Curious about pregnant or parent providers.

[Bulaninni]

First let me preface my questions with the statement that I'm not judging; I understand everyone walks a different path in life, with unique challenges and personalities to match. I was struck recently with thoughts of providers who are pregnant but continue to provide or those who are parents and simultaneously provide. In my white-bread upbringing being a provider and a parent or parent to be don't go together. Any thoughts or insights on the mindset of a provider in this type of situation?

[Skip_8]

...In my white-bread upbringing being :
1. Married men don't cheat.
2. Men don't pay for sex.

But they do.

[VictoriaLyn]

I mean I guess I could work a conventional job and make half of what I make and miss most of the kids waking hours while a stranger raises my child for me in daycare.. or they become a latch key kid.. Yeah nope

[The Infamous One]

Just one example. http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/ren...99f86c96b40c66

[The Infamous One]

Let me preface, that I am not judging . I don't believe a lot of people of your upbringing are capable of understanding such things. EVERYONE is a whore for something. Try not to hurt your head thinking too much. No offense!

[Kickrocks]

I thinck when you depend solely on the hobby to support you, that's a mistake. As example of all the ladies in this thread asking for help in the past.

If I was a hooker I'd have a rw job to pay my bills and hobby for extra cash. If you have no marketable skills besides this your life will get harder and harder. Your value and money making potential goes down the older you get.

Imo

[Victoria Columbari]

+1 VictoriaLyn

[Mr Peabody]

When I first arrived here, I read the drivel of the trolls who usually post in coed about how they only see the youngest escorts. This made me question how could the mothers or the pregnant providers compete in this marketplace.
After a little independent thought you realize that it is part of evolution that makes them competitive. In ancient times human males sought out those mates who could best pass on their genes. What better mate could he find than one who has already shown they are capable of bearing a child?
Thus our infatuation with Milfs is hereditary. It is monogamy that is unnatural.
It was nice to see their voices expressed here. I just wish co-ed was a more tolerant forum so I could hear more from them.
-Mr. Peabody

[whiskeyforus]

Why does being a parent and a provider not go together? I have a job and a private life. Maybe so would a parent who was a provider.

[Treetop78759]

When we hobby we all face health risk. Some of those health risk are deadly or last forever. It's part of the game and a risk we all consciously take no matter how safe we play. That is why people brag about how often they are tested.

A pregnant provider who continues to provide is putting the baby at risk. Those risk can be deformities, blindness and even death. It's about as selfish as smoking, drinking or doing monkeys.

If you really love your unborn baby you wouldn't put them at risk by fucking and blowing a bunch of dudes. If a dude loves the unborn baby of their wife they wouldn't cheat. It's wrong on every level.

I bet 99.999% of pregnant women on the planet don't prostitute while they are pregnant. If someone in a 3rd. world county can make it so can you. Especially in our country.

There is no excuse. Especially if it was a planned pregnancy. If it wasn't planned then start being responsible for a change. Don't put an unborn baby at risk of dying or have them have to deal with life long problems. Their life matters too.

They don't have a choice so don't make a terrible one for them.

[TxHarleyGuyII]

Originally Posted by Bulaninni

First let me preface my questions with the statement that I'm not judging; I understand everyone walks a different path in life, with unique challenges and personalities to match. I was struck recently with thoughts of providers who are pregnant but continue to provide or those who are parents and simultaneously provide. In my white-bread upbringing being a provider and a parent or parent to be don't go together. Any thoughts or insights on the mindset of a provider in this type of situation?

Let me try and provide you with a little bit of insight given you asked openly. Are you listening? Feel free to grab a pen and pad if necessary. Here goes -

Why providers do what they do is no one's business but their own. So long as they are not 'on here' ripping people off and providing shit/half assed service, who cares what what their motivation is for being here or why they do what they do?

Same goes for johns. Who gives a fuck what any john's (i'm sorry, client's) reasoning is for seeing a provider and getting his weasel wanked.

So long as both providers and john's private bullshit doesn't enter into and conflict with their providing and hobbying, doesn't matter a hill of beans to me what brought them here.

People - generally speaking - talk too fucking much in the first place. The hobby 'used to be' all about discretion and confidentiality. No longer.

[Bulaninni]

Responses brought to light some situations I had not recognized because of my background, so thank you to all of you.

[AtxAngela]

Originally Posted by Kickrocks

I thinck when you depend solely on the hobby to support you, that's a mistake. As example of all the ladies in this thread asking for help in the past.

If I was a hooker I'd have a rw job to pay my bills and hobby for extra cash. If you have no marketable skills besides this your life will get harder and harder. Your value and money making potential goes down the older you get.

Imo

Interesting...Being that I'm 3 months shy from being 39 years old business for me has been better than when I was younger.

[Kickrocks]

Originally Posted by AtxAngela

Interesting...Being that I'm 3 months shy from being 39 years old business for me has been better than when I was younger.

Oh ok.

[Treetop78759]

Glad to hear.

At least you are not whoring yourself and putting an unborn child at risk because you are irresponsible. That's pathetic.