, you and every provider are high volume. Your shame does not allow you to admit that or just bad business. And we all know how honest providers are, please, your a sales person willing to say whatever to make the sale. We men are not all stupid nor all in denial.

I take "low volume" or "selective" as just advertising BS, I know Coke will not sell me a smile, just a soda. I know a provider will sell me a piece of ass, not a wonderful feeling of connection and joy. I know she is as high volume as she can be. You even state it, you would see more and no one would ever know. You are as high volume as your phone rings.

As a believer in God, does he approve of your being an escort?

I appreciate the fact that you are attempting to educate yourself on something there is NO POSSIBLE WAY you could TRULY understand by reading "studies" on the subject.

But just as I will NEVER understand what it is to be say....An African American Male (or A.A. Woman for that matter).....no matter how much I read and learn about it.

There is not a statistic or study in the world that is going to tell ME how I should feel.

I don't need proof of MY truth. I know ME. I love me. I do what makes me happy and I avoid things that will bring me no joy. And I couldn't care less if you believe me LOL

You can say I am in "denial" all you want. I'm sure most people are in denial, in some way, about themselves. But I am not going to assume that they are because they have a different opinion or belief than mine.

Attempting to speak for an individual person and how they feel and think based on some anonymous group, that did not include that specific person,is just ignorant. Yes, I am saying those "studies" are IGNORANT!!

*Back on Topic*

When I see a provider say that she is "Low Volume" I assume she has a RW job, or a second income of some sort, or she only sees Gentlemen for extended sessions for a larger sum. Since I will gain nor lose anything from what she does with her life/time, it does not concern me.

Words like high and low are RELATIVE terms. What is high to one person may seem low to others.

It's a matter of OPINION, not FACT. Period.

[Luxie]

These threads never fail to entertain, lol.