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Luke_Wyatt · 02-28-2017, 05:02 PM

I have a slight dilema and I haven't hobbied in several months because I have an uneasy feeling that when I show up at a provider's incall they are a little shocked by my size. I am what they classify as morbidity obese but nevertheless I have good hygiene and am overall a nice guy.
Should I let a provider know before arriving that I am overweight? I know some providers have disclaimers like NBA, but I haven't come across one that has No overweight guys, but I can tell by the look on their face that the ladies are a little disappointed because of my size.

alexissweet69 · 03-03-2017, 11:15 PM

You can give them a heads up, but that shouldn't be a deal breaker IMO

instfixer · 03-04-2017, 03:02 PM

A fat tip will make a fat guy look thin

Luke_Wyatt · 03-04-2017, 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alexissweet69

You can give them a heads up, but that shouldn't be a deal breaker IMO

Thanks for the response, my last couple of sessions I could tell the look on the provider's face that they were disappointed with my size.

Vivienne Rey · 03-07-2017, 03:38 PM

I can't imagine why it would be a problem. Or why a provider wouldn't advise of you of this beforehand. I imagine it makes for an uncomfortable experience. And your time is just as valuable as hers.

Lexxxy · 03-21-2017, 07:34 PM

You can tell providers ahead of time if you feel that it will be less awkward for you. I honestly don't care about a Gents weight, tattoos, income, religion, job, height, penis size, political views... as long as they are on time, hygienic, and respectful.

Lenufinn · 03-28-2017, 07:53 PM

Hi dear! it's sad to hear that you met such attitude from the girls side. Just feel yourself comfortable and be opened while you are making the agreement to the girls. Wish you to get the better experience and trust there are a lot of girls with whom you can get pleasure here. Me is one of them

xxx Lenu

DallasRain · 03-28-2017, 10:54 PM

I have a couple of really obese guys...size is not a factor in my sessions..there is always a way to have maximum fun

Zena · 03-29-2017, 08:31 AM

I agree with everyone here.

I'm a Provider, a bbw, a big girl, and size should not be a factor, especially for the GENTLEMAN! The ladies love all sizes, OK THE ♡GOOD♡ LADIES LOVE ALL SIZES, Esp...ladies over 35, more mature ones ! BUT yes , if it makes you feel better, please gently tell them before hand.

good luck ! & Happy hobbying!! ♡☆♡☆