Ladies is it disrespectful if a guy consistently requests to be your first appointment

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by Raquel Ryder

Lol I love when he creams in me.

this quote will cause conflict within my dreams tonight especially after viewing your showcase

[Raquel Ryder]

I'm guessing you never saw my Tumblr or YouTube.

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

this quote will cause conflict within my dreams tonight especially after viewing your showcase

[LexusLover]

There are other reasons for being "first" in the day, besides hygiene.

[Grace Preston]

I've never found it to be disrespectful.. it just generally makes me giggle. In order to be my first, you've generally got to be willing to be at my place before 9AM... most of the time my "early" appointment is between 6ish and 8ish depending on what city I'm in.

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

quick question....if you've never had a request for first last etc.I'm assuming what offends you about your business operations is only a hypothetical right ? since you've never experienced it at least from the example you gave.

and do you not believe YMMV ever applies to you at any time? I personally think YMMV applies to guys and gals and could also include personal external factors you know just this thing called life.

I get offended when a gent assumes anything about how I run my business. Your initial statement in general is an assumption. I see guys on here say things all the time that make these grand assumptions that "all whores are the same."

So, to answer your second question, no, I do not believe that ymmv applies to every provider. Look at my reviews, for one. Consistently positive. Other providers are just as good. (I agree that Yummy is one of them.)

I run my sessions and my work flow in a particular way for this very reason; so that I don't get too tired, etc, and can bring my A game to every session.

Am I a human being and a woman and do I have bad/off days? Of course I do, everybody does. But, if something was happening that would interfere with my ability to be able to provide a good session that much, then I would just reschedule. For instance, the other week my kitty went missing and I was frantic looking for her. I had a sesh planned that day and so I rescheduled it.

He was disappointed but understanding and we were able to have a nice session the following day. I knew if I had gone into that session I would have been way too stressed out and distracted so I just didn't even bother trying. Better for everyone all around.

[oilfieldscum]

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

I've been first

Keep telling yourself that....maybe that will make it so.

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I get offended when a gent assumes anything about how I run my business. Your initial statement in general is an assumption. I see guys on here say things all the time that make these grand assumptions that "all whores are the same."

Hey Bae that's why my OP is general not specific to anyone and mostly about my own personal experience. It was meant for you to chime in without feeling what you feel. Please don't take your frustration out on me

[lisa.lisa0302]

Yes it's rude.

1.How do you know what is going on in a providers day....

2. What is first one of the day..does it start after midnight????

If she is done at 2am...takes a catnap for 3hrs...sees you at 7am....are you still first...,

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Yes it's rude.

1.How do you know what is going on in a providers day....

2. What is first one of the day..does it start after midnight????

If she is done at 2am...takes a catnap for 3hrs...sees you at 7am....are you still first...,

in a normal world I'm talking 8-5...if she's low volume and sees 1-2 a day then fine but if she's high volume then why is it rude to want to be first to eliminate YMMV issues. Again if you're the first one of the day to compliment her then you can see her smile, but if your like the 3rd or 4th then it might fall on deaf ears. (ok that is a lame excuse)