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Geeman76 · 01-17-2017, 02:01 PM

Fellas we all have had them. The session with a new provider that did not fully represent her pictures and when u get there she is not what you expected and instead of walking out, you stay. Then when it is over u have that walk of shame back to your car asking yourself why. Or even that session where you see a nice looking provider but it starts to go down hill in the first 5-10 mins and you regret staying. And you hate yourself for not just waiting to see someone you have seen and proven themselves to u already or just went ahead and spent the extra 💰 on someone else.

And Ladies, it's a lil different for you, but have u had a session that you regretted after it was over that u ran to the shower or had a brief moment where u had to re-evaluate why u hobby lol.

To say to you all. Put a end to regrets and walk away from those appointments before they start in 2017.

Without calling anyone out. Share your thoughts or just remember it's ok to walk away in 2017.

suiram77 · 01-17-2017, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Geeman76

Fellas we all have had them. The session with a new provider that did not fully represent her pictures and when u get there she is not what you expected and instead of walking out, you stay. Then when it is over u have that walk of shame back to your car asking yourself why. Or even that session where you see a nice looking provider but it starts to go down hill in the first 5-10 mins and you regret staying. And you hate yourself for not just waiting to see someone you have seen and proven themselves to u already or just went ahead and spent the extra �� on someone else.

And Ladies, it's a lil different for you, but have u had a session that you regretted after it was over that u ran to the shower or had a brief moment where u had to re-evaluate why u hobby lol.

To say to you all. Put a end to regrets and walk away from those appointments before they start in 2017.

Without calling anyone out. Share your thoughts or just remember it's ok to walk away in 2017.

Well G76 I always leave if this happen to me, I'm not the guy that will stay Hell No!!! It's my money and time as well so duces. I have only experienced this twice in 12 years of hobbying, but if she don't look nothing like her pics or her attitude is on 100 and incall is dirty!!! then it's no walk of shame for me, it's the walk of fame bye bye lol. There is a lot I can deal with, but dirty incall and bad Attitude or is not even remotely close to her pics is a huge deal breaker for me. I don't mind a lil weight gain at all I'm a fan of all sizes really, besides I'm a big guy so I have no problem with a woman with some extra pounds.

For me great attitude and cleanliness and down to earth trumps her services all day. I don't care how great her services is, if she has a bad attitude, incall is dirty, and is a completely different person than her pics, then I dismiss myself and her number is deleted before I get back to my car. If I stayed I Paid if I Dashed I kept my cash lol it's just that simple.

Megan_Heart · 01-17-2017, 02:50 PM

Most Definitely have ran to the shower a few times. Absolutely hate when someone comes to my incall right after an extremely sweaty stinky workout, & didn't bother to take a quick 5 minute shower at the gym before showing up. Uncleanliness is a total turnoff!!

BrownMan · 01-17-2017, 03:20 PM

Why didn't you refuse?

Megan_Heart · 01-17-2017, 03:31 PM

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Why didn't you refuse?

I didn't refuse because I couldn't tell he stunk until we were undressed, donated to, & session was already started. Best believe he didn't get a very long bj. Didnt want my face in that stinky area very long. Afterwards, I wish I didn't see him. It was not an enjoyable session to say the least.

mag7315 · 01-17-2017, 03:37 PM

Yes. She was on P411 available now. She claims to have a strict no review policy, but "blah, blah, blah I'm awesome and classy, I like to get to know my clients...". I get there. She's in a dress with front zip. We sit on the couch. She barely speaks. We kiss. No LFK, no DFK. I unzip her dress a little. She zips it back up. She says people can walk by the apartment. Hmmm, could always close the shades, nope. Her IOP is .01. We had CFS, but it's not very interesting. She's giving me a blow job, I reach my hand toward her head. Her arm flies up to block me. No CIM. I felt like I was in high school again.

I cursed to myself the whole way back to my car thinking I would have preferred jerking off to porn and saving a ton of money. "Why didn't I just go back and see xxxxxx". It wasn't really the money, it was the lost opportunity. I regret not sticking to providers with reviews rather than going for the appearance of hotness.

I decided later I'd keep trying until I found a provider I could count on for the kind of service I want and become a regular.

suiram77 · 01-17-2017, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by mag7315

Yes. She was on P411 available now. She claims to have a strict no review policy, but "blah, blah, blah I'm awesome and classy, I like to get to know my clients...". I get there. She's in a dress with front zip. We sit on the couch. She barely speaks. We kiss. No LFK, no DFK. I unzip her dress a little. She zips it back up. She says people can walk by the apartment. Hmmm, could always close the shades, nope. Her IOP is .01. We had CFS, but it's not very interesting. She's giving me a blow job, I reach my hand toward her head. Her arm flies up to block me. No CIM. I felt like I was in high school again.

I cursed to myself the whole way back to my car thinking I would have preferred jerking off to porn and saving a ton of money. "Why didn't I just go back and see xxxxxx". It wasn't really the money, it was the lost opportunity. I regret not sticking to providers with reviews rather than going for the appearance of hotness.

I decided later I'd keep trying until I found a provider I could count on for the kind of service I want and become a regular.

Lmao that was crazy and funny at the same time sorry to hear that happen to you Mag, I'm sure this will be a very interesting thread for both providers and hobbyist.

Tsmokies · 01-17-2017, 05:16 PM

I've had a few but too few to mention. Location, location, location and 1/2 hour meet n greet visits are men's best friend in this pay 2 play world. Makes it easy to tell if you want a return visit

suiram77 · 01-17-2017, 05:24 PM

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I've had a few but too few to mention. Location, location, location and 1/2 hour meet n greet visits are men's best friend in this pay 2 play world. Makes it easy to tell if you want a return visit

I one hundred million percent agree with you Tsmokies, I have a half hour only rule on all first appointments in most cases. It's the best way and less costly way to see if you want to see that provider again or not. A lot of providers don't offer half hour anymore and this just may be one the main reasons why. Most are smart enough to know that men like to try shit first before they commit to seconds and thirds lol.

By them eliminating half hour option and only offer an hour or longer they will at least make more money in the process, that way if we don't come back then at least they was compensated properly. Honestly you can't blame them if this is one of their reasons for no half hour, I get it and understand. most don't want a revolving door so by having no BNG and no half hours option they will most definitely eliminate that.

Just my 2 cents

honeydavis · 01-19-2017, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by mag7315

Yes. She was on P411 available now. She claims to have a strict no review policy, but "blah, blah, blah I'm awesome and classy, I like to get to know my clients...". I get there. She's in a dress with front zip. We sit on the couch. She barely speaks....

Didn't know talking was a desired trait? I used to talk a lot back in the day because I had no one else to talk to except when a gent came over. I feel I probably talked too much sometimes.

suiram77 · 01-19-2017, 05:33 AM

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Didn't know talking was a desired trait? I used to talk a lot back in the day because I had no one else to talk to except when a gent came over. I feel I probably talked too much sometimes.

No Honey D I don't think you talk a lot at all you cool and sexy love

VIP Mya Michelle · 01-19-2017, 05:49 AM

I gave a guy his money back one time, it was a 2 hour session. After he got 3 nuts in one hour (also with no interest in conversation or a gfe session just a fuck doll session) and was still trying to do the most with no breaks... I gave him $400 back... No Thanks I am not a Toy...

ElisabethWhispers · 01-19-2017, 11:25 AM

Sometimes, the chemistry isn't there.

Everyone has a feature, or a personality trait, that's appealing and when things go south, I try to consider that and I do recognize that sometimes, in such a personal business ... that sometimes a situation isn't the best.

It's rare that I've asked for an appointment to end prematurely. Have I done it? Yes. Have there been a few situations where I've had to be curt and tell someone to get out of my incall and even return his funds?

A few times.

But generally, if an appointment isn't going great, I try to make the best of it.

I call it the "Close your eyes and think of France" type of appointments. But honestly ... those are few and far between.

That's why I find screening to be so important. It goes further, for me, than just finding out if they're a safe appointment and a good person to have over.

I really try to get to know someone new before meeting them. Know their desires and wants. That type of screening, and requiring to speak to someone before getting together, really limits those type of negative/unpleasant encounters.

Just my thoughts in it.

If a female just isn't cutting it for you, but she's being professional and trying to do a great job for you, there is something to be said about being gracious about it.

There is an old yarn that I don't hear too much these days. This is a game for kings. If you cannot afford to lose an hour or two, and the funds to go with it, then you probably shouldn't be playing in these expensive fields.

Because I've never known a man who has done this several times, with many different women, who hasn't had a sub par experience for whatever reason.

It's just the type of business we're in. VERY personal. Very intimate and when two people are naked, and somewhat vulnerable, it's a different dynamic and the business model isn't like regular ...crap. I lost my direction of thought.

Think that I made my point anyway.

Warmly,
Elisabeth

honeydavis · 01-19-2017, 12:08 PM

I haven't had many meet ups that I regret, however there is one time that comes to mind that I gave a little back. For reasons beyond my control I was running 15 minutes late for a meeting and the guy waited in the parking lot for me. The meeting went great despite my tardyness. At the end when he gave me a birthday card, I gave him $50 back and told him I was sorry for making him wait. He tried to refuse but I was insistent. I told him time is valuable and his just as much as mine.

Charlie Brown · 01-19-2017, 01:23 PM

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I haven't had many meet ups that I regret, however there is one time that comes to mind that I gave a little back. For reasons beyond my control I was running 15 minutes late for a meeting and the guy waited in the parking lot for me. The meeting went great despite my tardiness. At the end when he gave me a birthday card, I gave him $50 back and told him I was sorry for making him wait. He tried to refuse but I was insistent. I told him his time is valuable just as much as mine.

Brook....HELLO BROOK !!!!........are you reading this ?