Yep, we ladies lead actual lives, go grocery shopping, walk our dogs, etc... I'm sure that's shocking to some of you somehow. Unless you stick to *only* visiting providers who don't even visit that often, or play in a separate city from that in which you live, chances are paths will cross in the civie world at some point.
I'm a fairly rural chick, so circles run small. I just moved, but was living in a house where I could see two of my most regular and longstanding clients' offices from my porch. They both knew I lived in town... but I don't think they knew I was that close
~Mme X~