Does it really matter to you? BFs, Managers, Bookers or Pimps?

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by artist6338

Like someone told me it's a business! You pay for what you want and they offer the service. There's no room for emotions from a prostitute .

Originally Posted by artist6338

Like the wizard of OZ! They grant your wishes! Now if they only had a heart ❤️!

And who says we don't have emotions and a heart?
Yes, it's our job to create an illusion, but that doesn't mean that we are cold, calculating b*****s.
Unless the lady opts to see a guy off the clock, he shouldn't expect any type of relationship. Although, I have to admit that I'm one of those who considers my regulars as friends. Most are married, so the money or donations keep things from getting too personal.

I agree the guy had no right to look at her phone. And she should have a block. Because of the block I've got on mine, my phone simply shows that I've got messages until I unlock it - not the message itself or who it is from.

[Iron Butterfly]

As many of these that go bad there are equally the ones that go good, it's a toss of the dice, don't gamble if you can't afford to loos.

IB

[Observing]

Where is the "buddy" on all this?
I see another tall tale by the resident all knowing king of all things pusswah.
IF this story is true and this gal is a posting member here,she now knows a dude that comes to see her snoops on her personal phone and tells the biggest gossip monger on here her business.
Just sayin'...

[TemptationTammie]

I can see where it would be awkward to find out that it was a man texting all along instead of the lady that he thought. But does it really matter in the long run as long as things in person filled his fantasy?

[Iron Butterfly]

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

I can see where it would be awkward to find out that it was a man texting all along instead of the lady that he thought. But does it really matter in the long run as long as things in person filled his fantasy?

Yes it does matter! Deception is not the illusion of passion, it's down right lying!

IB

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

I can see where it would be awkward to find out that it was a man texting all along instead of the lady that he thought. But does it really matter in the long run as long as things in person filled his fantasy?

I tend to agree with Tammie.... I have no issues with managers, bookers or pimps.... I keep message to whores I see to a minimum and related only to the session....

He had a good thing going with a girl that met all his needs but got bent out of shape finding out he had been sweet talking her pimp.....

i would prefer a girl to be up front about it but so long as services are rendered and needs are met I don't care how she runs her business.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Observing

Where is the "buddy" on all this?

I was on ASPD from 2000 and have met hundreds of guys over the years and exchange information via email and PM that never sees the boards.....

This was an interesting story to tell and he is not a member that posts....

I'm not naming the whore here Observing so don't get your panties all twisted up....

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by Observing

IF this story is true and this gal is a posting member here,she now knows a dude that comes to see her snoops on her personal phone and tells the biggest gossip monger on here her business.
Just sayin'...

IF it's true (and that's a HUGE if), I sure as fuck hope that the provider in question posts something about this douchecanoe in the ladies area, so that the rest of us can avoid this privacy-invader.

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I tend to agree with Tammie.... I have no issues with managers, bookers or pimps.... I keep message to whores I see to a minimum and related only to the session....

He had a good thing going with a girl that met all his needs but got bent out of shape finding out he had been sweet talking her pimp.....

i would prefer a girl to be up front about it but so long as services are rendered and needs are met I don't care how she runs her business.

"... with a girl that met all his needs..."
"...so long as services are rendered and needs are met I don't care how she runs her business."

Who know's if the story is even true,but here you are bumpin' your gums about it.
Doesn't concern you one iota yet ya yap about it.

All should take notice of your propensity to run your mouth 'bout shit that is of no concern to you...

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Whispers

I was on ASPD from 2000 and have met hundreds of guys over the years and exchange information via email and PM that never sees the boards.....

This was an interesting story to tell and he is not a member that posts....

I'm not naming the whore here Observing so don't get your panties all twisted up....

Who is asking for names?
If she reads here she'll be able to figure out who was at her place and snooping on her phone and telling the biggest fat mouth on here her business.
Whether the story is true or not,ALL should take notice you run your mouth 'bout shit that is none of your business.

[Parsifal]

It's interesting, but not surprising at all. I get why the dude was pissed, but he's actually just pissed at himself for falling into the classic trap: these aren't relationships we're fostering in this hobby - they are solely arrangements. To assume any deeper connection than client / provider is a BIG mistake and can lead to the reaction this thread is about.

I've given up trying to determine whether the providers are managed or not. A few years ago, I was POSITIVE an often seen provider was truly Indy, only to discover she was always managed. I was disappointed that I didn't see it sooner, but I didn't blame the provider at all for any "deception" because there wasn't any. I made the assumptions which were false, and all she did was consistently provide great sessions.

Ultimately, as long as they provide a great session, have good TCB and don't come with any drama, I'm indifferent. If it works for them, it works for me.

[Treetop78759]

Agree. It also is foolish when these dudes think that they have a magical mouth and make these girls cum nonstop. They even put cheesy references in their signature like a little bitch boi. That's total BS so don't fool yourself and the other dudes you high five. It's kinda like this. Ever woke up with a hard on that was like concrete but you weren't horney? Yes. It's called having to take a piss. Same with the gals. Their biology during sex gets them wet just like having to take a piss when you're asleep gets you hard. The only turn on to her is your money. Not that 50 to 70 year old fat tongue.

[The Infamous One]

You guys act like you are the only ones who get hurt in this hobby. What about the lil games y'all play on us providers? You think we dont have feelings? Bullshit. Lines get blurred all the time, and we get hurt too. I can't even begin to tell ya. It's best just to keep it real. Keep it professional and enjoy it for what it is. Otherwise, someone will get their heart hurt in the end. I know from experience. I've loved two hobbyist in my time. IT NEVER WORKS. YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT'S REAL & WHAT ISN'T. It's a total mind fuck.

[SofaKingFun]

Originally Posted by Whispers

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She's laying in bed sleeping as he gets dressed and ready
Reality is... Up till that moment he was caught up in the illusion and is more butt hurt over all the lovey-dovey messages he exchanged with a guy that looks more like S eaL then the lady that has rocked his world for 4 months....

Outside of his embarrassment though..... he got everything he paid for and more....

What would you do if your bubble was burst in a manner like this?

If it was a gal that I'd seen regularly for 4 months, and I discovered I hadn't been conversing directly and sloely to her and was instead, talking to her pimp/handler/some nice guy just helping her out, I'd be upset and would drop her with a quickness.

Sure there's an illusion in play. There's also a level of trust that this gal is breaking in their actions. So hell

Yes I would be pissed.


Not a wholle lot surprises me around here any
more...not even when I get a message from a hobbyist via a provider's mailbox.


Nope not much surprises me at all The overall fuckery that goes on around here abounds...and with those whom you'd least likely suspect...

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[Precious_b]

Originally Posted by Whispers

ahh Precious..... You are usually much better..... You didn't quite get this one though....

Was trying to maintain a level of performance in responding.
Only talking as a guy who has peeked behind the curtain a few times.