The One Sidedness of My Hobby Activities

[cmore197474]

usually if i want a quick just for me session i schedule with a girl that lists qv or bng rates. if they don't list those options i would not schedule with them if i was in that kind of mood.

[SweetSuzanna]

Great topic! I have a lot to say about this but I hate typing!

I always tell my guys " you are the boss here. Its your game, so lets play it your way"
I think that's why we are here. How many men can tell their wives the want a long BJ and that's all? Or they want her to watch them masturbate? Or that all they want to do is fuck, fast and hard, then leave?

I'm here to make your fantasy a reality. I tell you the things I won't do (short list) but otherwise, you're in charge. Unless you want me to be in charge...which is great too.

Some guys get off on giving me pleasure. No problem! I want guys to know they can tell me anything about their fantasies. In fact, I get hot hearing about them. If I can make it happen for you, I will. Now some things can be, for me anyway, uncomfortable or even painful. I will tell you if that's the case. It is hard to give head constantly for a long time. But I enjoy it.

Someone mentioned the GF experience. When I started, I chose to meet a man for a drink first. I like to get to know you first. Start flirting...build up the heat. I would still love to do that. But time is money. While social time shouldn't be free, mine is a much lower donation. Especially if a nice dinner is involved. Sex to me, and many women, happens in the mind.

To each their own!

[SweetSuzanna]

Originally Posted by Tommypalamino

This is actually an interesting topic, and I glad you posted the question. And thanks S4U for your insightful response.

Like S4U, I also like some kindling - for the provider AND for me. It makes the experience SO much better when both (or all) people are into it. I certainly want what I want, and expect to receive it, but the provider is not a mind-reader. Communication and comfort are keys to any good relationship!

But with that said, it is extremely difficult to have a “real” GFE in 60 minutes, especially on a “first date”. In my perfect little world, on the first visit, we would spend 30-minutes or so just hanging out before the clock starts running. Drinks, dinner, whatever... I would think both parties would find this beneficial.

I also understand and respect that “time is money”. And also, there are very strict and necessary rules about phone/email communications.

The original poster would very likely benefit from something like this, and would also pay a little extra to ensure he’s “found the right provider”. However, in most cases, the delta between a 60-minute and 90-minute session ranges from $100 - $150. And paying this much for a conversation is cost-prohibitive. For me, on a first date, I would gladly pay an extra $50 (plus drink/food tab) to hang out for a while before the actual clock starts.

I’m still pretty ignorant to many aspects of the hobby, so I’m certain there are flaws with this theory. But “better” isn’t the enemy of “perfect”. And until the client also has a “profile page” (that includes expectations and provider references), it could possible improve the client/provider experience.

Just my 2-cents.

TP

I agree! And would love to

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

My desire to see the ladies "get theirs, too" has always been one of the driving forces behind my Timex Challenge schtick from the very start.

[Savannah Moon]

A client absolutely should get his desires met.
But let's say his desire is Greek.
If you don't offer Greek and he desires it ..will you comply and make his desire a priority if it is something you don't even engage in??????
So, some of you can't claim that your desire is my command. Because that is NOT TRUE.
We now have upsale on Kissing & BBBJ.
Which I think is hilarious because of the slack I am given for upsale on an activity not many offer.
The best B&G gals that were around when I started EMMIE & KAYLEN..
Are UTR or gone.
There are a few new gals coming up.
That's their SPECIALTY. Like Mine Is PSE & GREEK.
Why BECAUSE I LOVE IT AND I'M GOOD.
Does that mean that is all I do..NO
My REVIEWS contain the alphabet soup.
I LOVE Giving.
Love BBBJ..sometimes A guy Will blast and is a one & done but I don't throw the towel in.
I don't have a mechanical preset for my clientele or My encounters.
I am a Sagittarius.. and crave variety & new ventures. I used to see a guy..go to his house & have a couple glasses of wine.
Then he would say..I want to try something new, but I don't know if you are up for it.. then he would tell me what he was wanting to do and it was always wild and spontaneous and fun and creative one of my very favorite clients of all times.
So I was spoiled and I love those kind of encounters & always will. If one of my clientele walked in and said hey I would love for you to give me a nice sloppy long b b b j c i m absolutely I would without any hesitation
I let the gent set the pace..I generally know what is desired prior to an encounter..not always ..
A little bit of the unknown is what is so addictive to me in this industry.
But if you seek perhaps Dom in a session.. I'm not your girl.
That's why reviews can eliminate who does what prior to an encounter.
And in no way do I ever think a guy who just wants a good BBBJ is selfish..
Nor is the guy that craves Greek or Dom or anything else.
But a gent should do his research prior to a new encounter with anyone.

[DallasRain]

lol well when I lived in Oregon,I worked for a service...we had to take a "menu of activities" booklet to calls and have the guy check off his wants....ugghhh hated that! Why limit the fun!!

[Savannah Moon]

This is what I tell gents when they ask Rules/ Menu Boundaries
1. You can't bring your dog
2. You can't bring your virgin underage nephew
3. You can't choke me out
4. You can't piss on me
5. No BBFS.
& Just be Respectful

And that is the result of 7 years in a nutshell.
& We are going to have a wonderful time.

OH..And don't give the Native American girl VODKA!!!!

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

OH..And don't give the Native American girl VODKA!!!!

LOL, you're priceless!

[seekinggradeAbj]

Vodka? That your poison? I just read about a $1.8M bottle being stolen..

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by seekinggradeAbj

Vodka? That your poison? I just read about a $1.8M bottle being stolen..

Well LOL if it was Me, SOMEBODY didn't heed the warning and I don't remember..>Wink~Wink<