To the OP, golfing, I took the time to read your last post, and although it took some my some effort to decipher what it was you are trying to say, I will agree with you on one point.
Now that you have finally described what you mean by a girl going "ghetto" on you, I have personally had to get firm with a few guys, and even on occasion it has gotten a bit nasty.
Usually it is after a guy has spent a significant amount of time - wasting my time. Wanting sexting, or texts exchanges lasting for weeks or months trying to book with me.
I have fucked up and flipped out on a client when the session just got way out of hand. Luckily, I had another provider there with me, to defuse the situation.
Although it sounds like the ladies that have flipped out on you (sounds way better than them going ghetto), have done so after either some kind of scheduling conflict, or after you have expressed your dissatisfaction with their looks compared to their pictures.
Yes, many times when we have professional pictures done, they are touched up a bit. Maybe given more of a tan appearance, fixing blemishes, but I don't think too often that they alter the size of what they are, as that takes a lot more work. I do know that photographers I have worked with will try and help us hide our flaws, such as tummies, cellulite, or unflattering angles; by adjusting the way we are posed.
However, many ladies have gone to taking selfies,or using their camera phones, which is usually a more accurate of what their current looks are actually like. Knowing this might help you with avoiding future disappointments.
****Just a tip, to make all of our lives easier when trying to read one of your long posts...Feel free to email me the rough draft of what you want to say, and I will edit it for you. Although I'm not as good at my grammar, formatting, and using fancy words as Elizabeth Whispers, I think people might take you a little more seriously if you can form your thoughts in a more logical and legible manner than you have expressed throughout this thread. My email is
tntangie@gmail.com.