Time waster thread

[BabyDallass]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

I don't see why the ones that this isn't about worry so much. If someone makes a thread about stupid cunts doing Cash n Dash, I wouldn't feel like I'm apart of that. But to each their own. No one likes drama, but they sure do comment on it...right ok.

You would think right? But I'm sure some are sitting back laughing thinking haha glad she went through that, like the negative comments by the few negative people on here...but my date tonight made up for that idiot last night that's how this hobby works, but I'll be damned if I keep letting guys stand us up! Let us do it and they would be all over the damn boards bitching..

[RJinLR]

If someone NCNS you/stand you up, yes, absolutely call them out.

I agree with the previous poster though in lumping everyone together as "time wasters," because there's a big difference in how people use that term. I think this was discussed just the other day, where some ladies were insinuating that if you PM them but aren't trying to set a date, that is considered "time wasting." I personally don't want to be put in the same group as the guy who stood up BD just because I PM a provider with a couple of questions but am not looking to schedule right now.

[Danielle Reid]

There's a difference between asking questions with the intentions of scheduling a date within a week or two and PMing is every few days asking how our day is or other small talk and you haven't bothered to schedule a date yet. I understand how life works. You could say "Let's meet on this date at this time" but have to cancel because life got in the way. That's fine IF: 1. You cancel ahead of time if possible. If we book a room just for you or make special arrangements just for you then compensation is fair (I hardly ever ask for it, but some ladies do)
2. You do not make a habit of scheduling then canceling. I understand life getting in the way once, but if you can't keep the date scheduled after the 3rd attempt then you either have the worse bad luck or you just like yanking my chain.

I have guys that message me "Hi" and nothing else. I also had a guy set up a BDSM fetish date. I checked his references (who took 2 days to get back to me btw) and then asked him for details on what to expect during our time together. He refused to give me details, saying he explained what he wanted in the first message (no, he just boasted about being a real trained Dom) and said he'll just go somewhere else. Really? He couldn't tell me what he wanted. He just wanted me to walk into a fetish date blind, with no idea who he is. I've dealt with fake Doms before and he smelled like one.

So he is a time waster. He wasted my time by having me check his references, schedule a date, and ask him a fairly reasonable question that he refused to answer. I hope he didn't beat the next girl because he came off as violent.

[BabyDallass]

Excellent points! If they only knew how often we go through this type of shit! We deal with more of them, than they see providers. I swear I don't even post half of the time wasters...it's a waste of time! But I'll be damned if I keep letting them get by with this shit! I had a regular I have seen a few, canceled on his 3rd time to book, I told him he's cut off!! I really don't get it and never will...I think some really do it to be ass oles and get their Little Rock's off texting us all before the date and what they want to do, then you hear nothing...just some dumb ass excuse how they had a wreck, or wife called, had something come up that they didn't know they had to do, I could go on and on...ladies what's the most common time wasters excuse in your book?

[RJinLR]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

There's a difference between asking questions with the intentions of scheduling a date within a week or two and PMing is every few days asking how our day is or other small talk and you haven't bothered to schedule a date yet. I understand how life works. You could say "Let's meet on this date at this time" but have to cancel because life got in the way. That's fine IF: 1. You cancel ahead of time if possible. If we book a room just for you or make special arrangements just for you then compensation is fair (I hardly ever ask for it, but some ladies do)
2. You do not make a habit of scheduling then canceling. I understand life getting in the way once, but if you can't keep the date scheduled after the 3rd attempt then you either have the worse bad luck or you just like yanking my chain.

I have guys that message me "Hi" and nothing else. I also had a guy set up a BDSM fetish date. I checked his references (who took 2 days to get back to me btw) and then asked him for details on what to expect during our time together. He refused to give me details, saying he explained what he wanted in the first message (no, he just boasted about being a real trained Dom) and said he'll just go somewhere else. Really? He couldn't tell me what he wanted. He just wanted me to walk into a fetish date blind, with no idea who he is. I've dealt with fake Doms before and he smelled like one.

So he is a time waster. He wasted my time by having me check his references, schedule a date, and ask him a fairly reasonable question that he refused to answer. I hope he didn't beat the next girl because he came off as violent.

I agree with all that.

[MrGiz]

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