A new question.

[Jules Jaguar]

Idk references are becoming like pulling teeth to get from providers these days especially the younger ones. I sent out FIVE between yesterday and today and haven't heard back from a single one of them.

The ladies who have been around a while tend to be awesome at giving references, well most of them at least. Lol

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

I decide.... for me. I mean no disrespect but I can't share the parameters used without giving away key elements needed to decide reputable vs non.


You know what though..... In all these years, I have had exactly ONE issue (getting a guy that's psycho.) That only happened when the guard was dropped for one second. Guess what's never happening again. I love this hobby, however there are definite tricks (no pun) to the trade.

I've done a few psycho women from this site and they were really crazy but still had a great time and I don't mind the word trick being thrown around like others might, I know my place in here

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Idk references are becoming like pulling teeth to get from providers these days especially the younger ones. I sent out FIVE between yesterday and today and haven't heard back from a single one of them.

The ladies who have been around a while tend to be awesome at giving references, well most of them at least. Lol

So it is unkuth to ask specifically who does not provide references? Don't want to start a cat fight but if a girl doesn't respond or worse yet calls me to complain I'm seeing someone else I'd like to know.

Off topic, saw your hooters on that other thread. I'm not normally a boob guy but yours are by far the best I've ever played with and they keep looking better.

[Tsmokies]

A lady mod in the midcities that retired a few years back was a great fun visit and a great reference. She was a sweetheart and was nice to everybody.

I still can't understand why "eccie" doesn't have more female mods in this area

[Jules Jaguar]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

So it is unkuth to ask specifically who does not provide references? Don't want to start a cat fight but if a girl doesn't respond or worse yet calls me to complain I'm seeing someone else I'd like to know.

Off topic, saw your hooters on that other thread. I'm not normally a boob guy but yours are by far the best I've ever played with and they keep looking better.

Awwwe thank you 😊

Well two ladies I know read my messages today and didn't respond are

Sensual Cindy and Kaitlynxxx

There are plenty more. When that happens I usually get back with the client and let them know that the lady is not reference friendly and from that point on if someone else uses her I let them know and ask for someone else off top.

There is also another lady here in Dallas that "can't remember" guys she saw the week before even with phone numbers and detailed descriptions. After the first three attempts with the same results I figured out she was just a hater and told guys I don't accept references from her period

Of course providers are not required to give references and that's fine but it's something they should Let be known before guys book with them imo.

[TheEccie214]

Makes sense. Always seemed to be a difficult situation with the ladies - on one hand you're competing for business and on the other you need to keep each other safe.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Awwwe thank you 😊

Well two ladies I know read my messages today and didn't respond are

Sensual Cindy and Kaitlynxxx
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Haters gonna hate, they want all the $, the hobby is a cut throat business when big $ comes into play.

[OneStarLuck07]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Makes sense. Always seemed to be a difficult situation with the ladies - on one hand you're competing for business and on the other you need to keep each other safe.

Yeah, that is what makes this hobby quite awkward at times. I hate wasting anyone's time, especially providers I have no interest seeing again. So if I'm using you as a reference, means I want to see you again. But due to time and money constraints, ladies moving around, etc. there is no guarantee that I would get to see you again.

[Analeese]

Ok since Jules named her ladies .. I'll name who I was speaking of.

Brandee69

Complete attitude when trying to even refresh her memory...

I try so hard to give as much information as I possibly can to a provider . So they can make a real educated decision on whether they want to spend time with someone or not.

Too many ladies just say he's okay and that is all.

[Laura Lynn]

I always try to respond quickly to requests for references. Why would I risk being "that girl" that holds up a friend from playtime or a girl from earning? Doesn't make sense to me.

With that said, every lady here has a right to run her "business" the way she wants. However, not replying seems to be less than professional IMO.

[Mavs fan]

I have been on here for awhile and I have over forty reviews. Because of that a lot of women don't ask me for references. I have seen many that agree to see me within a few minutes of my 1st contact with them. I am not trying to hijack here but I wonder if a guy has a lot of reviews Do Providers worry less about references?

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by Mavs fan

I have been on here for awhile and I have over forty reviews. Because of that a lot of women don't ask me for references. I have seen many that agree to see me within a few minutes of my 1st contact with them. I am not trying to hijack here but I wonder if a guy has a lot of reviews Do Providers worry less about references?

Most guys who have alot of reviews have their hobby shit together and already have the references ready when making a first contact because they either know it's expected/required or just already send because they want the lady to feel comfortable.

I would say it depends on how recently he wrote a review and what his posting history looks like.

There are many guys I won't see here because of the whole attaboy thing or just plain disrespectful language towards women. I'm not talking about calling us hookers and whores that doesn't bother me.

I do however find it extremely disrespectful when a guy who's never met you comments on feedback about you by saying things like bitch and cunt. These types don't deserve a moment of my time. If you can't show respect on the board towards the opposite sex what would make me think you would be any different in person?

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Mavs fan

I have been on here for awhile and I have over forty reviews. Because of that a lot of women don't ask me for references. I have seen many that agree to see me within a few minutes of my 1st contact with them. I am not trying to hijack here but I wonder if a guy has a lot of reviews Do Providers worry less about references?

This obviously isn't my first account so I don't have many reviews but only remember when I was just getting started in the hobby being asked for references. Guessing not many will respond to that because they don't want to come out and say they don't check references. Keep in mind also many of these girls are friends so I'm sure they share that way also.

[Analeese]

I've heard some Hobbyist who have alot of reviews feel they shouldn't ha e to provide references.

I still think it should be at the ladies direction whether she wants references or not.

People change...and don't always act the same way with every provider they spend time with.