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[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by mitch p

You go girl!!!

thanks mitch! Just telling the truth lol

[Carribean stud]

Lyssandra Ash, my comments seemed to have touched a flash point and triggered you a lot of what you say can be interpreted as supporting what I was saying. Perhaps you missed my statement of "generally speaking" obviously there are unique situations but majority do fall in this category I think you probably missed that based on your response. As for your statement about expierencing making less money than my example, I'm sure that's certainly true and thats unfortunate due to the risks and effort involved especially if outstanding service is provided, but keep in mind it was clearly just an example.

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

Lyssandra Ash, my comments seemed to have touched a flash point and triggered you a lot of what you say can be interpreted as supporting what I was saying. Perhaps you missed my statement of "generally speaking" obviously there are unique situations but majority do fall in this category I think you probably missed that based on your response. As for your statement about expierencing making less money than my example, I'm sure that's certainly true and thats unfortunate due to the risks and effort involved especially if outstanding service is provided, but keep in mind it was clearly just an example.

I did not miss that part. I read your entire post. My point is that yes there may be a sector of ladies that fit into the "stereotypical prostitute category" that you speak of but I can tell you that from meeting many of the verified providers from ECCIE that is not the general case here. We are professionals, not street hookers.

[Carribean stud]

Lyssandra Ash, if the story of your life you painted for us is true I would expected you to have realized your advantages and said something completely different instead of becoming defensive.

[Carribean stud]

Pardon me but any prostitute can join this site.

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

Lyssandra Ash, if the story of your life you painted for us is true I would expected you to have realized your advantages and said something completely different instead of becoming defensive.

I can guarantee you I am not being defensive. I am merely trying to open your eyes and educate you a little since your view of prostitutes, based upon your previous statements, seems to err on a stereotypical and close-minded level.

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

Pardon me but any prostitute can join this site.

wrong again, we have to go through a verification process

[Carribean stud]

Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh

wrong again, we have to go through a verification process

That proves what? that you did a good job a few times. That in no way justifies the ideal of Elitism you inferred, I have read many accounts here of no call no shows and cash and dash. This site has entire section dedicated to alerts in every city I have looked at so far. Your entire case just does not hold up.

[Carribean stud]

Furthermore a prostitute does not even have to be a member of this site, prostitutes from the street the strip clubs and other internet sites and massage parlors receive reviews and gain business from this site. There is probably just as much room provided for these prostitutes who are not "verified members".

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

That proves what? that you did a good job a few times. That in no way justifies the ideal of Elitism you inferred, I have read many accounts here of no call no shows and cash and dash. This site has entire section dedicated to alerts in every city I have looked at so far. Your entire case just does not hold up.

Actually it does. You were referring to a generalization of most prostitutes. Of course there are some "bad eggs" which you can find in literally ANY JOB. Not just this one. So thank you for your very weak counter-argument.

[LyssandraAsh]

My main point is this: stereotyping and generalizing facts of an entire sector of people isn't helping you or anyone else. It's only furthering those stereotypes so maybe try meeting some of these ladies and actually finding out who they are as people before you stamp a label on the group as whole. Just some food for thought.

xoxo,

Lyssandra Ash

[Carribean stud]

Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh

Actually it does. You were referring to a generalization of most prostitutes. Of course there are some "bad eggs" which you can find in literally ANY JOB. Not just this one. So thank you for your very weak counter-argument.

Please read my original statement in which I talk about having to pay them enough so that they are able to at least resemble normal and provide services despite a crazy life in the real world. Your simultaneously supporting your statement of not making as much as my example and my statement on why we should pay enough.

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

The type of person who is willing to prostitute cannot be compared to that of an ordinary functional person and by us partaking in their services we must realize that for her to at least resemble some type of normal for an hour and perform her services we must financially enable her level of crazy in the real world.

This is what you said. This statement in and of itself is exactly what I am talking about in regard to being close-minded. So you literally just proved my case for me. Anyway, it's my bedtime, which, I don't know if you're aware but prostitutes actually sleep too lol so goodnight and I hope you have wonderful sweet dreams of crazy prostitutes that have no life or future outside of this job

xoxo,

Lyssandra

[Carribean stud]

Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh

My main point is this: stereotyping and generalizing facts of an entire sector of people isn't helping you or anyone else. It's only furthering those stereotypes so maybe try meeting some of these ladies and actually finding out who they are as people before you stamp a label on the group as whole. Just some food for thought.

xoxo,

Lyssandra Ash

What a Completely false and narrow minded statement, remembering the stereotypical prostitute and the facts prevalent in this industry can help keep a man safe.

[Carribean stud]

Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh

This is what you said. This statement in and of itself is exactly what I am talking about in regard to being close-minded. So you literally just proved my case for me. Anyway, it's my bedtime, which, I don't know if you're aware but prostitutes actually sleep too lol so goodnight and I hope you have wonderful sweet dreams of crazy prostitutes that have no life or future outside of this job

xoxo,

Lyssandra

Ordinary functional people have jobs that do not require breaking the law. Our society does not consider prostitution acceptable that's why it's against the law in our society. It's my assumption many Prostitutes fear outing due to not only law enforcement but also such circumstances as ostracism in the community how many mamas want their young kids to go over to a prostitutes house and play with her kids. Do you think a teacher might contact child protective services if she knew her students mama was a prostitute? Stamping the label on and understanding Prostitutes can not function normally is the correct thing, getting personally involved enough in the real world with a prostitute especially one you do business with is a bad thing you should have boundaries that are not crossed a man should just rely on stereotypes and stamped labels if he even thinks about her personal life so that he acts accordingly and safely. There are so many reasons that this true and I probably don't know them all and I'm not going to try to explain all the ones I do know.

I would think a majority of prostiutes have some generalized thoughts on us, perhaps that we are older at least financially stable fat guys that are miserable jackasses with a short dicks and hairy balls that smell and cannot get a woman to have sex with him in the real world so he has got to pay and who will probably stalk you in real life on some level if he has an opportunity.None of those statements may describe me but I am not offended by it if that's the generalization and label stamped on me and I wouldn't dispute it being an accurate description of most tricks. Just because we are screened and you are verified means nothing don't ever let either lull you into a sense of safety.