Why the AA dislike?

[datred]

I've been asked by a Black provider if I've ever seen a Hispanic provider. When I said yes, they wouldn't respond back.

Everyone is uncomfortable with anyone that doesn't look like them. If they don't look like them, they better have the same religion or politics else they are stupid and beneath them. My concrete guy is black and gave me dirty looks until I bought him lunch and we both found out we enjoyed watching The Young and the Restless now and then, think Victor is boss, and then it was best bud time.

Racism is everywhere. BP girls see me, and instantly raise their rates based off my skin color. I was told by a provider just last Saturday I had to get out of the room as her black friend was coming by with her goods and he hates white people so I lost 30 minutes I had paid for.

What is wrong is when a business or public service denies services based on skin color. Once hooking is legal in Arkansas, I'd sue her ass and get free pussy the rest of your life as settlement. She'd hate giving it up for free, which would make it soo much hotter.

[Danielle Reid]

Whining about being black on a hooker board won't win you any prizes. Another day, same shit

[datred]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Whining about being black on a hooker board won't win you any prizes. Another day, same shit

I read this as Winning about being black on a hooker board.. Which made me think BBC.. Which made me want to see if that Austin Powers Swedish Dick Enlarger is as good as he said in the book.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by datred

Which made me want to see if that Austin Powers Swedish Dick Enlarger is as good as he said in the book.

Dammit, I have an American dick, not a Swedish dick. I doubt it'll work on me.

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[RJinLR]

Originally Posted by BBWDeAnna

also be aware..many WHITE guys(and lets face it thats what alot of the hobby is) will NOT see providers who see black men, therefore ladies cater to those gents for business reasons.

This was my first guess when I started hobbying. Everyone talks about the management aspect but I bet this is a big factor also.

[BBWDeAnna]

The funny part..is those same guys would see girls that had NBA policies yet were dating had dated..had babies by a black guy..I guess for them it was ignorance was bliss..

I personally when I started in 2002 had 2 well known gents on the boards inform me "I needed to be smart in who I saw"..when questioned they were referencing seeing anyone except older white guys..true story.

And I ment to inform as he is finding out that now he will have THIS post against him..questioning a girls policies pisses them off..its the whole "my body my rules" mentality..so while there is no going back(other than changing handles)..anytime a guy questions a girl and her reasons the W.E comes out..aka wife experience...u know when the husband questions the wife..wife gets pissed and cuts him off..its a valid concern for a new blk guy but 1 that never gets resolved

As I said..embrace the chase..enjoy the hunt and find someone that will see u

Originally Posted by RJinLR

This was my first guess when I started hobbying. Everyone talks about the management aspect but I bet this is a big factor also.

[RJinLR]

Telling a girl she should only see old white dudes is more in violation of "my body my rules" than wondering why she won't see you specifically...but I get you.

Biases come in to play and if you're a racist you want to pretend the girl isn't screwing black guys before she sees you. Just how as a 30something I want to pretend I'm not getting sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths) of 75 year olds.

[BBWDeAnna]

Haha..the hobby is all smoke and mirrors..some guys gotta think they are first of the day..some girls need to be told they are the best..had guys tell me I shouldnt wear wedding rings..had 1 ask me to take them off once he arrived..I said we have 2 choices..we can play or I can hand your cash back and we go our separate ways..he smiled and said I guess I can overlook it..and we went on to be semi regular...but like thinking girls dont see blk guys either in hobby or personal life...its a mental thing..

Indeed I was shocked and I admit early.on I lost business when blk guys reviewed me..I had PM's in the old aspd from hobbyists that said "I wanted to see you but noticed you see black guys too"..funny part the mod at the time was BIG C and he was blk..I ask him about it as I waa new and he said ignore it and do what u think is best

As far as the "my body my rules" that was what was always said when this topic was often heavily discussed on the dallas forums..the statement I guess is true..but seems to be the "go to" to avoid an intelligent discussion..

Oh the stories I could tell...sad part I dont make a Conscious decision in regards to the race of the people I see..frankly its usually a suprise as I dont see where it matters so it doesnt come up...if I have to heavily screen or meet someone and need to know who I may ask but I dont base a decision on it

Im not lobbying for this guys biz as I probably cant see him either but it would be more due to the lack of references prolly as anything..thats aasuming he would wanna pay me even..not every blk guy likes a fat white girl hahaha..stereotyping s.o.b's lol

Originally Posted by RJinLR

Telling a girl she should only see old white dudes is more in violation of "my body my rules" than wondering why she won't see you specifically...but I get you.

Biases come in to play and if you're a racist you want to pretend the girl isn't screwing black guys before she sees you. Just how as a 30something I want to pretend I'm not getting sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths) of 75 year olds.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Several reasons were touched upon as far as why black men experience difficulty in the hobby... Also, it is a known fact that ladies who are managed by black men are typically not allowed by their managers to see other black men. They don't want to risk exposing them to other potential managers. And management in the hobby is a widespread issue, so that could be a big part of it.

Was whining covered as a reason ladies have NBA policies?

[mwise]

I've known white guys who stop watching certain porn stars because they finally did an interracial scene! Makes no fucking since to me... but what ever...
BBC is taboo, but because of porn, most guys think its the norm... so maybe that's why? I've got lots of black friends and they are quite normal in the pkg dept. Matter of fact, I think some of them are more upset about the BBC expectations girls have of them before they have sex. (outside the hobby of course)
Some white guys are well endowed, some black guys are well endowed. Your never going to be a providers biggest and if that's not the reason, then its 2016 not 1912!

[BrazilianRudeBoy]

Thanks for everyones input! I'll be sure to take everyone's advice to mind

[Italianbeauty4u]

You can always come get an awesome Nuru and experience something totally different. If you are willing to go through my screening, I'd be more than happy to see you honey. I post no AA under 40 but that's just to weed out the thugs and pimps that might want to contact me...kinda keeps them at bay, but I'll see anyone that is respectful and polite!

[Imsecretlyaninja]

My wife likes black guys but that's probably because she's a size queen lol. I personally have no problems either way. Diversity is what makes the world go round. If a woman chooses not to see black guys more power to her, if she chooses to see black guys more power to her. Has no bearing on my decision to see her one way or another. I will say this if there are any black providers out there who long to see a white guy and are struggling to make it happen lmk. I got you!!

On a side note I firmly believe we will be a one race world within a hundred years or so. And we all know how pretty mixed race people are so woot woot