I love both being restrained and restraining a partner! I like it as a tool to focus attention on what the restainer (Dom) wants the restrainee (Sub) to focus on . . . Physically or emotionally. Restrained desire is a tease that builds anticipation. Restraint during stimulation or touch focuses the mind on the sensations. Restraint while in an exposed posture (say on your knees, face down, wrists and ankles attached to a spreader bar and ass in the air) focuses your attention on the sensation of exposure.
I've never tried restraint in a MMF, MFM, FMF, or FFM scenario but I'm thinking about adding it to the bucket list right now!
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