Why?

[LyricNickky]

So I just stood up and I'm just wondering why someone would even show up just to turn around and walk out. It was a total waste of my time and probably his. I'm just baffled and pissed bc I could have scheduled someone who would have showed and not be screwed now... I just do not get the inconsideration.
#rantover #fingerscrossed

[gacgacgac2678]

Could be any number of reasons.

[Guest072619]

crap. I'm sure this thread will turn out completely different than every other thread started by a provider voicing her frustrations... I'm sure every post here will be polite.. Supportive... Understanding... U know, everything the Austin co-Ed is known for... Good luck, chica. Namaste.
Carry on... *cracks a beer and grabs the popcorn*

[TemptationTammie]

Playing Devil's advocate here but....
Would it be better to go through a session if the guy isn't into it or if things are forced? We can't force a connection on their part.
Maybe he liked a showcase or reviews but too nervous to follow through or maybe there was a bad vibe when he got there. Maybe it was lack of attraction. Or maybe he is a game player who gets off on wasting a ladies time.
Yes, it's frustrating when it happens, and can cost us money and time.

[3daygetaway]

Maybe you should double-book appointments at popular times and have a bidding war on your doorstep. Then you know the winner REALLY wants to see you.

[Britttany_love]

This has to be the dumbest advice. This is not an auction for pussy book the rate or wait for a special. If they REALLY want to see you they will book. Why would you tell a provider to purposly double book appointments so she fucks up her business and reputation!!

[Claire She Blows]

Maybe you reminded him of someone. I had a gentleman refuse to see me (after meeting me) because I looked like a relative of his. It could be any number of things. I wouldn't take it personally, sweetheart. For every guy who doesn't want to see you, there are a half dozen waiting in line

[tzv13]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Maybe you reminded him of someone. I had a gentleman refuse to see me (after meeting me) because I looked like a relative of his. It could be any number of things. I wouldn't take it personally, sweetheart. For every guy who doesn't want to see you, there are a half dozen waiting in line

+1

[3daygetaway]

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

This has to be the dumbest advice. This is not an auction for pussy book the rate or wait for a special. If they REALLY want to see you they will book. Why would you tell a provider to purposly double book appointments so she fucks up her business and reputation!!

Yes: it was dumb. But I was going for smiles; try one on...they're fun!!

[Britttany_love]

OK

Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Yes: it was dumb. But I was going for smiles; try one on...they're fun!!

I smile all the time, however not when a guy tells a provider how to run her business with such dumb advice. You make it well known to the ladies that you are cheap so why would you even bring up biding on pussy when you know you would be one talking shit if you lost.

[Falstaff512]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Maybe you reminded him of someone. I had a gentleman refuse to see me (after meeting me) because I looked like a relative of his. It could be any number of things. I wouldn't take it personally, sweetheart. For every guy who doesn't want to see you, there are a half dozen waiting in line

.
Yes, this.

I once walked away from a session because the perfectly reviewed provider I had lined up reminded me of my freakin' sister. I hadn't seen pics--it was just on word of mouth. Nobody's fault, except in retrospect, maybe, my monger friend's, who had always had a thing for my sister! Haha.

But really? The guy couldn't have done SOMETHING about wasting your time? Not even paid a cancellation fee? After all, it wasn't your fault (if this scenario is the case).

Ugh. Preparing for the inevitable "WK" brickbats to come my way, but I don't care in the the case CSB describes.

What DO you do--whether provider or monger--in a situation like CSB describes?

As for you, OP, I just wouldn't worry about it unless you've got fake or out-of-date pics that you don't actually resemble.

[3daygetaway]

When you're right, you're right!! That being said, I spend about 60% of my discretionary money on hobbying each month: with my income that makes me both one of the most generous and cheapest hobbyists around. What I lack in cash I offer in laughs. Sorry that wasn't enough to impress you.

I was just reading a : thanks for reminding me about your shitty attitude. If you don't want my opinion or bullshit, either block me or request this post be moved to the powder room. That being said, fuck you for trying to make me feel bad.

[Britttany_love]

Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

When you're right, you're right!! That being said, I spend about 60% of my discretionary money on hobbying each month: with my income that makes me both one of the most generous and cheapest hobbyists around. What I lack in cash I offer in laughs. Sorry that wasn't enough to impress you.

I was just reading a : thanks for reminding me about your shitty attitude. If you don't want my opinion or bullshit, either block me or request this post be moved to the powder room. That being said, fuck you for trying to make me feel bad.

Blah quit crying! If you dont want opinions dont post stuff in coed and then get pissed when you get a reply you dont like. My opinions and the things I say in threads are real and I dont sugar coat shit. Your allowed your opinion so own it when you get called out. I keep things real and thats why most people like me. If they dont fuck them. If you cant handle it you're not the type of guy I would want to see bcd. I see plenty of guys who have strong opinions on the board but I dont discriminate against them because they are completely different bcd as am I. Im actually a very sweet girl but can be bitchy when needed. If you cant stand a strong sweet opinionated whore then get out of here.

[3daygetaway]

People like you?!?!?
Nah. Not buyin' it.

I'll take the Pepsi challenge with you any day of the week: people like my attitude and my posts more than yours.

Someone please set up a poll: me or her; whose posts are more pleasing and welcome here?

[Britttany_love]

Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

When you're right, you're right!! That being said, I spend about 60% of my discretionary money on hobbying each month: with my income that makes me both one of the most generous and cheapest hobbyists around. What I lack in cash I offer in laughs. Sorry that wasn't enough to impress you.

I was just reading a : thanks for reminding me about your shitty attitude. If you don't want my opinion or bullshit, either block me or request this post be moved to the powder room. That being said, fuck you for trying to make me feel bad.

You might be careful sharing locker room info it appears guys cant keep shit private either.