One thing that frustrates me about reading reviews and summaries of the encounters between hobbyist and providers is the wide spread failure to be forth coming with honest and real feedback of an encounter.
I'm aware that opinions are subjective to the view of the person with the opinion and may not always agree with the feelings of the masses but considering for many, reviews are used to give a general representation of the provider and gives an idea of what you may encounter during an encounter.
Well, today I had an experience that mortified me so much that thoughts of retiring from the hobby and moving to the realm of settling down and finding a girlfriend who would be my wife and live miserably ever after crossed my mind.
What happened you may ask?
I went to visit a provider today and my decision was made from the reviews and feedback of hobbyist who have had past encounters with this provider. Now I am aware that reviews are opinions and doesn't always reflect the true representation of that provider and the services that provider may render so I issued the benefit of the doubt and thought I would see for myself.
Now granted, there were reviews that issued "No" recommendations, a couple that were luke warm, and a few that gave "Yes" suggestions but I decided to take the plunge and have a personal encounter for myself.
Some hobbyist idea of appealing and attractive seems to stem from the amount of alcohol they consume, failure to wear their eye wear, or psychosis stemming from schizophrenia or some other mental disorder because the description disclosed regarding this particular provider was so shocking that a feeling of despair and shame overcame me for being in the same location with this person.
Some of the reviews described her as having a nice MILF figure, with a cute face that displays her age....WRONG!!! This woman had the head the size of a pit bull, hands that rivaled SHAQ in size, and feet that made one wonder if she/IT was packing a 14 inch shlong.
I found nothing about this person appealing or attractive and I marvel at the number of reviews that are embellished by hobbyist who feel the need to be that knight in shining armor and offer a raving review that puts that provider in a position to fail because the bar was placed at a position that, if they cant reach, will fail.
Based on the appearance of this provider, I was overcome with the feeling that this may even be someone attempting to transition by taking subtle steps to mask some masculinity with collagen injections, enormous MM's, and commonly known steps to transition.
I rarely will submit reviews of a provider unless it is something that is blatantly negative and the hobbyist are required to know and I'm honest in my description. If the provider is flabby with hail damage riding the back of her legs, don't describe the provider as being toned with MILF type body. Don't describe the boobs as firm and perky when in fact they look like egg yolks and hang lower than Saddam Hussein after his conviction.
Be honest......
So with that being said, I must ask, why do hobbyist embellish reviews? Are we in a society that everyone must be placed in a "safe space" to avoid hurting someone's feelings?
Again, don't get me wrong, I understand that each have their own preference in what they may find attractive but do not describe a woman that is 5'4, 185lbs as a exact duplicate of Halle Berry.
Just to give you an example of what I am conveying, look at the following description and pictures of this provider and you tell me if you see Halle Berry.
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...597&highlight=
Am I over-reacting or should I just retire, get married and get out of the hobby?
People, lets be real with the reviews!
