Just another reason for you to talk shit

[Guest091417]

Well since I had met this person before on several occasions and they are well known here, and moving up in power soon, (along with his other comrades in power who seem to support him and his actions) I didn't think anything of his dinner and drinks invite.

I honestly thought he was a cool person. I didn't know I had to be so paranoid about going out to dinner, then to a club for drinks.

After making sure I got back to my incall safe, he said he was too drunk to drive home. I offered to let him crash. I'm sorry that letting someone sleep off alcohol seems like a stupid idea. I honestly was just trying to help. I laid on the bed and instantly started to drift.

I remember coming to for a second and asking him bewilderedly what was he doing, because he was touching me. I remember him aggressively saying "what the fuck do you mean, I'm about to fuck you. You don't even need to be awake". That's when I couldn't stay coherent, and once again passed out asleep.

In the morning he was still there, but very quickly got himself together and left. In my mind, I knew something bad happened but did not want to believe it. I just wanted to pretend it didn't happen, it. I tried hard, until he had to text me later saying "Btw you were half sleep when I fucked you. I was playing with you pussy and it got so wet. It made me want my dick deep inside you " ....this is what made it real, and no longer easier to ignore.

Maybe this is ok in a relationship or if I was even awake to agree to it. But since that day, it randomly popped into my mind and made me feel sick, filled with dread, anxiety, helplessness and just plain anger at myself and the situation period.

I have always been the type of person to help others in need and give chances. But what I hear is I shouldn't trust anyone right, but when I ask someone to do screening it's an issue. When I ask someone to please respect me by being safe and clean, it's sometimes argued about and an issue. When you say don't drink around hobbyists, but double standards show certain events in our community promote it, along with the attendees. I also love how some of this guys friends taunt me with insinuating comments pertaining to this situation just to antagonize me.

Yes, I now realize I shouldn't trust anyone in this hobby or period it seems. I didn't write this thread to discuss what I should have done. Don't you think that has driven me crazy a million times by now. No I wrote this thread because him and his protecting provider puppy are still talking shit about me and the situation to whoever will listen apparently. And I'm sick of it.

Imagine the person who did this If it were to you, constantly trying to stir up something, as If THEY are somehow the victim. Nice to know that since this person feels exempt from the rules here because they are moving up on the board and their friends are of "power, they can get away with doing this to me and the other girls before me. Also since some of y'all think it's my fault, because of my line of work and your need to agree and be accepted by members of this community, him and his friends will continue to do this to more ladies and get away with it. Tired of keeping it all in, while these too and their friends laugh about it and pick at me publicly and behind closed doors without everyone knowing the truth.

You say because I met with someone on the board for dinner and drinks it's my fault.
You say because I drank the drinks, it's my fault.
You say because I said he can sleep off his alcohol it's my fault.
You say because i fell asleep, it's my fault.
But do tell me when I agreed to what he did to me in my sleep.......?
(BTW nice to know you guys on his side and him believe that since he decided to cover-up, it can't possibly be an unwanted act upon my body)
Do tell me why I deserved to be ridiculed, segregated, told i was a liar and almost fought in public because someone decided to start shit and accuse me of naming names in this situation......?

[Guest091417]

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[Stewie griffen]

I am sorry that this happened to you. Glad you have spoken out.

Unfortunately in this hobby of ours it seems that there will always be some who take advantage of the niceness of others.

[RICKDOG8]

No one has the right to have sex with/take advantage of someone without their consent...PERIOD! Drunk, sober, passed out shit faced, it doesn't matter. Sorry this happened and wish you the best LV.

[Guest062019]

Just curious, if you are accusing this guy of rape... Why haven't you pressed charges?

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Mata Leon

Just curious, if you are accusing this guy of rape... Why haven't you pressed charges?

Yup!

"they are well known here, and moving up in power soon, (along with his other comrades in power who seem to support him and his actions)"

Or at least notify mods.

Put him on blast...

[Guest091417]

I always love how Fox news, and now you, always refer to the perp and his actions as allegedly or accused lol. But hey thats your friend right. I also love your belief that reporting things of this nature will lead to justice. Admirable, in an ironic way, topped with the thickest layer of sarcasm.....

[hunglowandbig]

Don't understand why you don't press charges! This is rape and it doesn't matter what your profession may be la vida !

[Guest091417]

Originally Posted by Observing

Yup!

"they are well known here, and moving up in power soon, (along with his other comrades in power who seem to support him and his actions)"

Or at least notify mods.

Put him on blast...

Did you not read everything you decided to quote me on.....? Smh do tell me what notifying his friends will do? I'm not asking for pity or advice, because there isn't any advice one can give. No-one can take back what happened either. This honestly wasn't meant for anybody but those involved because I know they've read and are still reading this. Waiting to see if I shall expose their most fucked up ways. I just want to see if they have the balls enough to continue talking shit, but this time where I'm able see, hear and to respond and expose their lies.

[rockerrick]

Originally Posted by Observing

Yup!

"they are well known here, and moving up in power soon, (along with his other comrades in power who seem to support him and his actions)"

Or at least notify mods.

Put him on blast...

Notify the mods... hahahaha you sound like such an idiot!
Eccie doesn't give a fuck if a provider doesn't have common sense!
It's not a posting guideline, and they are not the stupidity police.

[GingerLyn Harte]

Beautiful lady. I applaud your actions in coming forward with this information -i encourage you to take any and all relevant info to the police. Perhaps post about it in the powder room and get other ladies advice on where best to report and how to go about this. He will do it to another lady if you do not. By not posting his name you are still sparing him from being blacklisted by any provider that does a basic search on his handle...i dont have all the answers obviously but without a doubt you are incredibly brave for coming forward.

Thank you as well for the clue the lead me to who this disgusting human being is

Xoxoxo

[Observing]

Originally Posted by La Vida

Did you not read everything you decided to quote me on.....? Smh do tell me what notifying his friends will do? I'm not asking for pity or advice, because there isn't any advice one can give. No-one can take back what happened either. This honestly wasn't meant for anybody but those involved because I know they've read and are still reading this. Waiting to see if I shall expose their most fucked up ways. I just want to see if they have the balls enough to continue talking shit, but this time where I'm able see, hear and to respond and expose their lies.

"This honestly wasn't meant for anybody but those involved because I know they've read and are still reading this."

But you posted it for everyone to read.
What happened to you is reprehensible and hopefully you'll get justice.

[Observing]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

Notify the mods... hahahaha you sound like such an idiot!
Eccie doesn't give a fuck if a provider doesn't have common sense!
It's not a posting guideline, and they are not the stupidity police.

So-o-o-o-o...
You're calling OP stupid?

[Guest091417]

Lol see what i mean, I'm stupid because i got taken advantage of. Which of course means it's my fault, and couldn't possibly be considered rape huh.....? It means this guy supports rape if you're stupid enough to let it happen by going out drinking and not letting others drink and drive. I bet there isn't any female in your life who could agree with your thinking though. Not a spouse nor child. Because if a female shared even a remote sense of your thinking, I doubt we'd be blessed with your views on serious topics or misogynistic comments, now would we ....

[rockerrick]

Originally Posted by Observing

So-o-o-o-o...
You're calling OP stupid?

And you!