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Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07
True....but if she is BB behind my back, then if I find out before she finds out about my hobby, then I get to play the victim. So I win....I think.....means I'm still better than her, right?
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You always want to allow yourself some deniability....
Someone a long time ago told me as long as you're really good at being sneaky...you always have deniability... And as long as you say the right thing to the right person at the right time....you can get away with alot of shit.
The hobby has jaded me when it comes to relationships a little though.. I adore my clients and never judge them for anything..not ever...we have a lot of really fun kinky times
I will say this.. Being in the hobby has shown me anyone can step outside their marriage or relationship without the other knowing..and I mean anyone... Even the most seemingly happy person....I've had sessions last literally 5 sometimes 10 minutes..
Do you know how many times my exes were unavailable for even longer periods of time..
Thing is people will do what they want to do..don't try to stop them....just keep it discreet as possible... Especially if you're not wanting to or prepared for your home life to be turned upside down..