Taking your "date" to a strip club before a session ...

[ZorahMatta]

I'm in the same boat, Lena. Wonder if the lucky man who'll take us both to the strip club for the first time and then enjoy the excitement built up from it is reading our responses right now

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

I've been with my girlfriends before. But it's something I've yet to experience being accompanied by a gent. It's definitely one of my top dream date ideas.

[snowbunni]

Personally, I have worked in them and feel the most comfortable there than almost any other bar LOL

[tx Easy Rider]

Originally Posted by Admiral Giggle

Stopped going to strip clubs and wasting money on lap dances when I found ASPD many years ago.

Went from blowing my paychecks on worthless lap dances to Blowing my paycheck on blowjobs.

Plus never cared for going home smelling like cigarette smoke.

+1 . just curious though , the hour/hours at the strip club , is that on you or does he have to compensate for that as well.

[Laura Lynn]

I've had some pretty good times going with friends of the hobby.

I just hate that most of the girls look absolutely miserable while on stage. Too often when I watch a girl across the room giving a lapdance, she makes little to no eye contact, there is no smile.... just pains me to watch. Ugh and they smell of sweat and cheap body spray. Yuck!

Despite that, I really do like going lol

[plove35]

Prob in the minority here...I absolutely hate strip clubs. But I do sere taking a date to one can be hot

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I've had some pretty good times going with friends of the hobby.

I just hate that most of the girls look absolutely miserable while on stage. Too often when I watch a girl across the room giving a lapdance, she makes little to no eye contact, there is no smile.... just pains me to watch. Ugh and they smell of sweat and cheap body spray. Yuck!

Despite that, I really do like going lol

What no stories of a dance off?

[ck1942]

Torre,

Happens quite regularly here in San Antonio.

Sometimes, even on an organized basis.

[Guest050619-1]

Yuuuup....going to a SC with a provider can be pretty entertaining not to mention the fun afterwards (some hot RP can be had if you've both got good imaginations)....

[ElisabethWhispers]

Hey Torre.

When I first glanced at this topic yesterday, my first thought was one why would a client, or a friend, wish to take me to a strip club and he has entertainment ready for him right here.

I'm the entertainment in front of him.

I kindof feel that way about porn, too. I'm not fond of porn in the background. I tend to loose focus and sometimes turn my head, which is a rude thing to do.

And it doesn't really seem to add to the overall experience.

Guess those two activities (strip club/porn) probably works best with couples who are relatively vanilla in their base desires and this enhances the overall sexual experience for them. And what I just wrote isn't accurate, I know. Just writing what I'm thinking off the cuff.

I don't know. I do a lot of alternative play and adding a strip club visit to the mix wouldn't give the vibe that the appointment would need.

Gads. I'm rambling.

I've had female friends who just LOVE going to strip clubs. Truly. They like to tip. Drink. And just have fun with guys and girls. And I understand that.

It's just not my thing at all.

But just reading these responses, and I've been to several strip clubs in the past, I can certainly understand the appeal.

[DFWClubgoer]

Done it a couple of times with civilians, was really fun. Buy the dance for the civi and let the good times roll.

If you are good terms with a regular dancer you see, buy her dances and it turn into some fun as well.

[KissableMelissa]

I've been with friends before but never a client! I would definitely love to go one day with a client! Just the thought of it makes me hot! Lol

[NYr]

I have several times gone with ladies before and after a session; Also have had them recruit ladies to come back too (for free or I tell the date lady a max I would pay to dancer...I have even had date lady offer to give the dancer her money..I was like "Ok")

Some key things though:
1) I don't pay for club time.
2) I buy the drinks of course
3) I expect the lady to be respectful of my money as I buy her dances...don't use me to make a dancer's day...been there done that and I ended it all quickly.

[Go4it]

Most fun ever at a SC was with a civilian. We were even fairly new to each other. LMAO - she didn't know she was BI until I bought her about 4 lap dances. Then she went wild. I had about 4 or 5 guys in the place buying her dances as well because they were enjoying the action so much. Good Times.