Basic Expectations

[1blackman1]

After writing a comment in another thread I really was left with a question. Fortunately I have not really had issues in the hobby over the past 12 or so years. But I guess since times have changed so much over time it would be reasonable to at least know what the basic expectations are. When I say basic I am really referring to things that both parties should go into a session expecting without a need for discussion.

I would think these things are or should be part of a regular GFE session 1/2 hour or more (some of these things I personally don't do but I would say they should be included in the basic rate).

1) payment of the agreed upon rate
2) some kissing
3) DATY
4) BBBJNQ (swallowing should be on there but i understand that it isn't for everyone and that is fine too)
5) covered multiple positions
6) at least a second round if you are still within the paid for time
7) time only being counted from the beginning of actual activities rather than from the time you walk in the door (exclude things like warm up chit chat, maybe start with the initiation of making out or foreplay)

I would not even think to start discussing whether the basics above are things that need to be figured out prior to the session. However, from many recent reviews (last year or so) it seems that the basic expectations don't really apply and that you need to discuss every aspect.

Of course for folks that are dealing with street walkers or advanced street walkers (i.e. most but not all BP chicks) they are volume producers so they will go with as few of the above as possible since it is not about the time as much as "how can I get this guy out the door - quick nut and he gotta go so I can get the next guy in".

[Mysterydate023]

My basic expectations, when I book with a lady from Eccie or P411 are that:

1: she will be ready at the agreed upon time. The women make such huge stinks about YOU being on time, it irks me when she texts back "I need 10 more minutes". I get the previous guy ran long, but maybe schedule more free time between pay checks?
1B: don't count the donation in front of me. Do it in the bathroom, if you must. But that wastes time...see below.
2: she will be showered and not necessarily dressed to the nines or in her best lingerie, but at least not look like I interrupted laundry day
3: she won't waste my time when I get there. I've met several times with women who are putting together the fine details of the meet, like candles, turning off her phone, etc. Some can take a few seconds, others for several minutes. A favorite of mine does this.
3B: ignore your fucking phone! The time to set up another paycheck is after I leave, not during.
4: lets dispense with the "paying for companionship" bullshit. I'm paying to fuck a hot babe, and I'm paying to fuck her for xx minutes/hours. If I can pop twice in the time, then so be it. If it is one and done after only half a session, then I feel taken advantage of. However, this isn't much of a problem...usually
5: she will at least act as if she is enjoying it.
6: several activities are just assumed. I shouldn't have to ask about daty, bbbj, multiple positions, 69, etc. GFE, folks.
7: she supplies the covers. It's amateurish not to.
8: she is able to supply either a clean, damp towel, or some form of wipe to clean up with after a round is over. Again, it separates the pros from the BP girls
9: as soon as she's done, she won't start to get dressed. Snuggling or naked conversation is nice...unless time is almost up. While I am very careful about time, I am always appreciative when the lady doesn't hit the eject button at :60 on the dot.

[holmes50]

For myself, when I schedule with a quality provider those activities don't have to be discussed. Do your homework first. Be respectful, show up freshly showered or shower there in her presence. The quality provider will handle the rest. There will be some ymmv along the way both good and bad.

[Katymarie]

I agree with all that is said.

Do your homework and read reviews.
You will get what you pay for with most ESCORTS........

I don't like to use the word PROFESSIONAL.
But I guess some of us are.

[wildwing]

Originally Posted by Katymarie

I agree with all that is said.

Do your homework and read reviews.
You will get what you pay for with most ESCORTS........

I don't like to use the word PROFESSIONAL.
But I guess some of us are.

Nice lighting/ candles, no smoking in room before or during, good temperature, lite makeup, no perfume, and all the stuff you said above. Having mouthwash and cups available.

[Katymarie]

Originally Posted by wildwing

Nice lighting/ candles, no smoking in room before or during, good temperature, lite makeup, no perfume, and all the stuff you said above. Having mouthwash and cups available.

Very true also.....

[ilovethemgirls68]

Originally Posted by holmes50

For myself, when I schedule with a quality provider those activities don't have to be discussed. Do your homework first. Be respectful, show up freshly showered or shower there in her presence. The quality provider will handle the rest. There will be some ymmv along the way both good and bad.

+1

[Lookin_4_Fun]

I do my research before I make an appointment, so I usually don't have any issues with the activities that are offer. However, I do have an issue with the atmosphere and a lady's appearance ever now and then. To me these two things determined whether or not an appointment is going to be one of those "wow experiences". I love entering a room to find it nice, clean, lights turned down, and some music playing. The lady is freshly out of the shower, hair is fixed, has makeup and perfume on, and has on nice lingerie or a dress.

[myren1900]

^^^^

+ 1

[Nicolet]

I don't offer incalls anymore, when I did, I did everything I could to make my guest feel comfortable. The same goes for outcalls, for the most part. I don't have the control of the atmosphere in that case.
Candles lit, soft music playing, an offering of a cold drink, showers are offered (I don't mind getting in the shower with you), sometimes I have a little nosh available or even cook lunch or dinner. I kept a bowl of Lifesavers and mints, just in case.
Sometimes I answered the door in a towel (when requested), some sexy lingerie with stockings and heels, or something comfortable (again, requested).
Sometimes if I've gotten to know a gentleman before meeting, I'll buy him a small gift. One gentleman I gave a new razor that I knew he would use. Another gentleman liked bourbon, so I brought a bottle of Makers Mark with me.
Then there were times when I would do something completely different and unexpected. I sprinkled rose petals from the front door leading to my bedroom, with small votive candles lighting the way.
Afterwards (2 or more bells rung and lots of giggling), I ALWAYS offer a warm, damp wash cloth and a towel, and a shower.
Hopefully the gentlemen who have crossed paths with me felt welcome and thoroughly enjoyed themselves.

[ilovethemgirls68]

Originally Posted by Lookin_4_Fun

I do my research before I make an appointment, so I usually don't have any issues with the activities that are offer. However, I do have an issue with the atmosphere and a lady's appearance ever now and then. To me these two things determined whether or not an appointment is going to be one of those "wow experiences". I love entering a room to find it nice, clean, lights turned down, and some music playing. The lady is freshly out of the shower, hair is fixed, has makeup and perfume on, and has on nice lingerie or a dress.

You'd LOVE Britt Baye. She should give lessons on setting the atmosphere!

[Lena Duvall]

#6 & 7 are how those 30 minute dates *air quotes* end up lasting 50 minutes.

[justhaveinfun]

Originally Posted by ilovethemgirls68

You'd LOVE Britt Baye. She should give lessons on setting the atmosphere!

You are right my friend. BB knows how to throw down a good atmosphere

[Melissa Madyson]

Nicolet said her post so well....She thinks like me, a hopeless romantic..lol

I love to have many options for a guy to choose from when he comes to my home. I keep it clean and stocked with all the nice things a man might need to feel relaxed and comfortable.

No rush here. I am not a clock watcher, just a lady who loves to enjoy a sweet gentlemen's company from time to time.

Hope to keep entertaining the fine men of the South...

M.M.

[el guero]

Originally Posted by holmes50

For myself, when I schedule with a quality provider those activities don't have to be discussed. Do your homework first. Be respectful, show up freshly showered or shower there in her presence. The quality provider will handle the rest. There will be some ymmv along the way both good and bad.

I follow these same rules and never had an issue or misunderstanding with any provider.